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Nonprofit Radio for March 20, 2015: Your Board As Brand Ambassadors

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Roger SametzYour Board As Brand Ambassadors

Does your board know the basics of your brand? Do you? How many volumes in your story library and how do you build your board’s talent at sharing them? Roger Sametz is president and CEO of Sametz Blackstone Associates, a brand consultancy.

 

 


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Hello and welcome to tony martignetti non-profit radio big non-profit ideas for the other ninety five percent. I’m your aptly named host. Oh, i’m glad you’re with me. I’d be stricken with adaptive hypertrophy if i heard the thickening story of how you missed today’s show you’re bored as brand ambassadors does your board know the basics of your brand? Do you? How many volumes in your story library and how do you build your boards talent at sharing them? Roger sametz is president and ceo of sam it’s blackstone associates, a brand consultancy on tony’s. Take two a caution for your plan giving program part do we’re sponsored by generosity siri’s hosting multi charity five k runs and walks roger sametz is with me in the studio. He is the president and ceo of sammons, blackstone associates, boston based brand consultancy, integrating brand editorial and digital strategy with design and digital media. They work with academic research and cultural non-profits as well as corporations, roger rights and speaks widely on brand building he’s at sam it’s on twitter and his company is at sametz se m e t z dot com. Roger sametz welcome to the studio hyre glad to be here pleasure, but it have you why do we need board members to be brand ambassadors? Why important? Well, a lot of board members, you know, sign up to be born members and given of their time and money and expertise, and they don’t actually think they have to do more than that. But there’s no marketing or development department in any non-profit of any size that actually doesn’t need help, and board members have networks, so to the extent that they could be out there and actually talking to their networks in productive ways or opening the doors for the fund-raising staff for being an extension of the marketing staff that’s all to the good, and what does it mean to be a brand ambassador? Well, to be a brand ambassador means you have to sort of first sounds tautological understand the brand so that you could be out there and actually talk about the organization and what it means and what its vision is and how you might, you know, convince other people too participate, donate or even be another boardmember and this is something that can be trained since, since people don’t come to the organization most likely with these skills, they can learn them of, of course, well, boardmember is generally have you no aptitude for learning things, or they might not be on boards, so sure, and a lot of the work we do with boards actually happens in ah boardmember ng setting, or perhaps a retreat setting or some sort of special meeting because if you come into a board and you know you’re the finance guy or you’re the you know, you’re the lawyer who helps out or, you know, help out and, you know, some particular aspect going out and chatting may not be something that you’re actually conversant in or you have done, how come they’re not? We’re not natural ambassadors, brand ambassadors because it just come naturally? Well, i think part because we love the organization well, part of it may be that some people, of course, are better actually having conversations and drawing people out and others, but leaving that to one side, people come into organizations because they know some chunk of it. You know, you come in because you care about the kid’s education provoc you came or you care about, you know, their hunger. Programs or something. But you may not know the full scope of an organization. You may only know that sort of bit that, you know, touched you. So part of the education process is getting people up to speed on the whole of the organization, and then, you know, coaching them like you would coach anyone to anything to be more pompel all right, on dh to start this coaching training we need we need to recognize that there’s a gap between i think, the way they weigh the organs, they perceive the organization on the way they like it to be perceived the way they describe it on the way they’d like the organization to be perceived. Help them. See that there’s some dis constants there. Sure. I mean, often leadership in an organization or the person charged with stewarding. The board is pretty clear that their boardmember zehr not really good ambassadors. And then there are plenty of board members who, when asked to go out and, you know, be ambassadors, sort of look at the clock or look at the floor or say, not my thing. Um, but there’s a sort of an easy exercise. That one. Can actually do and it’s sort of fun, so take a board meeting. Take twenty minutes onboarding passed out a bunch of four by six index cards and ask boardmember is on one side. Write down how you actually describe this organization, the friends of yours at a cocktail party or a barbecue or something. Give them seven minutes or whatever to do that, and then ask them on the other side of the index card to write down what they might like to see if the local newspaper we’re writing an article on the organization so typically a newspaper will write, you know, x organisation comma, eh blank comma. So, you know, there was three or four words there that come after the name of the organization that are sort of pinned to it in the first paragraph of some article, so ask the board members what would you like to see their so the first side of the card is, how would you actually talk about this to some peer, a cocktail party? The second side is sort of this distillation, this aspirational take on how you’d like to actually have the organisation described. So you do that? And the reason you actually using index cards is so tony who’s sitting next to janice can’t say, oh, you know what? Jenna said so people have to commit to writing on and then you go around the room and you share what people have written on both sides, two hearts and two things. If history is our guide will happen, you either end up with or either or both, you’ll end up with very disconnected descriptions of the organization as you go around the room, you start to get thes looks like, oh my god, we really are not singing off the same page, and then when you get to the second side of the card, the aspirational side, you’ll get these completely different visions, so just doing this exercise will make pretty clear to people that, hey, we could use some training. Um, yeah, sounds it sounds very eye opening, especially the aspirational side, the way you’d like the organization to be described. But in your experience, you see lots of lots of disparate answers to those. Well, you do. I mean, boardmember czar recruited or they sign up, but they’re not part of leadership. I mean, they’re not sitting in the, you know, ceo or executive director’s office, so they may never have actually been in on the vision of the place. So there’s some catch up to do ok? And, uh, they need to become masters of the the brand, the organization’s brand, what are what are some elements of brand this a very ethereal thing that a lot of people regrettably reduced to logo, logo in tagline or something? Dahna we know it goes a lot deeper than that i’ve had guests on who have made that very clear, but what are some of these, whatever some of the concepts around in brand that we’re trying to grasp? Okay, so if you think of brand not as the label on the toothpaste box and certainly brand in the context of non-profits is fairly recent and there’s still a fair amount of resistance around that because there will be many people who think it’s too commercial. But if you think a brand, not as to your point, not is the logo a logo is sort of a symbol of the brand, but if you think about it as what an organization means, what it promises the expectations it sets well, then that’s a whole different way of of looking at brand so boardmember is have to sort of understand that, but took sort of get to that. I have to sort of get under that hood. They’re some sort of grand basics to go over. So we started a minute ago to talk about what is an organization. Means so you need to understand. Okay? What’s the organization’s vision. They may not be clear on that. What are our areas of focus? Which means, you know, if we’re an anti hunger organization, how we actually you know what? One of the areas in which we’re working to accomplish eradicating hunger, what of the roles we play? You could be a convener. You could be, you know, an inventor. You could be any number of things. But constituency out there are not gonna remember seventeen programs that you have. So you need to sort of. Boyle is down into a finite number. I don’t know. Three, five areas of focus and rolls that people can actually remember. And then the sort of more evocative side of this. What are the brand attributes that you want? Associate it. So these air generally adjective. So to take commercial metaphor here. You know, volvo has always been associated with safety. Then they sort of managed the product and brand slightly differently, and they kept safety and added performance. So organizations tend to have attributes that they own that are already associating with them, and attributes that they would like to have associated with them, which will call aspirational. So if you work through these areas of focus, the mission, envision the rolls and the attributes both owned an aspirational you get a pretty good sense of the underpinnings of how an organization can be presented externally. All right, we need to dive deeper into some of this because it sounds i mean, it’s it’s very basic to the organization, the its promise. What are the expectations? I know when you didn’t mention that i know is part of it. How do you measure success? This is not something that, uh, you know, if it’s not already clear, we’re not gonna be ableto answer all these questions in a in a board meeting. Is strategic planning up a part of this process? Well, strategic planning certainly could be part of the process, but leadership also may know some of this, but the board may not, so no, some of it so you certainly could have sessions where you educate or you could use the board too, actually surface these by putting a big post its around the room and actually putting these topics down and writing down different suggestions and then sort of figuring out where you are. Okay, we’re gonna go out for a break and when we return, of course, roger and i’m going to keep talking about your board as brand ambassadors stay with us, you’re tuned to non-profit radio tony martignetti also hosts a podcast for the chronicle of philanthropy fund-raising fundamentals is a quick ten minute burst of fund-raising insights published once a month. Tony’s guests are expert in crowdfunding, mobile giving event fund-raising direct mail and donor cultivation. Really all the fund-raising issues that make you wonder am i doing this right? Is there a better way there is? Find the fund-raising fundamentals archive it. Tony martignetti dot com that’s marketmesuite n e t t i remember there’s a g before the end, thousands of listeners have subscribed on itunes. You can also learn maura. The chronicle website. Philanthropy dot com fund-raising fundamentals the better way. Welcome back to big non-profit ideas for the other ninety five percent. Let’s. Do some live listener love and let’s do it starting abroad. Tokyo, japan and multiple tokyo, japan and musashino in japan. Konnichiwa, seoul, south korea always so loyal soul. Unbelievable! Anya haserot to our listeners in seoul and in china, we’ve got none jing and guangzhou konnichi wa live listen love here in the u, s st louis, missouri, sioux falls, south dakota, san francisco, california, new york, new york welcome each of you and, of course, podcast pleasantries to those listening wherever you are at whatever time on whatever device pleasantries to the podcast listeners over ten thousand of you and to our affiliates, affiliate affection love each of you lots of alliteration, zon non-profit radio an abundance of them. I admire. I like now. I like a little rations. Roger i yesterday i was speaking at a at a a present. I did a presentation on, uh, hosting a panel, and i met a boardmember for ah who’s on the big apple circus board. I don’t know if you’re familiar with big circus. There sure are a lot to new york and one of the things she lamented is that they’re not too well known, but i think she was an excellent brand ambassador because within a minute she had me understanding how first, reminding me that it is a non-profit which a lot of people don’t know, but that they use clowning techniques to help children in a bereavement program that they have, and also a clown, techniques in education, on some of the outreach in the school programs that they have. And she ticked off like three or four things within a minute or a minute and a half that i had no idea of the big apple circus did. Um, and i just i i complimented around being ah ah, an outstanding bruh broad no, outstanding brand ambassador that was jenny keim, virginia chambers kind. But jenny keim is what she goes by. I was really struck teo to meet a riel what i thought was a real good brand ambassador boardmember well, it seems like she was pretty clear on as we were talking about before the break the organization’s rolls? Yeah, it’s areas of focus, she made it clear to you, you know that it wasn’t on profit, which could have been ambiguous, and she clearly engaged you. So whether she comes by this naturally or it’s been soaking in it or had some training you, but i don’t know, but that is what we’re aiming for. I urged her i told her that if her fellow board members are not as good ambassadors as she, that she should listen to this exact show because you were coming on the next day, just yesterday, some of these basics that we were just talking about seems to me that the organization should already know all the stuff that you mentioned. Mission values, expectations who with constituents he should already be known factors leadership certainly should know all that, but sometimes they actually get a little bit down in the weeds. So if you’re an organization that has seventeen different programs or you’re an academic research organization that has seventeen different labs or whatever, people often sort of stay at that program level and don’t actually think about how can we group thes into, you know, sort of higher level categories or buckets that people could more easily understand because they’re so focused on, you know, keeping the ship going in the right direction so sometimes they don’t think about that. And also there’s we determined over these over the years, people within non-profits see their value as self evident. You know, i work here, i believe in it. You should believe in it too, and they don’t quite understand that it actually takes more work to get someone who’s on ly connected tangentially or not connected at all to understand it. So there’s work to do to move from that sort of internal. Ah, phew! Point to being externally focused, what you need to do if you’re trying to, you know, get more donors or increase your participation or, you know, whatever, with people who are not in the fold, how do you find boards take to this work? Are they enthusiastic about the idea that we’re gonna be talking about brandy and being an ambassador or however it’s described to them? How did they how did they have they think of it? We’ve always found that people were actually quite thankful because they’re they’re nervous. They know that part of their role is to be ambassadors, but yet they don’t really know howto ambassador for my rittereiser yeah, so you know any sort of help that gets them into position of, you know, both comfort and sort of fluency so that it feels natural and not nervous about it. That’s great. And a lot of the exercises that we sort of put together, they’re helped by wine there, helped by camaraderie. Well, fluid. Sure. So you could make these exercises fun. And to the extent that they actually build fluency within it specific person, they’re also building deeper engagement of your board, you know, across all the members. Do you find red or white? Wine is a better, better beverage to accompany this. And then i think people could choose either one. Is you’re you’re agnostic. Teo. Totally. Okay. Okay. Um how let’s. See, when? When organizations are coming to you for for help in this area. What kind of symptoms are they showing? How do they know they have a problem? Well, we talked about that index card exercise before the break, which is sort of a diagnostic tool. But i think organizations khun simply know they need some more help from their board members. I mean, any non-profit board needs their board to help open doors for fund-raising. And that’s only gonna happen if the boardmember is, you know, comfortable in fluent and can you no understand enough to actually make that happen? Yeah, okay. And ve so is it usually the case that the organizations do recognize themselves that they’ve got some some shortcomings around their their boards participation in fund-raising sure and or is just a good idea, okay? And do you describe when you’re when you’re when you’re about to come to the board, do you describe it as we’re going? We’re going to help you, coach youto be good ambassadors? Oh, absolutely. I mean, there’s no reason to hide around this time that people you know, they’re ashamed of. I was just wondering, you know, they’re generally up for it. Okay? All right. There are for the help askew described. Okay, um, so let’s, let’s talk a little more about some of these, some of the basics of the brand there’s, some more elements to it that we haven’t talked about it. Like, who do we serve, where we focus on what is a mother? Sure. So so almost any non-profit is going to have a range of constituencies. So, you know, we’ve been talking about donors, donors are one constituency. People actually take advantage of your services and offerings. That’s, another constituency, you may have partners, you may have government agencies you may have, you know, people you’re trying to recruit as staff. So all of these people have slightly different needs about what they need to know about your organization that orders or connect in ways that make sense for them. So you need to identify constituencies and what they care about so that you can sort of rearrange things in ways that make sense for them. I mean, you would do the same thing in planning a website. You need one very interesting potential. Potential employees, people who use you’re hoping to recruit to the organization. Ah, a brand ambassador. Boardmember could easily be talking to the next cfo or or any person, any level? Absolutely. And, you know, given that non-profits generally pay less than profit organizations, you have to want to be there. So to the extent that the brand is another reason to want to work in that work for that organization that’s all to the good. But you have to understand that in order for that to be, you know, a magnet our next step once we’ve well have we exhausted all the basics of the brand before we go the next step, i think we have i think, if we understand, you know, areas of focus and rolls and the only thing we didn’t talk about was sort of category, which sounds a little odd, but sometimes boards have a hard time articulating what exactly are you? You know, are you an anti hunger organization, or are you a social services organization really instant? You find that we often find that, and so that that sort of stymies people, that that first level of conversation, if they can’t even clearly say, you know what category the organization? So it sounds simple enough, but when you sort of put to the test, it isn’t that simple, and often it actually takes some work to both evolve and then subsequently get agreement on interesting. So so that actually it’s a good agreement on so there’s differing opinion as to whether we’re we’re social service or community based? Or, you know, however, we defining ourselves, you get your getting different opinions around that you will get different opinions and you’ll get different language, even around the same opinion can share a any chance you, khun recollect what we’re working with, that we’re working with one organization at the moment, that’s a non-profit that actually helps non-profits and part of the organization thinks they’re in the capacity building business, which is probably accurate but not particularly mellifluous to talk about and part of the organization thinks they’re in the business of shifting power and influence to change values in society. These are two very different ideas. Yeah, now they actually do both, but if you’re out there talking about it and you pick one or the other, you’ll get a very different picture. And how does the process mediate that these different opinions? Well, this would actually happen at a leadership level and not a board level one would have one would have the chats, and we do have the chats with senior leadership to sort of nail this all right, it’s a very, very esoteric stuff. You’re dealing with this brand well, yeah. It’s always interesting and there’s a lot more to it. Then, you know, the star burst on the side of the toothpaste box. Yeah, all right. Um, we once all the board members are are comfortable with the brand basics, then we’re going to help them put together a new elevator speech, right? Sure. Ok, everybody wants one. This is a couple minutes like, i basically what i heard about the big apple circus from from jin in-kind well, everyone, you know, elevator speeches just shorthand for what’s your high level of message, but implied in this it’s the notion of being able to have everybody on the same page. So one template that you can use actually comes from a game that some people may have played earlier in life called mad libs, which was, if you remember, there was sort of a story on a pad and they were blanks, and you were asked to fill in a noun or a verb or an adverb, and then when the story i read back, you know, some level of hilarity and sued because the words don’t make any sense. So when you do this on a brand focused level, you’re actually looking for more specific things, so the template runs something like it will try to draw this in radio air, okay, for whatever constituency. So if you’re an arts organization, you could be art’s interested. Public could be prospective donors. Could be artists, you know, for ex constituency. Your organization is what, so that’s, where you get that sort of category answer and you provide another blank. What do you provide? And then how we’re through, how do you actually provide it? And then what value to deliver and how the organisation worthy of participation and how is it worthy of support? So these are all blanks. So, again, it’s an exercise with big sort of post its up around the room and you put lots of different answers in and then the board together sort of calls. Okay, what are the best responses here? And then you start to sort of string it together, along with adjectives that actually could come from your brand attributes. So an example might be so let’s. Take, for example, wgbh, which is a public television stations radio station in balkan. There we worked with. So the big category answer might be public media powerhouse or content engine, which were both a lot more evocative than television and radio stations. The second part of that might be trusted. Guide to new worlds and new ideas that sze what the organization is. Yes, of course. So it’s a more evocative answer than a literal answer. Yeah, but that hey, you’re out being ambassadors so you can certainly be we’re not trying to divine this is not a definition that is not a dictionary process and it’s, not a tax form, okay, you know, in terms of areas, well, they’re they’re in news and drama there in public affairs therein kids programming, they’re in science, so you get to nail the sort of areas of focus they have signature programs like masterpiece everybody knows downtown and that what do they provide? They provide opportunities for exploration and interaction and an independent voice, especially if you’re talking about the news and public affairs programming. Where did they do this? Well, it’s locally, the boston area but now that everything streams it’s much farther, and of course, it’s multi platform so there’s a more complicated answer toa wear then there might have been in years past, and then you can end with, you know, it’s for you and supported by you. Or you could take another completely different example i referenced anti hunger organization a while ago so the constituents he might be for those who care about in this case, we’re talking about massachusetts seven hundred thousand people in massachusetts who actually don’t know where their next meal is coming from. So that’s the constituency, the people who care about that and then project bread what’s the category, the leading statewide anti hunger organization. And what do they do? Offer fresh approaches to ending hunger? What are they? By pioneering funding, facilitating a range of programs and through education advocacy, they actually have programs that meet people where they are rather than just handing food out of back of a truck, and then you get into that next level of details? Well, you know, how do they actually do this? So it’s programs that are in the community programs that are schools with kids, programs that are building sustainable food ecosystem? So then you get into more detail and then what’s the benefit well, it’s all the sort of fulfill a vision that the opposite of hungry isn’t just full it’s healthy, which then musicians the organization differently against sort of just emergency food and nutrition versus full nutrition vs and then you go, you bring it down to donors, which is with the support of people. They also sponsor a large hunger walk. Those who walk and our corporate partners, we’re able to eradicate hunger in the state. All right, two two excellent examples. A little long, but but i think the examples help help us teo to fill in the in the template. Um, okay, we’re going to give ah, roger. We’ll give you a break for a couple minutes and there’s going to be mohr with roger coming up talking about brand ambassadors and tony’s take too, of course before that. But i have to mention generosity siri’s because they sponsor the show. They help you raise money. 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I believe march twentieth and it’s snowing outside. We look out the window right now, there’s pretty brisk snow coming down in new york city. Um all right, anything more you want to add? We don’t need another example. But anything more you want to add about this this template, but helps with the elevators. Bitch. Well, i think it does two things. I mean, you actually end up with an elevator speech is not going to be eloquent language by putting things up in this mad libs posted format, but it will give you the content. So then, you know, either some sub committee of the board or staff can then be charged with actually, you know, wordsmithing it. So everybody likes it, okay? But getting the content down is important. And then the other thing it does, of course. Which all of these exercises do is get boardmember is engaged, so to the extent that people sitting around the board table or wherever you’re sitting in doing this are participating in developing messages it’s already getting into their heads. So we stand a much better chance of people becoming comfortable with something if they’ve had a part in evolving it much more so than if you just took, you know, a piece of paper and slated across the tape foisted on them and say, memorized, memorized this on dh have it prepared for the next for the next meeting? Yes, quite okay. All right, so they’re involved in the involved in the creation of it. Um, this is going tio this is one of the tools that were empowering board members with basically i mean, this is what we’re trying to make comfortable, confident brand ambassadors and, uh, another tool that you recommend his stories. Yes, well, you know boardmember sze, can we, like anybody can sort of talk about an organization either from the top down or the bottom up. So the top down would be starting with your elevator speech and then presumably, if you haven’t run to get another ice cube, the person you’re talking to, you might tell a story another boardmember might swill around it a barstool and actually just start with a story and end up with the elevator speech. So a bottom up approach, okay, but this only really works if people have the stories one way or the other, and what happens is boardmember because they’ve experienced the organisation themselves in one way or another, you know, they might have a story, um, but they might have on ly that one story and, you know, the other board members would have different stories, so the extent that you can sort of pull these stories and even get a story library going, perhaps online, internally online, then people have more things that they can talk to and they can sort of pivot. But if you want to sort of think about a story there’s, of course, another template to try to actually do that, and you could sort of start by thinking, okay, if if this were a movie title, what would be the name of the movie? And that will lead you immediately to some sort of evocative top end to the story. And then, of course, you want to talk about, well, who’s in the story, who’s the protagonist. So this could be a person or it could be an organization. Then the next step to think about is okay. So where what’s the problem? What? What has to get solved? And then where does your organization come in? So what programs air services get marshaled to help solve that problem and then what’s the end of the story. And is thie ending? You know, finite? Or is the benefit ongoing? So you can use that very simple template and really think about okay? How does your organization, you know, participate in either other organizations or other people’s lives to make a difference? Where where else might these stories emanate from? Your example was bored boardmember tze maybe each person has a story or something, but they can also filter up from the program’s staff that’s out, actually doing the work. Um, i know a lot of organizations like to invite people who are benefiting from the work the people of the organization is serving. Have them come to board meetings and tell their story. Sure, you could absolutely do. That what you’re going for is something that’s authentic where you khun, you know, show that you made a difference and that you’re not sort of, you know, overreaching, you’re not trying to say you made you more of a difference and people would believe, yeah, but sure, i mean, you know, every organization writes up profiles or highlights people, those are generally stories, whether they’re set up a stories that have sort of a, you know, beginning middle and an end that has a benefit, you know, that varies, but what you are going to make sure that you have it, you know, you have an impact statement at the end, you have a benefit to show that you know, why people should participate or why people should be donors and just, you know, give them a reason to believe we gotta get these stories down, too, what under two minutes, right? If if i’m in a conversation with somebody at a reception or something, you know, i can’t hold their interest too long, let’s have a master storyteller? Well, you might be, but yes, i think you’re right under two minutes or, you know, if you’re writing it. Out, you know, under two hundred words. Yeah. Okay. All right, um, and you mentioned a story library like internally online. But what? What is that? Well, you could do a story library in any number of ways, but if your organization has some sort of internal web set up that’s a great place to post them if it doesn’t have that, you know, you could just compile them. But the whole idea is you don’t want stories to just leave an individual’s heads if they’re really good and they could be shared and, you know, people can use them in conversation out there in the world, you might even be sharing them on the web. Well, with the public doesn’t have to be behind a, you know, an internet or anything, you know, a lot mean, a lot of what we’ve been talking about because we’ve been talking in the board. Ambassador context is useful for word ambassadors, but of course, it’s useful for staff. It’s useful for senior leadership? Yeah, potential donors have thes stories, air there’s. Quite a bit of talk among non-profits about around non-profits around around storytelling, right? And as i said earlier, you know, storytelling is simply sort of the inductive way of describing your organization that’s supposed to starting from the top down, which is sort of more than deductive way, but both are valid, and it has to do with how you’re comfortable talking with people, okay, what’s our next tool that we want teo arm, are board members within making them confident? Well, we started to talk about donorsearch let’s, let’s focus on that for a minute. So most organizations because they do more than one thing or not monolithic and as we already discussed their constituencies or not model to think either even within a donor community and if you think about major donors for the moment, they’re just not good do bees, they’re generally interested in giving money to some organization that they believe will advance goals that they personally care about. So if you take the goal around major e-giving to be connecting institutional priorities with donor passions and interests, and you understand that the people aren’t monolithic and the organizations not monolithic, then it behooves you to come up with different ways that people can connect. So this is another way that you can actually work with. Your board to evolve what we call ways in. So for instance, taken orchestra could be a tiny little orchestra, really big workers treyz some people are going to care about performing the traditional repertoire, some people are going to care about commissioning new music, probably a smaller number. Some people are going to care about the space that music is performed it, and you know what? What shape that’s it some people are going to care about kids education programs if there are such, some people don’t care about building the audiences of the next generation, and the answer to that is yes, so some donors will connect in one way, and some donors will connect in another but it’s important that for your non-profit that you actually evolved what thes different ways in our so that if i’m, for instance, i’m going out to talk to tony, and i think he’s wants to support kids education, but he really wants to support community outreach. I’m able to actually pivot and talk to you about community outreach, of course, implicit in all of this, and we could have talked about this at the top of the hour, is they? Need to listen because you’re going to have any conversation with someone outside your organization, you have to also understand where they are otherwise you’re just pushing things at them. Yeah, yeah, you’re a billboard. So you wanted you wanted to be a conversation, so you have to learn enough about the person you’re talking to two actually take what you’ve learned in terms of these areas focus and rolls and stories and mission in category and no talk to the person in terms that are meaningful to have her see you like to rehearse this with boards once you once you farm doing with the tools? Is there some practice? We do a lot of role playing, which is also fun and also better served with wine so you can set up small groups. There’s not much that isn’t isn’t helped by wine. I find my favorite seven young blonde personally, but well, it depends whether your board meetings here in the evening at seven. Thirty in the morning. Yeah, well, bloody mary zahra possibility? No, i would not have not tried. But if their evening most activities in life i find very well lubricated by wine. Well, you have an italian last name? I do, um but yes, a lot of these can be when you have after you evolve the kinds of things we’ve been talking about, whether it’s in small groups or people making, you know, presentations to the larger group, anything that has people actually use what we’re talking about rather than just sort of take it in because the more people use the information that we’ve been discussing, the more comfortable they ll get and them or it’s actually in their heads, and they make it their own. So never are we asking anyone to like, you know, memorize words or spew things back, it’s all about understanding that the content and the concepts and then being able to actually talk about it in words that are comfortable your own? Yeah, on your own that connect with the person that you’re actually talking with. How long is this process to build the board, ambassadors, brand ambassadors? Well, these air separate different kinds of exercises that we’ve been talking about it and there’s no, no fixed timeline are sequence to any of this you could certainly come up with, you know, three or four these workshops, depending on how often you want to meet so you know it, it may be better to do oneaccord er just because the board has other things to do and you have to hijack some time here, or you could do a concentrated session if you had, you know, a two day retreat and you, you know, take some of that time, okay? Yeah, the ways in i mean, they should be already known to the organization. There shouldn’t be anything new here in terms of identifying how you khun be supportive. Well, there’s always a difference between things that exist and actually sort of understanding it and remembering it. So if you, for instance, well, let’s, take a life sciences organization example, um, you may care about the work they’re doing in a specific disease area. I may care about how they’re using new technology. Somebody else may care about how their training scientists of the next generation. So you may know that the organization actually doing those things, but you really care about that disease area that you care about. So in order for you to feel comfortable talking about the technologies that i care about you do have to learn more about it and sort of, you know, soaking it a little bit. All right, yeah. So right, right again, everybody got their own perspective and reason that they’re with the organization exactly. We need to share all these and everybody’s converse and in all the ways, right? Because the goal of an ambassador is to be able to meet people where they are not to just go out, as you said earlier and be a billboard that, you know, is inflexible, and this is an electronic billboard isn’t going to change any, so you need you need the information, the confidence, that fluency and of course, the content, which is largely what we’re talking about during this hour to, you know, start someplace and be able to pivot to someplace else and, you know, not be flustered in the middle, um, you you also work with boardmember is to overcome potential resistance points as their out ambassador rising? Sure, well, i mean, everything doesn’t go smoothly. We’ve been talking about ways to make boardmember is more comfortable. That doesn’t mean you’re not going to bump up against some donorsearch prospect that just, you know, says no, or i don’t believe in you or comes up with, you know, some reason why, you know he or she should not entertain a conversation with you so there’s no guarantee it’s all going to just, you know, fall into your lap. So again, we keep coming back to role playing and the’s group sessions, but and leadership or bored or the fund-raising staff probably knows the points of resistance, so one thing the board can do is come up with what the arguments are for dispelling that. So this is a good thing to do in small groups who could even sort of picture seeing a couple people on one side of a table in a couple of people on the other. And, you know, one side has the resistance, and the other side has duitz with what we’ve just been talking about, you know, the roles in areas of focus and the impact stories try to convince the, you know, the first party no, you’re wrong, you know? Or give it another thought so that you can in fact, bring some more people into the fold. Okay, um, before we move on anything, anything more we can talk about with the respect of these resistance points. Anything else there? Well, they’re different for every organization. I mean, we worked and some tell a story tell somebody you worked with has some are harder to overcome than others. I like stories. So for a large ballet company that we worked with, one of the points of resistance that we we heard often was, you know, i fall asleep hard to see what the argument for that might be rather than take a nap earlier. Well, the persons of phyllis stein or whatever or, you know, write them up, we would just write them off, i fall asleep at the ballet or i fall asleep at the opera. Are we really going to get anywhere? Not necessarily ok, some of these you don’t get anywhere, okay? Or, you know, there aren’t any words, so i don’t get the story or for modern ballet, whether isn’t a story, i really don’t get the story, so you have to explain, you probably have to actually sort of inculcated people about what they’re actually seeing in hearing, but there are some things that, yes, it’s harder to overcome. Um, some things are easier to overcome. So, going back to wgbh, the pbs station in boston, one of the things they tell you. What down before you kill the gbh story, we’re gonna go out for a couple minutes, okay? Give your voice a break and we’ll come back and we’ll go right to the gbh story. Stay with us. Like what you’re hearing a non-profit radio tony’s got more on youtube, you’ll find clips from stand up comedy tv spots and exclusive interviews catch guests like seth gordon. Craig newmark, the founder of craigslist marquis of eco enterprises, charles best from donors choose dot org’s aria finger do something that or an a a me levine from new york universities heimans center on philanthropy tony tweets to he finds the best content from the most knowledgeable, interesting people in and around non-profits to share on his stream. If you have valuable info, he wants to re tweet you during the show. You can join the conversation on twitter using hashtag non-profit radio twitter is an easy way to reach tony he’s at tony martignetti narasimhan t i g e n e t t i remember there’s a g before the end, he hosts a podcast for the chronicle of philanthropy fund-raising fundamentals is a short monthly show devoted to getting over your fund-raising hartals just like non-profit radio, toni talks to leading thinkers, experts and cool people with great ideas. As one fan said, tony picks their brains and i don’t have to leave my office fund-raising fundamentals was recently dubbed the most helpful non-profit podcast you have ever heard, you can also join the conversation on facebook, where you can ask questions before or after the show. The guests are there, too. Get insider show alerts by email, tony tells you who’s on each week and always includes link so that you can contact guess directly. To sign up, visit the facebook page for tony martignetti dot com. I’m peter shankman, author of zombie loyalists, and you’re listening to tony martignetti non-profit radio. Big non-profit ideas for the other ninety five percent. Welcome back again too big non-profit ideas for the other ninety five percent, as peter shankman just said, more live listener lovemore live listeners have joined us. Woodbridge, new jersey, east bridgewater, massachusetts, and brooklyn and queens, new york welcome live listen love to each of you schnoll a france bonsoir got shanae india somewhere in the uk uk unfortunately your mask you can’t tell where, but we’ll presume it’s england, but live listener love to india and the u k listeners also. And ah also joining us moscow and you know us brazil. I apologize if i pronounced that wrong. But you know who you are listening in? Brazil also got italy, but we can’t see where you are. We don’t know what city or town i’ve been to italy four times, so i should be able to say hello in what am i missing? What am i missing? Child? Go must die. I can order a meal and i can find my way to hotels. That’s, about by like restaurant and hotel. Italian is about what i speak. You could start with bum jo know when jordan was really good. Thank you, roger. You don’t even have the italian name? I don’t. Thank you. Thank you. Um okay, let’s. Ah, so we were overcoming our resistance points. So anything and you were going to tell a story about wgbh? Sorry, that’s where we were. Yeah, well, it’s not so much a story as so it’s a little different from some other non-profits in that it depends not only on individual donors, it depends on sponsorship, so one goal of a particular board is actually to help with sponsorships. So many organizations, of course, do have sponsors and sponsors requires that the different value proposition than perhaps an individual or a major donor is going to have. So some of the areas of resistance were because it’s a public television station, for instance, i don’t want to support you because you’re too liberal. Okay, so then the board got together and came up with some arguments around that or it doesn’t congress pay for everything? Well, no, but so that’s a point of ignorance that you could then sort of overcome or isn’t your audience to old? Well depends, you know, too old. For what? And it’s also younger than you think. So there. You know, there are things out there that are often misperceptions that board members will get hit with or in fact staff will get hit with that one can marshal arguments for. So yes, that’s different than falling sleep at the ballet. How does the staff support this? This whole ambassador rising process? Well, in a lot of these organizations that were working with, you know, we’re facilitating these sessions, but staff, of course, has to organize them and make them happen, and to our earlier point probably procure the wine. But an interesting side effect of all of this, not the side effect of the wine is how what comes out of these meetings, then benefits staff so they’re learning right along with the board so they will be clearer on the organization. They will be clearer on some of these arguments. It will be clear they will learn new stories so there’s a definite no relationship between, you know, staff on board. They’re not just there in a supportive role. It’s actually making their jobs, you know, more successful, actually, even though it’s a aboard process the staff is vicariously elearning right and that’s a that’s a goal, even though it was not. Necessarily sort of, you know, a stated goal, but we see it happen all the time. You’re sort of raising both sides of the seesaw in the in the course of doing these exercises. Okay, then, it’s not a seesaw anymore. Both sides arising it’s. Some kind of rising platform. It’s. Just a seesaw that’s level a level level seesaw. But then that’s not really a seat it’s not really. See? So it doesn’t have a fulcrum in the middle. One side rises on the other side falls, but both sides rise. I don’t know. What’s that a jungle that’s a jungle gym. We’ll find another metaphor. Okay, beating you up, you know you don’t feel well, um, ok, we’ve we’ve we’ve covered the resistance points, and this sounds like something that would be valuable to revisit over over time. Not just do once and, you know, kind of put on a shelf well, like brand building, which is also a process and not an event. All of these could be processes and not events. So to the extent that you take some of the exercise we’ve been talking about, instruction them over some period of time. It also serves an organization well, too, to bring these back at some kinds of men of different periods, first of all, boards change, so everybody isn’t going to be always up to speed in equal way. And this notion of fluency like practicing anything else, you know, piano, swimming, whatever you have to do it so you can certainly come up with short role playing exercises at some other point. You khun certainly revisit stories you could revisit rolls and areas of focus. All of this stuff could have a sort of rinse and repeat kind of cycle. We talked earlier on about strategic planning, something formal, possibly being a part of this. Do you find many organizations that really don’t have the basics in master so that they can carry on further? Well, lots of organizations have the basics and not have a strategic plan, which is fine, you know you’re not always in a strategic planning moflow but if you are, if your organization does have a new strategic plan, all of this is even more important because there’s no stresses you playing that we bumped into that doesn’t depend on its success by having people think and act in. Your favor. So all of what we’re talking about on the board of the staff level is helping you to convince people to think and act in your favor, otherwise would be to plant. Just sit on a shelf. Yeah, well, they all depend on some actions. Yeah, that’s something i’ve had guests lament that a strategic plan gets done and then he really does just get parked on a shelf and it doesn’t live, doesn’t evolve and the organization doesn’t really benefit from it. Other than it’s a checkmark the board can now move on to the next project. Right? So if you go back to either the ways in that we were talking about or just being sort of clear on the different aspects of the organization you could sort of back into ok here. These aspects are a strategic plan. What do people have to think and do and feel in order for this to be successful so that they will, you know, realize is section to be of the plan. And then how can boardmember sze help so sure you could bring that in as another discussion topic. Now we just have about thirty seconds left. Roger, but i want you to share with me what you love about the work that you do. Oh, all right, well, have to think about that for a nanosecond here. 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Oppcoll hello and welcome to tony martignetti non-profit radio big non-profit ideas for the other ninety five percent i’m your aptly named host oh, i’m very glad you’re with me. I’d be stricken with avian articulo and dorothy leo sis, if you tried to fly the idea that you missed today’s show, bring joy to your donors. Marcie, i’m has over thirty years thinking about and perfecting major donor relationships. She’s the artful askar and we’ll examine the intersection between fund-raising and professional coaching on tony’s. Take two a caution for your plan to giving program we’re sponsored by generosity siri’s you know them, they host multi charity five k runs and walks. I’m very pleased to welcome marcie hime to the show. She’s, a life and development coach, author and speaker with over twenty years of frontline major gift fund-raising experience, she’s won awards for her speaking in training, and she hosts marcie’s major gift success club. She promotes both positive mindset and best practice fund-raising is that marcie? I’m dot com and on twitter she’s at marcy hime morsi welcome to the show. Thank you, tony. Delighted to be here. I’m glad you are pleased to have you my voice just broke look pleased like i’m a fourteen year old again, it happens once in a while. I love going back to fourteen that well, with my voice, nothing else that i was that awkward fourteen year old ah that’s, right? I’m an awkward fifty three year old. I’ve never never fit in. Um, let’s say you you work in fund-raising and professional coaching, so we wantto we want to look at the intersection. What? What’s it, that intersection where those two circles overlap? Well, i think tony, it it leads back to my experience when you talk about more than twenty years that’s not really unique there, folks out there that have twenty years of fund-raising experience what’s unique about my experience is that i spent those twenty three years at the same institution. So i had the opportunity to be the first person in a position and grow a program over those twenty three years and spend more than two decades with these same donors, watching them grow and change and increase their giving and change their giving and go from from annual fund to major gift to to life legacy planning. So it was just a really unique experience to sit back and say, ok, what makes me successful? I had a tremendous run of with the university of wisconsin foundation and had the privilege and opportunity to raise millions of dollars. And as i look back, i realize it’s not just the methods i use, but it’s a mind set that i brought to the business that’s, the mindset that i brought to my work. So i focused my coaching and consulting on a twofold process. One is not just what is the donor thinking? We talk about that? No, no, no, no, no. I’m saying, what are you thinking? What’s going on in your head? What are you asking yourself and that’s? Just a cz important and i think more, tony. Then how do we write a good letter? And how what? How many visits should we make in a month? And some of those kind of best practices on how is this mindset that we bring? And i’m glad we have a full hour to talk about it. Going to bring joy to our donors. What’s the connection? Sure. Excellent question already, it’s. Only my second one already has blown now the rest are all going to be lackluster questions. But all right, we have a pinnacle. Now. We’re trailing off already bad questions to come, uh, tony that’s, something that really touched my heart because when you’re with somebody was not authentic, you feel it right away when you’re with somebody who’s saying, okay, man, if i asked this question or talk to them about their passions or get into their head about, maybe i’ll get the money, and i’m not saying where scheming is that. But when you think about some of the words we use, right, well, whether you’re a suspect, because i’m not sure if you have enough money or interest yet to be a prospect hyre how does that really make somebody feel? So this whole idea of what goes on in our heads, the words we use, earl nightingale said in a program called the strangest secret in nineteen fifty seven, which was, by the way, the first vulcan recording to sell a million copies, he said, our success is determined by what we think we become, what we think about so when we are thinking sincerely in authentically about how can we provide an opportunity for this person sitting across from us two and back in a cause that gives them excitement and joy? It totally shift the relationship building experience, and it gives that donor a completely different outcome not on ly the direct impact they’re giving has but this sense of joy. You know that when you actually write a check to tony charity charity tony, it releases and yeah, it’s writes that you’re the pleasure writes, the pleasure centers in the brain are activated when you do a charitable act. Yeah, i have ah, i i do a keynote called, show your love and raise more money, and i in there i make the point that i want us to avoid the construction metaphors, like building relationships and starting a foundation. Ah, foundation, you know, a foundation for the relationship, and i also avoid much as i can, sometimes i lapse into it, but dahna prospekt, you know, i like potential donor. I suspect i i’ve i’ve gotten away from that that that i’m pretty good about not using but occasionally lapse in tow prospect instead of potential donor or, you know, it’s sort of thes air and the construction metaphors, they’re dehumanizing terms they are yeah, i love that. Yes, they’re dehumanizing terms, you know, and just even some of the things in all of my years, i’ve never hit anyone up for money. You know, i’ve never hit anybody, and things like let’s get into their packets. You know, they’re loaded, and even some of the things that are maybe more subtle that they’ve so benefitted from organization they should give, they oughta give they always. And who are we to tell somebody else what they should or ought to do with their dollars with their money? So your concern is that the way we think about potential donors and donors and the way we talk about them, hopefully behind the scenes in our office, in our conferences. Is going to transcend those situations and and into our relationships with the people that were were dehumanizing. You bet on let’s get real let’s. Get real direct about it. You just said, well, how we talk about them behind their, you know, basically behind their back. Yeah, yeah, well, yeah. That’s, that’s the nature of our business. I’m getting a really echo in my head, but i would stake my team that i would never want to talk about a donor behind their back differently than i would talk to them. Yeah, well, that’s a that’s, a that’s, a policy to for written written notes and, you know, preserving, preserving things in our c r m you should never write something that you wouldn’t want the person to treat. Yeah. Okay. Um and i had that really happened to me once. Tony, i had a a woman that was working on a very major investment with the university. And and we had a brand new students on board of the foundation that helped with little mailings in these kinds of things. And her gifts have qualified her to be part of one of our honorary organizations. So there was a certificate. And i know that you’re not wild about all these things in nor nor am i. But this is kind of what we did. And there’s a certificate that got mailed out. Well, this new students not knowing any better, took her entire record and stuck that was attached to the certificate simply to give her the proper mailing address. Well, she saw the whole thing in the inn with a certificate, mailed it to the donor. Oh, my god. I know. Well, and how i found out was i got this phone call and this and this girl said to me hi, marcy, you know, i got and i went hello, let’s call er, gladys, i said him. Oh, gladys, how are you today? And she said fine. And i said, did you get your you know, your certificate? And she said, yes, i did it’s lovely, but i also got another sheet of paper with it, and i said, what was that, gladys? And she said, well, it says, matt with gladys, talk to her about tony, can you imagine? Yeah. Oh, my god. Yeah, i mean, it’s. A good thing. Her contact? Yes. It’s a. Good thing that wasn’t gladys. Gladys kravitz from bewitched should be like i never remember gladys kravitz. You good thing that wasn’t hurt myself. But wait, take a break for a moment or two more. C do you have a pen with you? D’oh? Okay, you got rolled over to ah, lower quality number because someone was on the it doesn’t matter. Call back on this number, please. Two one two, seven to one, eight, one, eight, three got that. Okay, call back during the break, everybody else stay with us more on morsi more with morsi hime bring joy to your donors. You’re tuned to non-profit radio tony martignetti also hosts a podcast for the chronicle of philanthropy fund-raising fundamentals is a quick ten minute burst of fund-raising insights published once a month. Tony’s guests are expert in crowdfunding, mobile giving event fund-raising direct mail and donor cultivation. Really all the fund-raising issues that make you wonder am i doing this right? Is there a better way there is? Find the fund-raising fundamentals archive it. Tony martignetti dot com that’s marketmesuite n e t t i remember there’s a g before the end, thousands of listeners have subscribed on itunes. You can also learn. Maura, the chronicle website. Philanthropy. Dot com fund-raising fundamentals the better way. Dahna welcome back to big non-profit ideas for the other ninety five percent gotta do live listener love it’s, time st louis, missouri, new bern, north carolina, burtonsville, maryland, san francisco, california live listener loved to each of you let’s go abroad taiwan, china and beijing china ni hao over to japan, we got tokyo, we got multiple tokyo, konnichi wa and in korea, south korea, always loyal, loyal listeners. Soo wan, south korea on your haserot i also have listeners in hungary, iran, spain and romania. Unfortunately, you can’t see your cities but live listener loved to each of those countries as many people are listening there as possible and podcast pleasantries if you’re listening in the time shift over ten thousand ofyou pleasantries to the podcast listeners, of course got to send affiliate affections toe all our affiliates throughout the country. I love you too, marcie. I’m you’re still there, right down here. You got back. Okay. We have better connection this time. Thank you very much. Um, so what we think is what we become. Can you say a little more about that? We become what we think about so it’s. Not something. You know, tony, i think people roll their eyes a little bit and say, yeah, yeah, yeah, but but truly, what do we plant in our heads? And we planned in our head the words that we use, the things that we watch, the shows we watch, the conversations we have, the people we surround ourselves with, and we’re influenced by what people say to us were influenced by our own history by what we were brought up with, you know, for example, if i said to you, tony finished these sentences, money doesn’t grow on trees blank, rick very filthy rich is what most people that’s gross, i didn’t think of that well, i did now, but no very kayman things that those are things that are in our in our heads and some of our feelings about money, some of our some of the things that we have been exposed too far, and i’m not saying our parents weren’t wonderful people or that they did something wrong or right, i’m just saying we’ve got these thoughts, we’ve got these things in our heads, and we need to deal with them, especially when it comes to raising dollars, especially when it comes to the kind of self talk we give ourselves. How many times do we ask ourselves questions? Like, why am i so bad at this? Or why can’t i get how to do this thing on the computer? Or, you know why those air all the negative? Those are all negative questions. Why am i so crummy at this? Why am i so? But why don’t i have more money? Why don’t i have a bigger house? Why don’t i have a nicer car? I mean, that that’s all negative self talk, right? And and it’s a lot of times it’s in the form of a question and there’s some wonderful new research that’s happening here at the university, wisconsin and other places that talks about our minds. Tony being kind of like one great big google, you know, when we ask ourself one of those questions like, why am i always late? Our mind will quickly stay up. You’re late here and you’re late here in your late here and it’ll google all of those times and throw it right to us. Well, that’s because yeah, but that’s because that’s, the way you frame the question there’s ah there’s somebody is interesting. Ah, this i don’t know. I don’t know if this person listens to this show regularly, but she he or she tweets very actively on twitter he or she is at the-whiny-donor and we have some back and forth because sometimes the person will post things they’re winding about and then i don’t necessarily agree are as bad as you, she thinks, but, you know, you’re making me think of the whiny donorsearch that person is always looking for oh, and i should give a little explosion they there there? Ah twitter profile says that there on i think they’re onto boards and at least one of those is a development committee board position but could be both but you know, they’re they’re in fund-raising on on a volunteer level and that’s, why and there’s other at the-whiny-donor and you’re making me think of that person because they’re always there always looking for things to whine about. It’s it’s, how we frame the question that google is goingto answer right, our google mind is going to answer based on how how we word it, okay, exactly, and i think that that’s something we need to consciously manage so in my more major gift workshops and in a lot of my teaching and in a lot of my consultancy, i work with kind of the coaching for the mindset as well as are we using best press practice method? So let me give you a couple of examples about way to reframe these and, you know, i’m sure tony, you’ve heard of affirmations where you make this statement as if it’s already happened. The problem with that is a lot of times we don’t buy the statement our own hat is saying, like like, the easiest way to think about it is is i don’t, but i would like to weigh a hundred and thirty eight pounds, right? So i stand in front of a mirror, and i say i weigh one hundred and thirty eight pounds. Well, i looked back at that, i don’t know you don’t yeah, right. So part of what the power of asking these questions is, is it becomes something where what we’re really doing is empowering our wonderful minds to paul pull forward those times when we’ve been successful, to pull and to build on those. So for example, why am i always late? Becomes why am i such a non time kind of gal? And i have times that come to mind when when that happens, why? Why does my work take me away from my family boy and development? I hear i’m working all the time. I don’t have enough time for my family. Why am i in this business? Is so hard. Well, why do i do such a great job of prioritizing what’s? Most important in my work and life? Marcie, how, before we start to make thes mindset change is how do we do just become aware and conscious of what we’re doing? You know, it’s it’s so ubiquitous where i mentioned conferences and and the office meetings, you know these things, they’re reinforced the mindset that you’re trying to move us away from is so reinforced. How can we raise our own consciousness? That’s a really good question, another one. I got two in two in twenty minutes, sometimes people will say, you know, i’m not sure i talk to myself, so i talk to myself what i want if i talk to myself, you are talking to yourself. Um, there’s some statistic out there and i’m sorry. Tony, i can’t quote abut that we we give ourselves, like sixty thousand messages a day or something like that or we hear a bit of some astronomical number and i think you have to step back and try to be more present try to be more aware how does what you’re hearing impact, how you’re feeling and the reason that’s important is what we hear, how we feel impacts what action we take. How does what feel impact what action we take, right? Okay, so so you say you here, boy, it’s really hard to get those first appointment that’s just really hard to do you know it. And then we say, yeah, you know, and people don’t really want to hear from us there asked, you know, they ask about money all the time, and you’re just another one of those pesky phone calls. Well, that how is that going to empower you and put you in the right frame of mind to make phone calls to set up appointments with your donors? You know, again it’s that negative it’s the it’s, the negative perspective versus the, you know, sort of. Why am i how come i do? So well, what is it that makes me do so well at getting the calls, getting the meetings that i do get? Marcie, let me just give me a moment because i have to shout out someone on twitter. Margo o’malley, she’s she’s, new to non-profit radio just discovered her recently and she’s live tweeting the show she’s using the hashtag non-profit radio and on twitter she is at margo underscore om and margo is m a r g a u x then underscore om we’ll go! Welcome to non-profit radio. Thank you so much for live tweeting today very much appreciate it live listen love to you margo i’m sorry marcie. I’m hope you don’t mind me shouting out live listeners i love thank you it’s fun that’s. Why i do the show live even though you know there’s ten thousand people listen everywhere else any time other than one to two eastern on friday. But for the people who do know it’s a rush even when there’s sometimes there’s a tiny number but it’s always fun. Come on. Okay. We’re helping your helping me raise my consciousness raised helping us raise our consciousness about this let me tell you why this is so important in a nutshell, because the things that we say to ourselves impact how we feel about ourselves, so take that into the realm of development work. You know, the words we use the way we feel about ourselves, our vocabulary project onto others, how we feel about this business that we do this what i call an honorable and noble profession, i agree with that. Yeah, yeah, morsi labbate saying to ourselves, well, i’m i’m going to see if you’re a suspect and they turn you into a prospect by having a qualifying session on you at which i’m going to move you, and then i’ll pitch you and i’ll close you how how can we how can we feel joy about what we’re doing and let’s look at why do people get into non-profit work? Ninety percent of them will say they got involved in it not because they came out of the womb saying, gee, i want to be a fundraiser. No, they were passionate about the cause they got involved in. They believed they were making a difference on planet earth, so we take that passion and turn it into well. I’m gonna hit you up and i’m going to move you then i’ll but you then i’ll close you to give money to this cause and there’s a really, really what’s the word i’m trying you smacking you smacking your head there was that with that you’re gonna knock yourself out, but we got marcia. You gotta be out for a half hour don’t no, i can’t call nine hundred eleven where i don’t know what city you’re calling from madison, wisconsin, i think, but i can’t get nine eleven there, so keep your self conscious please snap your fingers if you stop snapping it back in your head you know that. Let me let me get a little personal with this for me. I feel like i don’t do enough speaking. I would like mohr speaking engagements and there are people who think i speak a lot and i guess i hold my own. But i would like to do more and you know what i am and you know how i always approach it. How come i don’t do? How come i don’t get more speaking gigs, right? So, yeah, yeah, i should be asking, why are people on the phone right now. Ready to call me about a speaking engagement? Why are people so eager to book me to speak at their next event? Cool. Yeah. The phone is ringing, sam. Just the photo. Marcy, the phone just rang. Sam just picked up the phone in the studio. Somebody somebody’s calling so what’s going on? Sam, get them get their number. Okay. No, i’m seriously, buddy. I have a witness. That’s. What you said at the phone rang and sam picked it up. He’s multitasking, he’s pretty producing the show. He’s watching the hashtag non-profit radio picking up the phone he’s booking by speaking gigs. Example give you twenty per cent. Okay, now i’m sorry, marcy. Go ahead. Sorry, i cannot tell you, and i know that there are people that think it’s kind of cool, but if you ask people, do they ever have parking karma? Well, what is parking karma, parking karma when you’re driving up to a place and you’re saying, why is somebody pulling out right now so that i have a place to park? Yeah, yeah. Works like a charm. All right. You took it away from my speaking and you went to the mundane act of parking spaces, but i’ll forgive you. I’ll still keep you on the other the remaining forty minutes. Right? Tony, i’ll give you something active to do. This is what i want todo for me. Yeah, i will. This is like this, like live coaching. I’m getting oh, my gosh, yeah. I wear two things that i want you to do. The first thing i want you to do is ask yourself twice a day, morning and night why are speaking gig coming to me in such great abundance? Did you write that down? I am. I’m only on the words i’m only onward gigs. Why are speaking gigs coming to me in such great abundance? Okay, i got it. And then the second thing i want you to do is, however you keep your files. Now you’re probably more elektronik, but i want you to put in speaking gig one speaking, get to speaking, get three and actually place them in your filing system waiting to be filled with your next three speaking opportunities. So you’re prepared. You’ve made a place for your next three speaking opportunities. Okay, i’m gonna put that so i put them into my filing system on, uh and my hard drive. Ok, okay, i will tell you that i used to put in open file folders where i kept my back back in the day when i have and i still believe in paper files for some things i don’t ever i don’t know that i’ll ever be a time. I’ll be comfortable being all electronic but that’s a different conversation, and i would randomly put these empty file folders that said that said major giver one major, give her two major geever three and people would actually come into my perspective giver universe in the exact else a bit where i plopped those files. Are you really? Yeah, i was to say you’re kidding, but i know i’m not kidding you could you could you could tell what letter their last name, because it was a startling e-giving i just randomly put him in there, but that is the power of positive thinking, it’s just incredible, it’s amazing how it can change your life, and this is going to convert to better relationships and happier, happier, joyful donors, exactly and let’s. Right? And how it converts to your joyful donors is is your donors don’t want a relationship with you based on their money. They want a real relationship with you. And if you are coming at them strictly with how do i get them to give me money? That’s, exactly the kind of relationship you’re going to form now. Will you raise dollars? Sure you will. Will you be wildly successful? Successful? No, you won’t. Yeah, and you’re going to encourage people to have twitter ideas like at the-whiny-donor. All right, marcy. Marcy, indulge me for a couple minutes because there’s a lot more with you coming up and tony’s take two as well. But i have to give a shout to our sponsor, which is generosity siri’s. And you may be interested in this, marcy because they they bring small and midsize non-profits together that can host five k run walk events because they wouldn’t have enough people individually. They bring them together. It’s the community having very big events where they raise lots of money. So i like that. I like that because it’s, you know, nobody could do it on their own. But when the community comes together, then, they have successful events, their core. Yeah, i know that they’re raising the ten, fifteen, twenty thousand dollars in a day, because i am see a bunch of generosity, siri’s events, and i’m the one who announces the fund-raising total’s at the end of the event. So i know how much is being made it’s a lot, and they have events coming up in northern new jersey, miami, florida and new york city. Talk to dave lin. You know, i like to pick up the phone and talk to people. He’s, the ceo, let him know you’re from non-profit radio seven one eight five o six. Nine, triple seven if you want to start on the web generosity siri’s, dot com. Tony take to my video this week is caution for your plan giving program marci is telling us about how strong and how close your relationships khun b and especially in planned giving, is not limited there, but especially in plan e-giving you have to be a little careful about getting too close and taking on any kind of ah legal relationship like being someone’s, executor or trustee and that’s what the video is about, you know, like all my videos short it’s two minutes and a couple of seconds. Ah, now i share a client story and you’ll see that video. Tony martignetti dot com and that is tony’s take two for friday, thirteenth of march friday, the thirteenth tenth show of the year. You know, i avoided at the beginning doing triska. Delic a phobia, you know, the i’ve done that one a bunch, you know, i try to i don’t want to be predictable last thing i want is predictability on non-profit radio, except that we will have excellent, smart, wise experts on the show. Marcie, i’m welcome back. You’re one of them. Thank you. You’re going right why friday the thirteenth, the best day for me to be with tony that’s how i started my day. Really? No, you didn’t. You don’t start today that way, did it is all right. Only in practice. What i preach, i get up. The first thing i say when i get out of bed in the morning my feet hit the floor is i say, i love my life. The second thing i do is, i repeat, anywhere from five to ten empowering questions that i ask myself, i do what i encourage others to do because it has made such a tremendous difference in my life and my work and my success and my happiness and my joy let’s talk about some questions that fund-raising that comes back to this whole idea. Fund-raising well, we’re okay, wait, wait, wait. You’re you’re a bit of an anarchist you’re taking over the show. It’s tony martignetti non-profit radio not marcie, i’m non-profit radio watch it put you off. Well, i’m so excited to get to these. We’ll have sam cut you off. I’ll tap dance for half an hour. Don’t worry about it. Okay? No, wait, wait. Before we get to the questions of what we were, i don’t think we spent enough time on changing your mind. Set you as the fundraiser, changing your mind set so that you can empower yourself to have these. Create relationships that create joyful donors. Could spend some more time with that. Changing your own mindset. No, you don’t want to. Well, tony, that i think that that’s what i was trying to say. So let me start with a little bit older, and that is that first up, you have to first off it’s some level you have to take on that this is valid. So you’re not to say, oh, my gosh, that woman why did he have her on? And i will tell you that when i look out in my speaking audiences, i couldjust pick him out. I can pick out the people that are going okay, put the pan away. This is going to be one of those sessions. And then what fun is that? If they hang in there with me, they will get to the point where they come around saying, gosh, i really would like to be able to raise dollars like this. I think i might just wanna listen to this or instead of shutting down with those feelings like oh, i’ve heard this before. Yeah, yeah, yeah, i know all about that now. We got one of those positive people in our office drives me nuts. So if they will step back and be sincere about looking at it, one of the ways that most quickly you can change this mindset is to simply try saying what disempowering questions do i ask myself? So you have to be a little self aware and then to say, how can i change that into ah, into an empowering question into a positive questions? Okay? And you have given us ah, good number of examples, including for me. Thank you. I’m going to be working on why are speaking gigs coming to me with such great abundance? All right, all right. I’m gonna work on that each day. But now you gave us other examples to all right? You know, this is, uh, it’s really? You know, it requires introspection, right? Okay. Okay. Months. Come back down to again. That that, you know, what’s what’s in ourselves. What’s inside of us comes out of our mouth what’s in your head comes out of your mouth within your head comes out of your mouth. You know, if you’ve ever tried if you’re ever really annoyed with somebody ah, and you think i’m just gonna let this go? I am not going toe. This is not going to eat away at me, i’m gonna and and you don’t deal with it somehow you don’t either consciously forgive it or you write it down on something and rip it up or throw it away. You know? They’ll come that day when you’re tired or that person comes in front of you and you say, uh, you’re doing this and i hate it when you do this, and i hated one of you better data and it comes out, you what’s inside with inside will will matriculated out if we don’t if we don’t challenge it or deal with it a lot of times, it’s fear based its anger based, um and those are things that we have to we have to look at in our world of may i talk about they i talked only about our world of raising major dollars. And now these questions class over from our personal side to our more professional side. Yeah, ok, there’s. Some other places i want to go to. So go ahead, take a minute. Yeah, but i think about, you know what kinds of questions do it. Why is it so hard to raise money? So many lack mindset center in armonk. You know, there’s, not enough out there. Uh, why would people give to this organization when therefore others that do the same thing? Or why would they give here? They think the government should fund this, um, or it’s just so hard about, you know, why is it so hard to talk about asking for money? And i liked instead, really, look at some of those questions and say, why does money come to me and so easily? Why are people so eager to meet with me about my mission? Why is this project attracting so many supporters? Why are people so eager to support my organization? Why do people, tony? Why do people have more than enough money to invest in my organisation in this cause? All right, why don’t i take just the right step to match perspective givers with my mission? Okay. All right. All all positive. Excellent. And what i love about podcast is people could go back and slide the slider back two minutes or so and hear all those again and again. I hope they do. Marshall what’s your you have the relationship action plan. What is that? Well, i’m sure that many of your listeners are familiar with kind of a cycle development or a cycle of fund-raising and and i had to redo that because it didn’t work for me. That’s the moves you’re referring to moves management? Yeah, kind of in the fact that we have cultivation, solicitation and stewardship and, you know, we cultivate allowed in wisconsin, but it’s for corn cheese cheese, too? Well, yeah, you know, actually, i’m in new york and why i just eat it or whatever, just you just keep producing it and shipping it over here, and we’ll eat it in new york. I don’t have to i don’t know the back story it’s a deal, but instead there’s a fella and his name is doug lawson on dh he’s in texas, and he has been a consultant in our universe for years and years and years, and i still respect and admire him. And he said, philanthropy, this is how we defined philanthropy. Philanthropy is the mystical mingling so it’s, not an exact science. I’m a biochemist by training, by the way, so i get exact science. But philanthropy is the mystical mingling of a joyous giver, an artful askar and a grateful recipient? No, that’s cool. Say that one more time. So say one more time philanthropy is the mystical mingling of a joyous giver, an artful askar and a grateful recipient. Yeah, all right, that’s. The whole premise of my book, tony, and and what we’ve done is we put that on a cycle my colleague don grey and i where were instead of cultivation, we create a joyful giver where, instead of solicitation, we make an artful act where, instead of stewardship, we demonstrate how were the grateful recipient, we demonstrate that appreciation and that’s the cycle that we want to go around. And so you ask me about a relationship action plan? What a relationship action plan is there a rap? Is that it kind of our thoughtful, considered, uh, series of touches that we do with our major donors? Napor i’ll tell you, tony, my students are telling me that it’s not just limited to major donors, that it can be used in the annual fund, that it can be used to recruit a boardmember that it it really is appropriate for almost every aspect of my life. My sixteen year old uses it to talk about why he shouldn’t have to make his bed so it can be applied a lot of different ways. Okay? And that that rap, of course, is the rap is our a p not woronkowicz there’ll be a warped? You don’t wantto warped relationship action plan that will be a rap also, but no, no, i don’t want the red line through that. We don’t want the world to plan we want just are you okay? But it’s our thoughtful plan for what we’re doing it’s not justice, you know i’m gonna wing it. Um especially are major donors they’re way too important. I respect them. I’m i’m concerned and vested in them having the best experience they can have with my organization. I want them. And one of the things that we tend to forget about it is we we make that our phil ask and they say yes and then we say great. Now, where’s the next one, i’m going to go out and ask for money for no, no, no, no, no that’s when we really have to say how can i really be that grateful recipient? What things can i do with them? What experiences can they have? That really go beyond demonstrating the impact of their giving, but really make them recognize and feel that i appreciate what they’ve done for this organization, that we are grateful for their investment with us. You know, so often we say that it’s important to do stewardship because it leads to the next gift to me it does, but to me that’s the wrong reason to do artful and thoughtful stewardship because the donor, the giver, has the right to deserve e-giving that the donor needs to, you know it, how’d it? How should we be treating each other here on planet earth that giving the priority to saying thank you to show that since their appreciation, one of my favorite questions for donors is to say, okay, help me understand what can i do? What what experiences, what people, what activities, what would help you best know how sincerely grateful i am that you chose to invest in this organization. All right, i want to know that what’s the role of ah, your service, suggesting it visualizations in fund-raising. Um for me, it’s not i think that people who convince jewel lies like i look at one of my i am a badger fans through and through and russell wilson is, of course, somebody who played with the badgers now is with the seattle seahawks and he talking about sports now, i don’t know anything about sports is best is basketball, the one with home runs, no basketball one that’s going on right now for the badgers, tony, that i’m sacrificing, too, being with badgers, i okay, that’s, obviously a wisconsin team. Okay, good, i hope the badgers do well, i don’t know them, but go ahead, but try not to do too deep into sports because you’ll lose me, okay? I think that a lot of time in that arena, though, we talk about the fact that people see something happening before it happens. That to me is visual ization on, and i guess i used visualization in the world of major gift fund-raising in that and that i do see donors that i’m working with, happy with their giving outcomes. I do take time to see people down the road, delighted with what they’ve done and i try. To spend some time seeing that. But i’m not as good at that as i am actually asking my questions. That’s. Why i come back to the question, because the questions draw my thoughts to the positive side. All right, marcie, i want you to work on something. I want you to work on something each day. I want you to ask, why am i such a good visual izer? We’re going to we’re going to beef up here. We’re going to beef up your visualization skills. All right? Why am i such a good visual, isar? Because these air interesting, you know, i visualize sometimes when i’m sending email, i try i don’t i’ve never pulled the recipients, so i don’t know whether this has any validity whatsoever, so it could just be me spewing nonsense, but sometimes i try to convey emotion in an email when i don’t have a choice. I don’t have time for the call or i know the person’s not available or whatever the situation, because i try not to use email for serious conversations, but when i have to, for some reason i try to visualize the way the person is receiving it, and and i think about the emotion that i’m sending it with. I don’t know if it does any good, but like i said, i have no nothing to back that up, but it’s ah it’s a form of visualization, i think tony and i think that one, because if there’s anything, and in fact, i’m going to embrace your question just with that way, because if i could have back the time that i’ve heard other people through email when the way they interpret it, what i said totally is a surprise to me. Really still no that’s, not at all what i meant by those words. I got this an email i think can be so misunderstood. Oh, gosh. And sometimes and a lot of time, folks will say to me that they spend, you know, they spend a half an hour writing a three sentence email because it’s so important to them that the words are not misunderstood. So i think that’s an excellent, excellent strategy. Why am i such a good visual, isar? And as i send that email, i’m going to match in the other person, opening that email up and reading it withy intense the intention, the spirit with which i sent it. We have to take braking again, marcie, for a couple moments hanging there with us. I know you will. You not go anywhere. We’ll talk a little about attracting what you want for your donors and some mindfulness, which were all touching around, but we’ll get to it specifically stay with us. 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If you have big ideas and an average budget, tune into the way above average. Tony martin. Any non-profit radio ideo. I’m jonah helper from next-gen charity. Jonah helper has a new book coming out. We’re gonna get him on. When? When that book is released, more live. Listen, love it’s incredible! The abundance. I’m not even visualizing and the abundance is coming. Somerville, new jersey live listener live out the somerville, new jersey and flushing, new york live listener lived to you going abroad. Masato job japan. Konnichiwa and islamabad, pakistan live listener lived to you as well. Okay, marcy, i’m, um so you will. You will take time to be in your office and you will visualize your donors being a specific donorsearch being joyful about their gift. I don’t have that right. I think tony it’s more that everything i do. I approach the whole idea of raising money from the place of i want to do i want to be the conduit between between that the mission and what will bring my donor the most joy in investing in and my Job is to partner those 2 things together. And when i come to it from that perspective instead of g how can i get him to give? How can i get the money? You know, you know, do i need to talk? To him this what if i do this? What if i do that? That kind of manipulative approach it just makes for a different relationship? And the reason that it’s so exciting for me to have been at the same place for so long is i really experienced what we talk about, where a donor may start with the annual fund. Not everybody does this path the same way i realize that, but then they start making they start making larger gift, and eventually, when you work with them on that ultimate gift, that the transformational gift when you’ve had of the opportunity, the privilege to walk side by side with that donor over a lifetime of e-giving it’s, it’s just really inspiring it’s just really a great thing to experience and see that the joy that donors have in investing and if we talk to them from a lack perspective, if we say to them are are we don’t have enough money, scarcity costs are going up and pour us, and we’re victims mean, tony, how many successful victims do you know? You’re talking about the scarcity mindset versus the versus abundance? Okay, you know, i saw something on your site a tte marcie. I’m dot com nothing. Nothing changes if you don’t change. Hi. So that’s basically you’re saying, if you keep doing the same things, you’re going to get the same outcomes, right? All right. Right. And and that’s where? That’s where tony i am, i am really bringing some different from different skills than i ever thought i would dio into my work with people in the nonprofit world because i found that they see so many how to you know how to write a letter, you know how to make a major gift call how to do this out of you know how, how to when what they really have to stop and spend time on is what’s going on in my head, that’s getting in the way of me, really working with the donors i’m trying to work with, uh, and a lot of times there’s some now there’s. Some lack mindsets, there’s, some insecurities, there’s, some real fears. There’s some riel fine sets about money. Money is the root of all evil. You know that there’s junk going on. And that, i believe, gets in the way of our success more than some. Of our skillsets, but yet we keep gravitating towards that. Skillsets you know, i’ve got it. I’ve just got to know more about planned giving vehicles. Boy, it’s really prevalent and in your area, tony, you know, oh, if i just knew maura about no stock and the fact that you can deduct it for thirty percent of our adjusted gross income here, the gifts and five years after, i just knew more of the hat. When really it’s it’s about when our donor wants to accomplish in having our organization, something they’re so passionate about, be able to do their good work and into perpetuity forever. You want to share a story about a joyful donor? Oh, there’s somebody that come to mind. I don’t think i will learn what to do with the cranberry grower. I’m from wisconsin, okay? And his name is guy and please, he was somebody who was involved only as an annual donor until his father got to be older and he was going to take over the crime, very marsh and he came to me and he said he wanted to do something something, you know, i didn’t know he wanted to do something for his father and and his father’s health was a little bit challenged, so we talked about what that might look like, and we talked about, you know, and i we talked about what would make him forever feel excited and delighted every time he thought about what he had done in honor of his father started out in honor of his father, and we looked at would that be connected is being a student now his dad really wasn’t a student, he waas, but his dad wasn’t what that be know what that be? Some research because certainly the research had help them be successful, not went really be. He do a lot of the researchers. Well, well, actually, that’s. Where it is it’s, about no it’s about the relationship he had with some of the faculty who came out and helped him when he had troubles with the cranberries. And whether that was in off paston, insect, past whatever it was. And so we ended up looking at. In tao ing of researcher two be ableto focus solely on cranberry issues at the university, and eventually the gift that he made through a variety of of different investment was to endow a chair in cranberry research, and his father lived for the first chair to be awarded. Um and i and i’ll never forget the day. I mean, i was just never forget today where his dad beamed and he beamed and there was nothing manipulative about it. There was nothing, uh, it was it was a marvelous journey towards that outcome, and to this day guy is is pleased and honored and delighted to share that story of what he did in honor of his dad with anybody who would like to hear it most wasn’t important about it is i’ve long since left the university and he’s gone, but we still exchange holiday greetings and we’re still friends, and i understand that you can’t get too close to your donors, and yes, we’re professionals and all of that. But you know what starita they’re sharing with you some things that are very personal way, we have to leave it there. Marcie, i’m sorry to cut you. Off martin marcy, we have to leave it there. I’m sorry, the why do i not have more time to spend with marcie? I’m but i don’t, you’ll find her at marcy, i’m dot com, and on twitter at marcy hime. Thank you very, very much for sharing. Thank you. Tony was delightful to be here next week. 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Charles best founded donors choose dot or ge somehow they’ve gotten in touch kind of off line as it were and and no two exchanges of brownies and visits and physical gift mark echo is the founder and ceo of eco enterprises. You may be wearing his hoodies and shirts. Tony talked to him. Yeah, you know, i just i i’m a big believer that’s not what you make in life. It zoho, you know, tell you make people feel this is public radio host majora carter. Innovation is in the power of understanding that you don’t just put money on a situation expected to hell. You put money in a situation and invested and expected to grow and savvy advice for success from eric sabiston. What separates those who achieve from those who do not is in direct proportion to one’s ability to ask others for help. The smartest experts and leading thinkers air on tony martignetti non-profit radio big non-profit ideas for the other ninety five percent.

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