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Nonprofit Radio for May 3, 2013: Small Nonprofits: Raise More Money

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Amy Eisenstein: Small Nonprofits: Raise More Money

Consultant and author Amy Eisenstein returns. She’s the principal of Tri Point Fundraising and her new book is “Raising More With Less: An Essential Fundraising Guide.” We’ll talk about her strategies that get small nonprofits to diversify and increase fundraising revenue.

 
 


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Dahna hello and welcome to tony martignetti non-profit radio big non-profit ideas for the other ninety five percent. I’m your aptly named host it’s friday, may third have you been to itunes, teo rate and review the show? If you haven’t, i’d be very grateful if you did love to reflect the fact that there’s over nine thousand listeners in among the ratings and reviews you just go to itunes, you can go to non-profit radio dot net that’ll get you to itunes and click readings and reviews. I’d be very grateful for your one two five star rating and a quick review. I hope you were with me last week. I’d suffer peptic ulcer if it became known to me that you missed a conversation with eugene fram, professor emeritus at rochester institute of technology, dr frame is author of policy versus paper clips introducing non-profits to a corporate model of board governance to cut out the minutia from agendas so that your board can focus where it should on policy and planning, he explained what the model is and how to implement it, and we talked about specific week board practices like ignoring term limits and bad meeting attendance. This week, small non-profits raise more money consultant and author amy eisenstein returns she’s, the principal of tripoint fund-raising and her new book is raised more with less, raising more with less sorry, amy, raising more with less that’s her book, we’ll talk about her strategies that get small non-profits to diversify and increase fund-raising revenue about halfway through on tony’s, take two fund-raising fundamentals for the chronicle of philanthropy remember that it’s, my other podcast on i’ll refresh your recollection, my pleasure to welcome a xero amy eisenstein easy you’re not easy, you’re amy. Tony, how are you? Happy to be here. Thank you very much. Let me give you the proper introduction. Now that we’ve got your name straight. Amy, author of fifty, asks in fifty weeks and her new book is raising more with less. Both are part of the trench in the trenches siri’s from charity channel press she’s been director of development for shelter, our sisters, a battered women’s shelter and the douglas college at rutgers university. So she’s been in the fund-raising seat now, she’s. A consultant she’s with us from westfield, new jersey. Amy eisenstein. Welcome back. Thanks, tony. All right. Um let’s. Start with the fund-raising cycle that small and midsize shops may not be familiar with what the parts of that? Yeah, there is a basic fund-raising cycle that you want to take your donor’s through, whether their grant thunders, foundation thunders or corporations or individuals, the sun, the basic fund-raising cycle starts with identification. The question is, who are you going to fund raise from the second that stage and the cycle is cultivation and that’s about relationship building so that’s about getting to know your potential donors your perspective, donors on dh educating them about your organization, but also really learning about what makes them philanthropic. What touches their heart good, good step is solicitation that’s what i call the moment of truth that’s when you actually ask for the donation on daz, i said, whether you’re asking an individual face-to-face whether you’re sending an appeal letter, whether you’re sending a grant application, that’s, the ask and then the fourth stage is a stewardship and that’s the thank you and follow-up and unfortunately, lots of organizations neglect this process or don’t do it well because they’re so happy and relieved that they’ve gotten the gift that they don’t say. Thank you or follow-up later and let the donor know how their money was used. And unfortunately, this is, you know, one of the biggest reasons for donor attrition a donor’s not returning to make a second gift so really does do significant harm to a fund-raising program. If you skip that fourth and final step, we’ll talk about these in a little more detail. How do you know which step you’re at with each prospect or each donor? Uh, well, it’s, something that a development director or an executive director has to juggle and manage that’s one of the things that they’re responsible for doing so maintaining your list and figuring out where you are with each donors, the process is an important part of raising more money, right? But all right, so suppose someone has made a gift now that they’re they’re donorsearch were stuart ing them? Yeah, but we’re going to be hoping that they’re going to make another gift. You know, thinking of the annual fund, which we’ll get to. How do you know when to start the cultivation again? Right? Well, once you have a donor who’s, you know, once they’ve made their first gift and hopefully their second gift, then the lines between stewardship and cultivation do start to blur, so you’re thanking them. You’re keeping them updated about how their gift it was used and that’s also part of the cultivation, the relationship building process so those lines, they’re definitely blurred once the prospective donor is an actual donorsearch as opposed to a non donor-centric telefund you’re goingto ask, at least annually, depending on the type of ass you’re making, you may ask more than annually. For example, if you’re sending appeal letters, you might send an appeal in the spring and in the bottle and also ask for an event or a raffle to get sale so you can ask several times a year of the same donor that you’ve done proper stewardship. Thank you and follow-up in between each act. But if it’s more something like a major gift, you’re only gonna ask once a year. If it’s for your annual fun, we’re probably not going to touch capital campaigns today, so annual fund you want to ask at least annually, right? Okay. Let’s, let’s, get some help with identifying this is ah small non-profit let’s say, i’m the ceo and on i do prefer the title ceo over executive director on and, you know, we’re just two years old, and we’re i don’t know. What should we be engaged in? What kind of work should we be doing? Yeah, all right. Let’s ah, let’s. Well, you’ve worked with sheltering victims of domestic violence so let’s say that we are ah, domestic violence shelter. We’re only two years old. We’ve only been fund-raising through events in the past two years. We don’t have a list of people to start an annual fund with what do i do? Yeah, so one of the activities that i do with organizations when they don’t have a list toe look back on first of all, i’ll say that that example that you just give gave they should act absolutely be starting to build their list. So you said, you know, they’ve had some events right over to you. They’re capturing everybody, who’s, attending what they’ve given at those events and their contact information at a minimum. Okay, do start have some donors okay, don’t list so that they can look back on them in the future in the near future for doing this type of identification. But let’s, say that there’s no list right now. So i bring staff and board members at board retreat through an exercise. It looks like a spider grid and i start with a circle in the middle and i put the organisation in the middle and i say, okay, who does the organization know? And we do spokes out like a wheel better than a spider. Think of a wheel with both the organizations in the middle. Okay, so the the organization notes board members, they know volunteers, they know clients, they know service providers. They know all these types of people. So that’s your first list, you know, who are the contracts of the organization? Know, looks so boardmember volunteers, clients, those type of things dunaj did the exercise with you as an individual staff member or boardmember in the middle? Who do you know personally? Friends, family, neighbors, colleagues, people. You went to college with parents of your kid’s friends, people at church, etcetera, etcetera. So i asked boardmember sze to make this type of wheel and lift all the group of people they know and then pick one or two people from each group so to friends to family members, to colleagues, to neighbors that they’re willing to start building a relationship with you for the organ on behalf of the organization on these people may or may not become donors, but their perspective donors amy amy let’s say that i on we just have about a minute and a half before a break let’s say that i’m a fairly savvy ceo, so i did capture all the people from that have attended the events through the two years, but we would do this spoke exercise spoken well, exercise anyway, right? These vendors and friends of non-profit friends of board members and it’s, several community leaders. Okay, we’re still going to do this. Yeah, absolutely. And add them to your list. Okay, s o just in about a minute, we have left or so before we go away for a couple minutes, what? How are we going to identify the cultivation strategy for these people? Yeah, well, it’s going, we’re going toe pick probably depending on who you’re looking at. But if we’re looking for potential individual face-to-face type of donors, so are bigger donors for the organization, whether that means five hundred dollars or thousand. Dollars or ten thousand dollars and up um, i encouraged small organizations that are just getting started with this toe pick their top twenty list so people that they think all good donors need to things. They need capacity, which is the ability to give so they need some money on. They need inclination so they need an interest in the organization or the cause. Um, and so looking at these lists that you’ve come up with whether it’s event attendees or people that your board members know where members now and saying, who has who has the best potential in both those categories, who do we think has has money based on what we know about them, what their jobs are and where they live, etcetera and who’s shown an interest in the organization or the cause? Okay, amy, we got we got to go away for a couple of minutes. We’ll come back and we’ll continue talking about the fund-raising cycle. Stay with all right, stay with us. Talking alternative radio twenty four hours a day. Are you confused about which died it’s, right for you? Are you tired of being tired? How about improving your energy strength and appearance? Hi, i’m ricky keck, holistic nutrition and wellness consultant. 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See, now we’ve we’ve thought about who these people are, and we know that they have we know are top our top people in each category have capacity and and willingness, what’s our next step, the next step is building relationships with them off cultivation. So i always joke around with people that non-profits try and build relationships with people without ever meeting them. So they send the mail, they send them e mails, but that’s not really relationship building. So you have to pick up the phone on schedule a meeting with them as nerve racking as that may be for the first time on on game me the person to do that, we’ll vary based on who our prospect is, right? Yes, absolutely can be development. Staff members that can be the executive director or board members if they know the perspective donorsearch or even if they don’t quite frankly, everybody is part of the development team, the fund-raising team and depending on who has the relationship and if there’s no relationship there than it’s either development staff boardmember or executive director. Okay, okay, on dh building, that relationship is going to be inviting them to events or maybe a one on one meeting or it’s going to vary. It’s going very right, right? One on one meetings is always going to be the most effective in terms of really getting to know the person on answering their questions and learning about their philanthropic needs and tendencies. So you always want to take somebody out to coffee or meet them at their home or office wherever their most comfortable. It doesn’t have to be for lunch, which is something. Ah, a lot of novice fundraisers make the mistake of they think it must be for lunch, but it can be a twenty minute meeting and somebody’s office or at their home. And, of course, you always want to invite people on tours of your organization and two events there’s all different types of cultivation, but definitely a one on one should be in there during the course of the year. Ok? And then as the relationship develops, um, well, and also based on your scheduling of your annual fund appeal, you’re going to know when the right time is teo to solicit the person. Yeah, it’s actually, based on the relationship with the donor and how that’s going so it doesn’t donordigital really care about your annual fund cycle. So so you should really take your cues from your donor on dh. Ask honestly, i tell organizations task as soon as possible because usually people who are an x variants and nervous wait too long. So i asked as soon as possible and then on and then go from there, all right? And then when the gift is made, we you know, we talked some about you mentioned the importance of stewardship. Yeah, so a thank you letter and the tax letter needs to go out right away. Best practice, or is within forty eight hours. But i like to tell small organizations if they can get it out within a week. That’s perfectly acceptable and then, of course, it’s about really telling donors what impact there gets made and why there made the difference. Now believe thank you. Letter. Now, believe it or not, you you’re treading within jargon jail. Very close. At least with the tax letter. Thank you. Letter in the tax letter let’s. Explain what? That i think we know. What the thank you letter is. The tax letter has to be separate on dh. What do you mean by the tax letter? Yeah. So in my experience, most organizations combined them, which i personally think is ok. It just needs to be appropriate tax language. About what? That it’s a five a one c three. And that it’s a tax deductible gift on dh. Then you can thank the donor within the context of that letter as well. So it doesn’t have to be two separate letters. Okay, andi, as you’re saying that it’s tax deductible, you wantto say that, you know, it’s tax deductible. Something like to the maximum extent allowable by law, you know, check with your advisors, right? Absolutely. Absolutely. Keep me. Keep me honest. Okay. Well, yeah. I mean, i don’t wanna get people in trouble, but i’m you know, you’re thinking that way, ok, thank you. All right, let’s, let’s talk about the different players that we’ve already you’ve already alluded to them, but what’s the ceo’s i’m the ceo what’s my responsibility around this new new individual fund-raising initiative. You know, i have to say it’s going to be different at every organization because it’s going to depend if the organization has any fun paid fund-raising staff members and how engaged and involved the board members are but that’s practice, and in theory, the executive director has a very significant role in fund-raising because, honestly, the donors want to meet with the ceo, the person who has the vision and the ability to implement that vision. And so the ceo is going to meet with most of the major donors, even if there’s development staff around just because you’re able tto hyre your first development director doesn’t mean that the executive director ceo can cy ah big sigh of relief and then say, i don’t have to do fund-raising anymore that’s just not the case. So the development director i like to think of as more behind the scenes and coordinating the visits, providing the information on the donors to the ceo before they go out and do the meetings. The development director certainly will meet with lower level, lower tier donors. Andi help with training and coordination of board members. Okay on dh there was something in the chronicle of philanthropy back in january january twenty ninth, there was an opinion piece called development directors are not a miracle worker, i don’t know. Did you see that? Do you remember it? I don’t remember saying ok, well, it goes to your point of the ceo sitting back and saying, oh, we have we have a director of development now so my responsibility is done. The money is just going to start coming in because we have our miracle worker. Yes boardmember sze, make that mistake a lot too let’s talk about the board what’s what’s their responsibility. So board members are responsible for helping with fund-raising. And the first thing that board members need to do is make their own personal contribution. And we call this one hundred percent participation. So we want every organization tohave every boardmember making a personal gift to the organization. And the reason that this is so important is that other thunders grantmaker sze primarily but also individuals want to know that the board of the organization is supportive of the organization and investing in the organization, because why should any other donor invest in the organization if don’t if their own boardmember sze won’t invest? So that’s the first thing duitz we also need boardmember to help with fund-raising because they’re the most effective fundraisers in terms of peer-to-peer solicitation, they can ask other individual donors without having any perceived or really all terrier motive like they’re not getting a salary from the organization. Their motive is completely voluntary and pure and so very persuasive when you say as a volunteer as a boardmember i made my contribution, and now i’m asking you to support the organization as well. So the most effective fund-raising campaigns i’ve ever worked with are where volunteers and board members are deeply engaged. What do we do with the boardmember who says? And maybe you have an example if you have a real life one. Well, welcome it, but the boardmember who says, you know, i either i can’t give or i won’t give i’m giving my time, i don’t need to give money also, i haven’t in the past two years, let’s put this person on my board, they haven’t given they’ve come to the event, they’ve come to some of the events that we’ve had over the years, but they’ve never made an outright gift. What are we going to say there? Yeah, you know, i so two examples one is i was working for a literacy volunteers organization here in new jersey a couple years ago, and we had a situation where a boardmember wouldn’t give and the executive director had applied to a foundation for a grant that required one hundred percent participation and the rejection letter said, the only reason we’re not giving you this grant it’s because you don’t have one hundred percent participation. Murcott and we showed that letter to that boardmember on dh, he made a twenty five dollar gift, and then he resigned off the board and quite frankly, most of the time when boardmember sze aren’t e-giving anything, they’re usually not productive in terms of volunteering or helping, and they’re not that valuable in other respects either where you get into sort of ah, piccoli situation is when you have a very active very committed, hardworking, dedicated boardmember who won’t give on dh, then you don’t want to lose that person, so then you have to sit down and have an honest conversation about how it’s hurting your mother. Fund-raising but i was actually on an airplane going to the, uh, speak at the conference just last week, and i was sitting next to a guy, and once i told them what i did, he said he’s on a board, and he doesn’t want to be told that he has to give um so it was very interesting hearing it and sitting on a plane for six hours next to someone who was very adamant again. E-giving he says it gives him time, and at the end, we agreed that he didn’t want to be told how much to give, but he was okay giving a donation and and i agree with that. Frankly, it should be up to the individual boardmember to give, in my opinion a significant gift for their personal budget, as opposed to a specific amount when you said you have a conversation with the boardmember did you say honest or ominous? Honest? Ok, well, it could be ominous. Also also, sure, but boardmember needs help with fund-raising because they can leverage gift that the staff can never get their hands around andi organizations that have boardmember that participate raised significantly more than organizations that have boardmember that don’t let’s move to recruiting the right board. Now, we my guest last week, eugene fran, we talked a lot about boards and the corporate model, but i want some of your advice on just a couple of points around onboarding croup, mint the you recommend great meetings. What? What makes a great meeting for boards. Yeah, well, let me start by saying what makes a terrible mistake. And i think that’s when the staff just reports out and reads reports, or even if boardmember zehr handed reports by staff and they read them, um and that makes for a boring board meeting and that i mean, you just cut out there after you said, and that makes waiting. Ok, about that. And so what makes for sorry? What makes for a great meeting is going to be when boardmember zehr engaged in discussion and so making sure that on the agenda there’s, meaningful discussion point toe have so that you are tapping into their skills and expertise, that’s the reason that you have them on the board so that they can discuss the hard issues that the organization might be facing? Ah, a second way to have a great boardmember thing is what we do is integrate what we call a mission moment, so bring a testimonial or a client or a letter from a client talking about the importance of the organization and what difference it made in that client’s life so that the board members who may be removed from the mission slightly can get back in touch with it. Maybe one of the women from my from our shelter is willing to come and talk, really, and it just has to be brief, right? Like five or seven minutes or something at a board in five, six minutes that’s it on dh. That really does amplify. What? What eugene fram recommended last week. You like to see annual retreats also, i dono i think that the most effective board’s always have annual retreat. It’s important to have a meeting once a year that has a totally different agenda from your regular board meeting agenda and that’s really? What i mean by a retreat and usually it’s, you know, slightly extended meeting, so it might be a half day it might even be a full day and there’s usually two things on the agenda to items on the agenda of a retreat, big items one is planning strategic planning and the other needs to be fund-raising and development on dh so many organizations don’t have retreats at all, and of the ones that do many just focus on planning and neglect the fund-raising and i strongly encourage organizations tio have these annual retreat and include both pieces. So as you’re doing your bored, look, rooting, you can assure perspective boardmember is that you have great active meetings that you’re going to tap into their expertise, they’re not going to be looking envelopes on dh that there’s an annual retreat to look forward to and that all of these things together, we’re goingto mean a meaningful boardmember experience for them, exactly. Let’s, let’s just remind listeners that i’m talking to amy eisenstein and she’s, the principal of tripoint fund-raising which your pine find it tripoint fund-raising dot com, we’re talking about her latest book, raising mohr with less amy. What are the what of the three points in tripoint? Are there three points? You know, there were ages ago. I started his business, and now it is morphed. And i’m embarrassed to say that there is not trust three points anymore. Well, what were the big three originally? I think of them after the break. Oh, my gosh. Okay. Okay. I don’t even know anymore. That’s. Horrible. I will. I will try and get back to you. All right, all right. Well, it’s multi point fund-raising. Yeah, exactly. Right. Weii, just have about a minute and a half before we go away again. Let’s. Introduce the idea of the annual fund. How do i know that? It’s it’s. The right time for me to start an annual fund or should i have started one two years ago when i started the organization? Yeah, i do encourage all organizations have an annual fund. What annual son really means is that it’s money used to pay your annual operations. So whether it’s, programmatic money or administrative money, a combination of them both. So anything that you’re raising for an annual basis is comprising your annual fund. And that can include events. Because that is going to fund your annual operations so that’s, the ball that an annual son really means. I guess many people think of it as a mail campaign. I include everything that you’re raising annually for annual operations. All right, we’re going to talk a lot more about the annual fund when we return. And, ah, right after we return, it’ll be tony’s take to stay with us. You don’t think that shooting the good ending, you’re listening to the talking alternative network, get in. Thing. Good. Are you suffering from aches and pains? Has traditional medicine let you down? 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Geever if you have big ideas and an average budget tune, tony martignetti non-profit radio we dio i’m jonah helper, nari team in co founders of next-gen charity. Welcome back time for tony’s take two fund-raising fundamentals that is my monthly podcast for the chronicle of philanthropy, it’s different than this one and that’s first only once a month, and it’s also much shorter. Each episode sewed is only about ten minutes and that a podcast is devoted to fund-raising topics my guests have talked about online giving and grant seeking ira e-giving events using volunteers smartly. Your end e-giving amy eisenstein has been a guest on that show. You will find fund-raising fundamentals on the chronicle of philanthropy website, also on itunes, where you can subscribe and there’s information about it on my block. There’s a link my blog’s is that tony martignetti dot com and that is tony’s take two for friday, the third of may eighteenth show of the year. Easy, easy. You’re still there time here. Okay, i know you were, um all right. We are broaching the topic of the annual fund. I’ve a fairly savvy board ceo, but we did not start the annual fund two years ago, but i feel like we’re ready now. I feel like we need a steady a source of fund-raising and i just want to diversify. Away from strictly events, so i’m on the right track in that respect, right? Yeah. I mean, i do want to diversify. Yeah, we talked about building the list already, but that list needs to be sort of personalized, right? Yes. Most effective annual campaign is when you’re going to be sending mail or email or communications with an individual as personalized as possible. Okay, mail or email. And how do we how do we start personalizing? So, depending on what resource is you have in terms of list on dh revenue and money to start mail campaigns can be more expensive at the beginning than they generate. And so it is an investment at time. Encourage organizations, tio have a multi pronged approach of both male and email solicitations. Um, and also, you strongly want to consider monthly or recurring giving programs. So investing in the technology to have, uh, bank withdrawals and automatic credit card charging so that you know, instead of having one hundred dollars, a year donor-centric e for fifteen dollars a month or twenty dollars a month and that significantly increases what individuals are able to give or willing to give to your organization. Okay. So let’s, there’s a lot in there. That zone pack some of this let’s start with the direct mail way. Certainly, we wantto personalize by using their name in the letter. And and not dear friend of the organization, something like that. What more can i do around direct mail? Tto make it personal? Uh, well, first of all, on the outside envelope, you wantto look att make it look as less less bulky as possible. Bulk mail. So, using a live stamp, a supposed teo bulk mail stamp. Okay, well, let’s, start with that. I’m gonna now there are i mean, i for planned e-giving mailings that i do for clients. I always prefer live stamps. Absolutely. But sometimes people will say, well, you know, there’s research from direct mail gurus that the life stamp doesn’t pull as much or doesn’t necessarily pull to the to make it worthwhile over a bulk stamp. Ah, bulk mailing or ah, something that’s. Ah, maybe not. Bulk mail. But it’s it’s ah, a male looks at a male indicia what’s. That stamp called. I’m blanking on the world, but a meter metered male sam thank sam. Thank me. Thank you. Yeah. What? Do you? What do so what do you say when you get those objections? Well, i have to say, i’d like to see those studies because i would bet they don’t exist. My guess is that stan envelopes that don’t look like bulk mail that looked like their personal mail, which is a live stamp. Uh, get opened it significantly higher rates and if you’re direct mail piece, no matter how good inside the envelope is going in the trash before it’s opened, it doesn’t matter what’s inside that’s for sure. And so i actually also encouraged my client’s hand right envelopes teo as many as they can maybe fifty or a hundred of their top donors or perspective donors so that they really increase their chances of getting that mail open because it looks like personal mail. Oh, hand, write thie outside the address on your side. Ok, ok, do you? Ah, do you use first class pre sort to save money sometimes? Yes, so definitely you can work with your post office. I don’t know all the ins and outs of reducing the prices, but there are all sorts of ways to reduce the postage by working with pre sort and your post office, but still having that live stamp, basically, yeah, the details are pretty arcane, but basically you’re doing some of the sorting that’s what called pre sort so you’re saving labour for the post office, so they give you a reduced rate on each piece, but it still is alive stamp, and if you’re working with a male house, they’ll do that, and your database will sort by zip code and whatnot, so hopefully you’re not actually hands sorting it. It should be automated at this point, whether you’re doing it in house or whether a male house is doing it for you. All right now, if we’ve got, i don’t know a couple thousand pieces, maybe in our list or eventually, if we get there, maybe not in our inaugural list, but forget there, then it may be worth paying a printer or male house. Yeah, i mean, i encourage organizations usually i think they wait too long, and they’re spending hours and hours with dozens of volunteers on dh taking over their whole conference room for weeks at a time to get a big mailing out when it’s cost effective to use a male house so i would definitely look into that because some of what you spends paying the male house you save in postage and what they’re able to dio in terms of pre sort another thing. All right, do you have advice around how to find the right male house to work with you? You know, i would call other local non-profits and see who that they use and then get two or three quotes that’s what i would do all right, how about inside the inside the envelope? How can we personalize their aside from just saying, using the person’s name and addressing them as their name in the in the greeting write a couple things to do is if you have the technology to sort by interest or certainly donorsearch non donor-centric donors differently than people who have never given before. So that’s one way of personalizing by saying, you know, we acknowledge that you’ve given before, and we thank you for it, and we’re asking you again versus people who have never gotten given which you would address slightly differently. So the bulk of the letter can be similar, but you’d change a few lines and that’s to personalize it, other bigger organizations even sort personalize it by programs. So if we know that this donor is interested in our children’s program and that donor is interested in our senior citizens program, you know, we’d send them slightly different letters. But that’s, you know, once you get down the road, you’re more sophisticated, okay? And that all falls under segmentation, right? Okay. Would you recommend addressing the person as formally mister or missus, or using or using first name in the letter? You know, i i’m on the fence with that one. I think it depends on the organization and the donor base. And so, depending on what you know about your donors, i would start formally on dh. Then as you get to know them, maybe get less formal. Okay. Now, when i was in the air force there’s something that i think could apply to fund-raising, too. And i’ve seen clients do it when there was a formal greeting. You know, dear colonel, whatever. If the person from who was going to be signing the letter i knew the person, they would cross it off there. Just put a line through dear colonel smith and they would write the person’s name in, you know, fred, right a za personal touch as far as i know that that’s still the appropriate protocol. And that brings up a great point in terms of personalization. You wantto put personal notes on as many of these letters as you can, and especially by people who know the person that it’s going to the recipient. So ifyou’re boardmember can put personal notes on letters to people that they’re sending these letters teo than the rate of return increases significantly. Alright. And i love all this detail. Thank you for getting into detail with me. How about who’s going to sign the letter? Should should everybody sign the should the same person signed all the letters or since we’ve segmented shouldn’t vary, or if there’s relationship should that vary the signature? Yeah, i mean, yes, based on relationships, if somebody knows the person that’s the signer often the board chair will be the signer of ah campaign. Like this ilsen annual appeal campaign. But also maybe the executive director and the keyboard chairs signature it’ll be a dual signature at the bottom. Ok, dual signature. Ok. Interesting. Um anything else that? You want to suggest about direct mail before we move teo using email? Yeah, i think the best piece of advice i ever got actually came from thomas hearns on direct male paces. And that is to go through your letter and circle all the time you read, write i or we and replace them with you and make the little letter donor so you don’t want to don’t the letter to be about the organization as much as possible. You want it to be about the donor? What the donor’s done to support the cause in the organization and how much the donors of importance does that make sense? Yeah. You want to emphasize also what the donor’s gift is going to do for the organisation? Absolutely. Okay. Okay. So that’s. Interesting. Right? So change them all to teo. You a donor? Focusedbuyer er, do you have advice around? Does this matter whether it’s one page or more than one page? Some people get hung up on one on the lens. Do you have a concern about that video? All the research i’ve ever seen shows that a longer letters better. And that means four pages now there can be a lot of white space in your letter and pictures and pulled out quotes and all sorts of interesting things. So it’s not four straight pages of text, but that would be good if you could argue for a shorter letter. You know they don’t have the research to back this up. And so organisations listen to these loud board members who say i only want a one page letter but all the studies show that for paid daughters do better. Okay, so if i say to you, i wanted what you said to me earlier. You want to see the studies? You have the study’s? Yeah, you do. Okay. Okay. Interesting. All right. Ah, couple minutes about two minutes before we go away briefly let’s switch online email. If we can personalize email also. Can’t we? Absolutely as much as possible. So the same sort of segmentation can happen. You can send one set of emails to your donor’s versus your non donors toe. Add those quote unquote personal notes email. They can you can have them coming from board members who know the recipients. So you might take you know these twenty e mails and asked this boardmember to send them to their left. Okay, so, it’s okay, it’s okay? If it comes from someone’s personal email, then that’s better aren’t you more likely to open an e mail from a friend? And you are from an organization? Yes, i am, but okay, okay, but it’s so and then replies, going back to the person also, you know, that’s a tricky one, because technology and programs that have it go back to the organization, but if you’re small, start up, you’re not going to invest in that, and you’re just gonna have to rely on your individual volunteers to get that information back to you, but hopefully they’ll be following a donation now linked to your website on, and they shouldn’t be replying to your boardmember anyways, okay on, i want to put in ah little caveat that donate now button on your web site triggers the charity registration laws i’m always always aware of this, so you need to make sure that you’re in compliance with the state laws and all the states across the country. When you donate now, button goes live doesn’t matter if anybody ever clicks it from wyoming or in nebraska, you need to make sure you’re in compliance in those states and all the states because you’re deemed to be soliciting when that donate now button goes live that’s, the solicitation that’s. What triggers those registration requirements and i’ll say, if i have time for one last thing about direct mail, email and direct mail is that it’s not a solicitation if it doesn’t have a reply macken mechanism. So that means it has tohave a donate now button, and it has to have a reply envelope in your direct mail. Otherwise you won’t get any response. Okay, you do. You do want to see a reply envelope in the direct mail, absolutely it’s worth spending that money. Yes, and you need to be able to accept credit cards online and have that donate now button. Okay, we take a break, and when we come back, amy and i are going to start talking about the individual solicitations, maur, face-to-face and helping you overcome your fears for those. So stay with us. You’re listening to the talking alternative network. Are you stuck in your business or career trying to take your business to the next level, and it keeps hitting a wall? This is sam liebowitz, the conscious consultant. I will help you get to the root cause of your abundance issues and help move you forward in your life. Call me now and let’s. Create the future you dream of. Two, one, two, seven, two, one, eight, one, eight, three, that’s to one to seven to one, eight one eight three. The conscious consultant helping conscious people. Be better business people. Have you ever considered consulting a road map when you feel you need help getting to your destination when the normal path seems blocked? A little help can come in handy when choosing an alternate route. 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Amy eisenstein, i’ve never as the ceo, i’ve never faced somebody done somebody asked somebody face to face for gift whether it was fifty dollars or five thousand dollars. I haven’t done it. Help me overcome my fear of asking somebody fate, looking in their eye and asking them it’s, it’s terrifying me, it is terrifying. And i have to say part of the issue is that we come from at least here in the united states a culture of where money is taboo. We can’t talk about it, right? Yeah, some people would rather talk about death and and sex than than money. It’s absolutely true. I say that all the time and so talking about money is very hard because we were raised to think talking about money. Is rude, and so we have to overcome that. So i like to encourage people to think about a time that they gave to a charity, and how did it make them feel it made them feel great, not horrible. We have to get away from the idea that fund-raising is like arm twisting or begging, right? Okay on and think of it as investing in the community. And i like to think of fund-raising as helping somebody do something great that makes them feel good. So it makes me feel good too. Okay, how do i put that into action? I’ve i’ve called the person they’ve agreed to meet with me. I won’t make the novice mistake of doing it over lunch, although i will add parenthetically, i do like to meet people over lunch. I don’t know, i just like the sharing the space and the meal together, but that’s just me that’s just me. Let me just say about that. I think taking someone to a thank you lunch after they’ve made the gift is a wonderful idea because we do like to eat with people and break bread with them. But the problem with asking for a donation in a restaurant is that it’s often loud, you are having a private, confidential converse station. You are talking about money the waiter can interrupt at the wrong time and it’s hard to talk with your mouth full. So good reasons not actually asked in a restaurant. Okay, maybe i’m more skill. Can we say? I’m a little more skilled maybe and i’ve overcome those i’ve overcome those things and i go to restaurants where the service is bad so the waiter never interrupt now, okay, but i’m not fighting use i’ve i’ve made my appointment and i’m meeting the the prospect where she’s most comfortable in her office, which makes me uncomfortable. Help me out. Well, hopefully, first of all, you’ve been through the cultivation process with her, so you’ve met her in her office before, so it shouldn’t be as uncomfortable as you may think, okay? And during that cultivation process, you’ve asked her a lot of questions about your organization. Why she’s been a supporter in the past? Why she might like to support in the future and what types of things she might like. Thie open ended questions that you recommend in the book yeah, so she’s not surprised. This isn’t a surprise visit that she doesn’t know why you’re coming or that you’re going to be asking her for support. You know, nobody wants to be surprised, not the askar and not the donor. So when you set up the appointment, make it clear that you’re coming to talk about increased support in the future and that you want to talk about ways that they’ll get more involved in more supportive financially so that nobody’s caught off guard. Ok, ok, okay. Help me out a little more what’s what’s. Next. Okay, so you go. You want to have a specific amount in mind, you need to ask for a specific amount because if you ask for a gift but our donation and don’t say an amount, they don’t know what you’re thinking about and when they give you fifty dollars bill, thank you. They’ve done what you asked and you’ll be totally disappointed. So you’ve got to ask for an amount we like to say. A good good phraseology is we’d like to ask you to consider a gift in the range of five hundred dollars or a thousand dollars. Now you’ll notice. I didn’t actually give arrange it and say five hundred to a thousand because what happens if you actually asked for a ranger? They go to the low number, correct? They goto the low number, so to give them a little wiggle room, you say i’d like you to consider a gift in the range of a thousand dollars then if they come in, you know, seven fifty, they’ve done what you’ve asked, and everybody feels great, okay? Okay, no one asked for something specific, uh, program salary support a ban on these will be things that we are. We should be pretty confident they isa touchpoint for them it’s something that they like because of the previous meetings and all the cultivation we’ve done. Okay, so that shouldn’t be a surprise. Also you like you like rehearsals? Can you say something about rehearsing briefly? Yeah, because it’s such an uncomfortable thing when you’re just getting started with fund-raising i strongly encourage rehearsal and role play rehearsal is what you can do in front of the mirror, but yourself alone, we’ll play is what you do, especially if you’re going with a partner. So maybe the boardmember and the ceo. Are going together task? You absolutely need to know who’s opening the meeting who’s doing the ass who summarising who’s, making a follow-up plant at the end all of these important roles so that everybody knows what they’re doing. All right, we have to leave that topic there. You have a major gift challenge on your blogged that is free for people to get your advice. Why don’t you share what’s up there? Okay, great. This year, i’ve decided to dedicate my block for the full year tio what i call the major gifts challenge, and i’m encouraging people at all types and sizes of organizations to get involved with face-to-face individual asking, usually for the first time, and i’m taking people step by step through the process of doing everything we’ve talked about in terms of getting to a major gift or a personal ask it’s totally free, and i just encouraged people to spend two hours a week on the weekly tax that i suggest, whether it’s getting your list together or making a cultivation call up until we get to the ass. Alright, you’ll find amy and information on the major gift challenge at tripoint fund-raising dot. Com if you think of what those points are, amy, you’ll have to share them. Did you think of the three points you got the right? Same fast, same, very fast hyre empower a team. Okay, excellent. Her book, the latest is raising mohr with less. Get that book. 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Your Development Plan: You May Have Missed This Last Month

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It was the last full month of official summer and you might have been off on a much-needed and well-deserved vacation. At least, that’s what you told yourself. I’ll indulge you.

You may have missed August’s Fundraising Fundamentals podcast for The Chronicle of Philanthropy. I talked about development plans with my guests Amy Eisenstein, author of “50 Asks in 50 Weeks,” and Sue Dunning, executive director at Big Brothers Big Sisters of Mercer County New Jersey.

What is a development plan and when should you have one? What ought to be in yours? Who should have input into it and how does it get approved? What team leads the execution? What did Big Brothers Big Sisters learn that might help you? All that in under 10 minutes. Listen here.

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Nonprofit Radio for April 1, 2011: Ask Awareness for Small Shops

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Amy Eisenstein, author, 50 Asks in 50 Weeks, and founder, Tri Point Fundraising.

Ask Awareness for Small Shops:

Amy is the author of “50 Asks in 50 Weeks.” She will share lots of valuable insights for opening up relationships, identifying prospects, cultivating and soliciting.

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Zoho! Duitz dahna welcome, this is tony martignetti, the host of tony martignetti non-profit radio big non-profit ideas for the other ninety five percent and as every week, the aptly named host what a coincidence that i found this very show it’s april fool’s april one, two thousand eleven are april fool’s edition this week we’re going to be suffering no fund-raising fools on this april first you may remember first, though, last week i had back office blunders, and i’m looking jeff marston, the president of resource centers for management, explained in back off his blunders how to stop squandering money on your back office costs, and he revealed tricks to save big money on supplies, phone, energy desks and other stuff that your office needs. Also, we revisited the i’m looking recurring feature last week, we checked in with our recruiter, paula marks, and our non-profit job seeker leonora scala paula’s advice last week and a zit has every month that we’ve checked in with them helps not only paula, but you with your help’s not only leonora, but helps you also with your own search, whether that’s going on now or a search for you in the future this week. As i mentioned, no fund-raising fools on this april first day, it’s ask awareness for small shops with amy eisenstein. Amy is the author of fifty asks in fifty weeks. A guide to better fund-raising for your small development shop, and she’s going to share lots of valuable insights for opening relationships, identifying prospects, cultivating, soliciting, talking about different responsibilities for fund-raising in your small and midsize shop, and at about thirty two minutes after the hour, as always, it’s, tony’s take two, roughly thirty two. This week, it’ll be six tips to mastering your fund-raising relationships, based on a block post of mine and also a style consultant, dubbed me a profile in awesomeness this week, and i’ll share. I promise just a very little bit about that that’s, all on this week’s show after the break, i’ll be joined by amy eisenstein, and i hope you’ll stay with me. You’re listening to the talking alternative network. E-giving. Nothing. You could. Is your marriage in trouble? Are you considering divorce? Hello, i’m lawrence bloom, a family law attorney in new york and new jersey. No one is happier than the day their divorce is final. My firm can help you. We take the nasty out of the divorce process and make people happy. Police call a set to one, two, nine six four three five zero two for a free consultation. That’s lawrence h bloom two, one two, nine, six, four, three five zero two. We make people happy. Are you suffering from aches and pains? Has traditional medicine let you down? Are you tired of taking toxic medications, then come to the double diamond wellness center and learn how our natural methods can help you to hell? Call us now at to one to seven to one eight, one eight three that’s to one to seven to one eight one eight three or find us on the web at www dot double diamond wellness dot com. We look forward to serving you. Hey, all you crazy listeners looking to boost your business? Why not advertise on talking alternative with very reasonable rates? Interested simply email at info at talking alternative dot com welcome back to tony martignetti non-profit radio. I’m joined now by amy eisenstein. Amy is the author of fifty asks in fifty weeks a guide to better fund-raising for your small development shop and she’s going to be with me for the hour she is the principle of tripoint fund-raising, which you’ll find at tripoint fund-raising dot com before fund-raising consulting. She helped small and large non-profits raise millions of dollars as a director of development, and as i always point out, when this is the case, that’s, the kind of experience we love on the show she’s consultant now, but she has been buy-in the development shop shops in non-profits she’s, a frequent speaker and facilitator at board, retreats she’s, also the past president of the association of fund-raising professionals, the newjersey chapter, and i’m very glad that amy’s book fifty asks and fifty weeks brings her to the studio. Amy welcome, thanks, tony, glad to be here. My pleasures go got to have you. My voice is cracked. Have you sixteen, sixteen years old going on forty nine. Let’s, see so fifty asking fifty weeks when you wrote you wrote a book, so you must have seen a problem or a gap in small and midsize shop fund-raising what was that it’s? True, when i was a one shop development office, one person development office, i should say, i really found that i was elated and in a silo and could get so sidetracked and stuck doing grant reports database management thank you notes, planning events, writing newsletters all the things that have to happen in a one person development shop, but weeks and weeks could go by without actually making and ask. And of course, as a result, i wasn’t raising much money. So i looked at the development shops around me and saw that they were having the same issue, distractions, distractions and other work that’s urgent, but not as important. Not as important as making these solicitations actually making the ask um so in a small shop on dso, we’re talking as your book does too small and midsize shops so sort of how would you define those? Right? I’m talking about shops with one development staff person or up to three, maybe or an executive director who doesn’t have any paid development staff okay, and your book is all about encouraging? Mohr asks specifically fifty and fifty weeks, and i’m not going to ask you about the formulas for fifty what counts? What doesn’t count, but we are going, you know we’ll talk obliquely about things that that relate to getting two, fifty and fifty weeks, but i’m not going to hold you to a formula. So in a in a shop that’s that size who is responsible for fund-raising and what are the responsibilities? Sure, while fund-raising is always a team effort in any size shop and so the executive director needs to be involved, any development staff that hopefully an organization has is involved as well as board members have to be involved in order for the fund-raising to go well, so really everybody has their own piece of the puzzle to dio andi, everybody plays a role and tell me what the other question waas so just what the responsibilities are, but i think we’ll get to that. That and also hoping later, to talk about what happens if you have perhaps an executive director. Who’s not comfortable with fund-raising show so well, i think we’ll dive into that there’s this time. Okay, your book is mostly about individual fund-raising right, but so let’s, just talk about how individual fund-raising fits with other types of fund-raising sure. Well, the premise is that in small shops, often the organization is focused on its fund-raising in the past, on grantwriting and events, and focus really heavily on those types of fund-raising so my book encourages organisations to diversify their funding base and branch out to individual giving, which is a huge component of philanthropic dollars in the non-profit community that they’re not tapping and right, but typically a small startup non-profit begins its fund-raising with what people understand best and actually is probably a little easier in terms of fund-raising and that is the grant writing and research not that grants are easy but can be easier than individual asking on and then also events which i think people feel they have a handle on when they get started. That’s, right, and so it’s challenging non-profits to reach out and really tap individuals, which can be harder and take longer it’s about relationship building but that’s really where the big money is, so they have to get there if they’re going to grow their shop. Okay, so the importance of making this shift from the institutional to the individual, right? Okay. And so why event let’s explore just a little bit, like a minute and a half that we have before the break? Why is event fund-raising not such a stable way of continuing and growing your non-profit to the next level? Yeah, i think that having one or two events per year is a good way of fund-raising and cultivating donors at the same time and getting the word out about your organization. But something small organizations are inundated with events. They have five, six, ten, twelve events per year, and they’re just absolutely draining. The resource is time and energy of their volunteers of their staff, and actually, events are the most expensive way to raise a dollar in fund-raising so having more than one or two is just not efficient are effective, okay? And the return on investment is quite low generally for events correct it’s the lowest return on investment of all other types of fund-raising okay, and when we returned from this break, then amy and i will delve into making that transition to individual giving from the events and institutional giving. My guest is amy eisenstein, the author of fifty asks in fifty weeks. Stay with us talking alternative radio twenty four hours a day. Are you feeling overwhelmed in the current chaos of our changing times? A deeper understanding of authentic astrology can uncover solutions in every area of life. After all, metaphysics is just quantum physics, politically expressed, i and montgomery taylor and i offer lectures, seminars and private consultations. 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Join Joshua margolis, fitness expert at 2 one two, eight sixty five nine to nine xero, or visit w w w died. Mind over matter. Y si dot com. You’re listening to the talking alternative network. Durney durney welcome back to tony martignetti non-profit radio i’m with amy eisenstein, the author of fifty asks and fifty weeks, and while we’re on the break, amy made a point that i might have misstated, you know, sort of overstated the importance of individual giving in an overall development shop, and really, the point is that you should be diversified. So please, amy, expand on that a little bit, right? I just wanted to emphasize the fact that within a small shop, when organizations are so heavily focused on grantwriting and events, they’re not diversified, but the book is about making sure that you have a diverse fund-raising plan all year long that includes grantwriting a few events, individual giving and variety of bulk mail appeals, and so it’s really about diversification and making a solid plan and sticking with it. And so yeah, so i didn’t mean to say that you eliminate grantwriting and events, but you make a transition into individual and of course, keep the other components as well. So thank you, let’s talk about a case statement because i think that’s an important for individuals want to explain what? What that is. Why it’s important? Sure, a case statement is a written document that explains basically why people should give money to your organization and why your organization exists. Why it’s important and makes the case for your for supporting your organization and developing that case, though, could be quite a challenge. I know there’s some non-profits that will maybe do ah ah long term analysis of a strategic planning to help them to build their case statement. It’s not so easy sometimes to right? That is it? Yeah, it’s definitely challenging, and once you’ve written it, what you think is a solid case statement, you should take it out and test tested on the road with several of your most loyal donors have them look at it, read it, react to it, see if it that’s why they’re motivated to give to your organization and see if it really speaks to them and make tweaks and part of developing it, and we’re spending time on because it is so important with your fear individual individual fund-raising as part of developing it, we’ve had guests that have said valuable tohave outside people, you know, aside from your board and your your fundraisers contributing to your case statement. Absolutely, yes, you want community’s perspective and input when you’re developing your case statement so that it has wide appeal, okay? And and sort of flushing out why people, why they give on dh sometimes i think non-profits find that people are giving for reasons that the non-profit itself doesn’t really realize absolutely sometimes you can be too close to an issue, and it takes the outside perspective and people who are actually giving to tell you what mate motivates them to give and that should be reflected in this written document that you’re going to show to prospective new donors. Um, and the case statement is shown sort of in what respect? I mean, how how is how is the tool house that used once you do have it crafted? Finally, how is that used in soliciting gifts from individuals? Right? I think it can be used in a variety of different ways. You can bring it with you, certainly on a first visit or a second visit and with when you’re meeting an individual for the first or second time to tell them about the organization tto learn more about them and what they’re giving interests are why? They might be interested in your organization and let them have it as a take away so that it can re emphasize your conversation and fully explain and writing. Why your organization’s important? But you would never well, i’ll ask it this way. Would you ever just say male or email a case statement to someone in lieu of a meeting? No, i mean, that defeats the purpose of the relationship building component. I mean, i guess there probably are exceptions for an organization that’s fund-raising across the country and perhaps doesn’t have the resources to send staff for board members to visit donors, you know, in other states, yes, you could develop a long distance relationship in those cases, i would mail it, but usually you want represented in person, you know, because you want to be having a conversation with talk about those relationship building steps, but it’s a zoo suggested sort of leave behind, right? Tio personal conversation? Sure. Okay. Um, so, let’s, since we’re talking about those personal interactions, those personal meetings, how do you start, too? Develop the people that you’re going. Teo asked to meet for you. Meet with you. So if you are doing just events and an institutional grant grantwriting how do you start to develop a list of people that you can hopefully talk to her at least start, you know, start to ask to talk to right? Well, there’s four steps in the fund-raising process on the first one is identification identification of new prospects or potential donors, so when you’re starting out an individual giving program, aye, the first thing i have organizations do when they’re trying to do this is look in their database, and hopefully they do have a list of supporters and previous donors, and so looking for two things in that database, one is obvious to most people it’s, their largest donors, although i cautioned them toe look at cumulative giving all that over the course of the year because if you’re looking at one time gif ts you may have somebody who gives multiple times over the course of the year, and even though none of their individual gifts are large once you combine them, obviously they turn out to be a larger donors than some people who donate one time during the year, but also important is to look in your database for loyal donors if you have any longevity or history donorsearch history in your database, safer five or ten years of giving anybody who’s given for more than five years in the last five or six years, even if their donation level is lower, i would consider a high priority of somebody that you want to get to know so that those so your databases one way hope hopefully you have some donordigital records to look at other ways. Of course they’re going to your board members and finding out who they might know who might be interested in getting to know your organization. So so the board’s roll wait, why don’t we start to talk about that? The board’s role in fund-raising you’ve just touched on one important part of it bringing people to the organization absolutely a huge part of the board’s, responsibility and fund-raising is what we say call opening doors and introducing people to the organization boardmember czar, the ambassadors of the organization and there to sort of spread the word tell the community about how wonderful your organization is, really talk it up and introduce people to the executive director and development staff and the organization. In general, that wouldn’t necessarily have those connections if it weren’t for the board members. So if you’re going to make this shift no into individual giving, you need to have bored support, absolutely. And what if? What if you sort of get bored support for the concept? But then when it comes down to asking the board members who do you know who can you bring to the next event? Who can you bring to meet the executive rector there, then reluctant to do it? What do we do? Right? I think it’s a major challenge that lots of organizations face getting the board members bought in and involved and engaged, and so there are a couple of different things to do. Won is a lot of board training and coaching, board retreats and development and talking about it so that people start to feel comfortable with the idea of introducing people to the organization, but also making sure that they understand that this is donor-centric fund-raising and we are not going to be asking people for money who don’t show an interest in the organization it’s really about communicating their passion about the organ ization to their friends. And colleagues and neighbors. And if those people respond positively that they’re also interested in the organization, then we can take it down the road of a potential donation. But it’s not like every but name that they bring to the table is going to get asked for donations. Some people just aren’t going to be interested and that’s okay, so you have to raise that comfort level with your board, and you can do that in the way. As you mentioned. Yeah. Okay. In developing again. We’re talking about identifying the prospects. Can a list of people who have come to your events cannot be a place to start? Absolutely. And we would look at those people who have given they might fall into that category or people who’d come to other events, possibly fundraisers or non fundraisers. And they should definitely be added to the list. Do the records. You alluded a couple times to the donor database. Does it have to be a computer database? Suppose this is a small, really small shop, and they’re not that sophisticated, you know, maybe they have index cards or something like that. I mean, if you worked with that, what? Do we do? Yeah, this day and age, i think that everybody should be computerized at this point, even if it’s microsoft access, which is a perfectly fine database to start with, it does not have to be a fund-raising software database that you paid for that’s, right? And so actually was at a client yesterday, and they have their donordigital basin access and for right now, that’s fine that’s more than adequate for the size organization that they are, but i was concerned and ask them if they’re donorsearch files were in boxes in paper, and i was relieved to hear that it wasn’t and microsoft access which it should be computerized this day and age several weeks ago, on a regular feature that we have where scott koegler he’s, the editor of non-profit technology news, comes on and talked about technology for non-profits and many shows ago several shows ago hey talked about cloud computing and how there are there are companies that have cloudgood based fund-raising software with ad on modules, maybe for events and for finance. Obviously, security is a concern, but i was surprised to hear that the cost of those is quite affordable, even the smallest shop it’s true, actually, lots of those internet based or cloud based. I don’t really know the difference, but software programs they charge by the number of records, and so if you have less than five hundred records or thousand records, they’re very inexpensive and totally affordable. That’s identification. So what? What did you say is the next step after identification is cultivation, innovation and how often or what are what are some steps around cultivation? Now that we’ve got? We’ve identified some people, sure, so cultivation is the relationship building process in between when you’ve identified perspective donors and before, of course, you asked them for money so it’s getting to know the person on dh, educating them about your organization. But the important part about cultivation, i think, is that it’s not one way it’s, not just the organization or a representative from the organization telling the donor prospect all about the organization it’s really asking lots of open ended questions about that perspective potential donor to get to know them, too. So examples of cultivation activities would be going out to coffee, the executive director or development staff or boardmember with that perspective donor xero organization, if that’s appropriate, it would bring be bringing them to an event, whether it’s a fundraising event or ah graduation or something that your organization does on a regular basis. So those air, different types of cultivation activities, i’m with a b eisenstein, and amy is the author of fifty asks in fifty weeks and she’s also the principal of tripoint fund-raising tripoint fund-raising dot com. Amy, a lot of charities have really sort of heartstring missions, and so that if they can bring people in to see the work that they’re doing, i would think that that’s gonna be really valuable. Absolutely, i mean, if you can bring people on a tour that is some of the best ways to cultivate donors to really learn about them, but also have them learn about your organization. So if you’re a school or an environmental organization, or if you have something to show that’s a wonderful way, hospital is a wonderful way to show prospective donors exactly what you d’oh it’s a bit more challenging with other organizations, such as a domestic violence shelter. You wouldn’t have anything to tour because it’s a confidential location and you have to be a little more creative with your cultivation opportunities, but you can definitely do it for all different types of organizations and let’s, talk about the details of this so let’s say you had a willing board. Okay, so on the ah boardmember has identified let’s, say three or four people what’s the process for from getting that person from what we’re called, what you’re calling identification to cultivation, who asked them who invites them to come? And you’ve already identified lots of things you could invite them to, but how’s it actually done sure well, in the ideal scenario, if a boardmember identifies somebody, a friend or a colleague has somebody that they would like to introduce to the organization, you would have that boardmember call and invite them either to coffee with the exec director or the development person or to the event or to a tour. So in the ideal scenario, a boardmember would reach out to their connection and invite them tto learn more about the organization and whatever way, in a less than ideal situation weather when a boardmember perhaps doesn’t know the person you want to cultivate, maybe a donor, a private prior donor to your organization boardmember could still reach out on call or development person or eggs negative director could call and say, you know, we want to thank you for your prior giving, and we’d liketo get to know you a little bit more. Introduced you more to the organization update you what have you on? Bring them in that way. Do you find that let’s say, for this first cultivation meeting that that something group setting is better because it’s less off putting to the person, or is it better to try to meet them individually and get them to get to know them one on one in that first instance, yeah, i think you want to do a combination of activities is probably the most appropriate, and it is going to depend on the individual if they’re willing to meet one on one that’s, a great way to introduce them to the organization. But if they’re more comfortable coming to a group activity that’s perfectly appropriate, too, so so maybe have, ah, couple of things to choose from. I mean, when you’re actually someone’s, actually making the invitation, maybe there’s a couple of things? Yeah, absolutely. I have three or four things on my list in front of board members you know the upcoming events, so one possibility is a tour. One possibility is the next fund-raising event, and one possibility is coffee with the executive director and sort of let them throw them out. What, however, the conversations going and invite them, and then if the person doesn’t want to come tto one they can say, well, how about something else? Andi just didn’t like thirty seconds or so we have before the break. I suppose i don’t want to come to anything supposed, the person says no, do we ignore them from now on? Or is there some other way we can still try? Yeah, i think definitely putting them on your mailing list so that they start to receive hopefully newsletters or emails about upcoming events, your annual report, those type of things and then trying again and six months or so they may have changed their mind, maybe their schedule was busy or whatever the case may be, i would give it a few more tries before stopping completely. Okay, excellent that’s a great leading to what we’re going to talk about after the break and after tony’s, take two, which is some of the direct mail, the bulk solicitation, a cz you call them in the book. My guest is amy eisenstein, the author of fifty asks. And fifty weeks after this break, it’s, tony’s, take two. You’re listening to the talking alternative network. This is tony martignetti aptly named host of tony martignetti non-profit radio big non-profit ideas for the other ninety five percent technology fund-raising compliance social media, small and medium non-profits have needs in all these areas. My guests are expert in all these areas and mohr tony martignetti non-profit radio fridays one to two eastern on talking alternative broadcasting do you want to enhance your company’s web presence with an eye catching and unique website design? Would you like to incorporate professional video marketing mobile marketing into your organization’s marketing campaign? 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Last week, i talked about three talk about three others quickly today, and you can always read mohr at the at the at the blogged getting out of the office if you’re talking about fund-raising relationships and my guest today, amy has made this point. If you’re too distracted by administrative tasks or sometimes volunteer, you know, sort of committee work, then you need to do what you can’t extricate yourself. Delegate, plead with your boss, stop volunteering, maybe so that you can spend more time out of the office, actually developing relationships that lead to the types of activities that amy and i are going to be talking about solicitation and then stewardship so spend time out of the office if your if your job is fund-raising you should be out of the office, i think more than half the time and there are a lot of people who think, you know, seventy five percent of the time you should be on the road, meeting people where they work, where they live, where they play to build those relationships, make introductions i love to see, and i always encouraging clients to use the non-profit thatyou’re fund-raising for as a leverage to bring people in and and connect them. So in events are you introducing donors to other donors and they don’t necessarily have to be in the same same profession? I guess they could be that there could be synergy there, but they don’t necessarily have to be they both people because they’re at your event love your work, so get them talking about your work. Are you introducing not only donors to donors but prospects to donors? Who better to tell the story of the great work that you’re doing? Then somebody was already supporting it? And who better to encourage additional people to do that? So be willing to make those introductions use the organization as the connection point and you’re the connector on dh. The third one i’ll talk about is just, you know, be good to people, if this is fund-raising relationship building, people like to be treated with respect and, you know, i blogged about and talked about a few weeks ago multitasking when you’re on the phone and how off putting that can be and how insincere it comes across on the phone, you want to avoid things like that, and i think basically just treat people the way you’d like to be treated, and that will help you in building sincere, honest relationships. And of course, we all know that, you know, people give to charities they love that are represented by people who they like, and they’re more likely to like you if they feel that you have ah, that’s sort of a sincere, honest relationship with them. So the blood and the block post is six tips to mastering your fund-raising relationships. And the other thing i wanted to mention is just that a style consultant image consultant friend ofmine dubbed me a profile in awesomeness, and you could see a video about that on my block. The post there is called i’m a profile in what that is tony’s take two for friday, april first and with me waiting patiently. As i talked a little longer than i usually do for tony’s, take two is amy eisenstein, the author of fifty asks in fifty weeks and principle of tripoint fund-raising amy, welcome back from that verbose break. Thank you, tony. Amy was able to go to the bathroom, go get coffee, came back with some danish lunch for the whole office in the time that i was talking to tony stick too. So we left before the break, talking about those starting to think about direct mail and and book solicitations. So what? What what advice do you have around thinking about using direct mail? Okay, so i’m going to get to that in a minute, but i just want to go back for one second to something you just mentioned in tony’s take too, and that is about being out of the office fifty or seventy percent of the time. So i think that that is accurate and appropriate, where you might have a major gifts officer or somebody who’s working on individual solicitations full time now, in my book, we’re talking two small development shop people who are doing everything they’re doing the grantwriting the event planning the newsletter, writing and all everything in between and so they’re going to have a much smaller portfolio of individual donors. So they do need to be out of the office asking a fair amount. But they are going to be in the office more than perhaps someone who’s asking for individual gifts as their full time job. Okay, excellent. Thank you for keeping that in context. And also, teo, to keep things in context, we want to be sure that people understand that your book is about not at campaign consultant, not campaign fund-raising or major gift fund-raising but it’s more about building the your initial list or your annual fund list. That’s, right? And so right. I just wanted to clarify thank you. Clarify the point that this individual asking that were encouraging people to do is really about increasing and enhancing your annual fund. It’s not about going out and getting major gifts or campaign gifts for the first time. You’re trying this stuff, so it might be a five hundred dollar donation or five thousand dollars donation towards your annual fund and that’s perfectly good to dio with individual asking. Yeah, yeah. And of course, the definition. Of a major gift varies by organization, but if we’re talking to a small shop oppcoll a sze yu said yu know fifty or even five hundred? Maybe even fifty dollars might be a sizable gift when it’s the first one that the individual has made right. And yes, we’re keeping things in context here and amy’s keeping my feet to the fire, keeping me honest, okay, so let’s talk so let’s talk about using direct mail or the book you call them book solicitations, right? Bulk solicitation, so by that i mean both traditional male as well as email. So i just think it’s important for small shop organizations to be continuously in contact with their supporters, their donors, their list via email and traditional male, and have unorganized calendar at the beginning of each year of when they’re going to be sending out email solicitations and when they’re going to be sending out mail solicitations and not just have it randomly happened when you happen to get to it but have a planned out schedule in advance on dh with the price of mail and email these days. There’s really no excuse for non-profits don’t not to be. Emailing their donors it’s so cost effective, but also it’s critically important to continually have some sort of system of mail solicitations as well traditional mail solicitations. Okay? And actually next week’s guest is going to talk about email marketing and best principles in the practices and email marketing. So now we’ve moved from we’re moving now from cultivation to solicitation, the next step in the fourth step process, right with individuals? How do you write that letter? Let’s get started, we’ll have lots of questions for you, but how do you write the letter that asks for support? Okay, so we’re talking about bulk mail, so you’re talking about a letter, but if you’re doing the individual solicitation, you’re going to do it face to face, so we’re going to talk about two different things bulk mail, letter? Absolutely. I hope most non-profits have their end of the year campaign, and that would come as a mail solicitation and so having a well written letter, obviously from very basic things like no grammatical errors, no spelling errors, but really, that tells the story of your organisation, what you accomplished that that year and some success stories, individuals, success stories. Even more importantly than all the statistics of your organisation, but talk about that one individual whose life you really impacted, so that goes a long way. Okay, do you have ah, is there a rule? Or do you have a rule about the length of the solicitation and what should be in the in the mail? And again we’ll get we’ll get to the individual face-to-face too, but showing his book male what do your tips about length and inserts and things like that? Yeah, i think opinion varies on length of letter, you know, i’ve heard everything from one to two to four pages i think is good strong one, two, two page letter is my personal preference, and you absolutely need to include a business reply envelope, something for people to send back their donation in s o that’s critical, don’t send the letter without a reply envelope, because the donations just won’t come back and and so we’re talking about the traditional male but also email it’s important teo email, solicit your donors and as well. Of course, more and more people are giving online these days, so you need to have a link that brings them to a place where they can donate right online with a credit card and there’s so many affordable options these days to donate with credit cards online. There’s no excuse for a non-profit not to have the ability to have people donate to them online with a credit card. How would we go about getting those email addresses since this is our this is our initial foray into individual giving? Where do we get that from? Yeah, i think start building your list by asking your current list in the mail for their e mail addresses. You’ll get a few that way asking for board members to start collecting email addresses of friends and family that want to receive your emails collecting them every time you do an event or an outreach or give a tour. Of course, you can only solicit by email or send e mails to people who willingly opt into your list so you don’t want to be sending e mails or spamming toe anybody that doesn’t opt in to your list, but collecting them that way, just like you would collect traditional emails, are addresses and add them to your database. Okay, who should? The letter or the e mail come from that’s. An excellent question. I think that you can change it up. Ideally a volunteer. So from a boardmember you’re bored president or the fund-raising chair, but it can. Some of them can come from the executive director, but mostly volunteer. You’d rather see a volunteer someone who’s already supporting in a different way. Absolutely. Okay, let’s, talk a little about the face-to-face solicitation. Ah, now, i know you have a lot of ideas about that in the book. What were your thoughts initially about that kind of meeting? Yeah, i think you know, when people talk about not wanting to fund-raising especially boardmember zor volunteers, this is actually the part of fund-raising that they think of as all fund-raising it’s, the ask and it’s only a ce, you know, one moment in time, one meeting as a compared to the whole fund-raising process. And so we need need to really break it down and simplify it for board members and volunteers who are going to be helping with this. But basically, it should be done in a face-to-face setting, not over a meal, preferably as many people newbies make the mistake. Of wanting to go to a restaurant because they think it’s great to go to lunch, but it really is challenging when the waiter interrupts or you’re trying to chew or eat or decide whatever the restaurant can be loud and their comm in the, you know, hearing issues, so it’s also it’s a public place and you might be talking about you’re going to be talking about, which will get two dollars in dollars and cents, right? So a meeting in the home or office of the person that you’re asking if if they’re willing to that’s where they’re most at ease, but otherwise in the organization’s office, or maybe at the board member’s office, where everybody feels comfortable, sort of neutral territory and set up that meeting to have a conversation about asking them, inviting them to support the annual fund and hopefully a boardmember will be with you explaining that they already supported the annual fund. Amy eisenstein is with me. She is the author of fifty asks and fifty weeks when we come back from this break, we’ll talk more about the individual face-to-face solicitation stay with us talking alternative radio twenty four hours a day. Are you stuck in your business or career trying to take your business to the next level, and it keeps hitting a wall? This is sam liebowitz, the conscious consultant. I will help you get to the root cause of your abundance issues and help move you forward in your life. 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But whoever has the best relationship with the person you’re going to be asking for money needs to be there on dh two is the right number it’s easier to have a conversation with three people than it is just one on one and that way? Also, somebody from the organization can be listening and asking good questions while two people dialogue okay on dh. So aside from the board, members should be the executive director or the fundraiser. Ideally, it should be the executive director. The executive director is the visionary of the organization and the face of the organization, and if you’re asking someone for a substantial donation at whatever level, they will want to be hearing from the executive director, if the executive director either isn’t available or is unwilling or is not the person the relationship has been built with then it can be a fund-raising staff person. What do you think about rehearsing this meeting beforehand? Yeah, i think rehearsal is really important. We do role playing with clients all the time before they get ready to go for an ask board members definitely need to be coached and practice with role playing and no who’s going to be doing which part of the meeting the meeting needs to be introduced and the ask needs to be made and you need to know in advance, who’s going to be doing what? Okay, so you’re not stepping on each other and looking sort of amateurish, right? Okay, plus, do you find the rehearsal? Just reduces people’s anxiety about it or doesn’t make the more anxious but it’s still necessary to do. Yeah, i think for the most part, it relieves anxiety because they know what to expect. Some people are just going to be nervous, no matter what you d’oh. But after one or two asks, go well, then they’re not nervous anymore than it’s fun. Excellent. And it ought to be mean, right? Because we’re trying to get support for a mission that we all love that’s, right? It should be fun. You make a very important point in the book about after the actual ask is made. So a person who’s asked for a dollar amount or arrange what’s what’s your point there that you’re very precise about in the book. Yeah, after the ask is out on the table, the askar is need to be quiet, i assume that’s what you’re referring neo-sage once you ask say, i’m asking, will you please consider joining me? Dahna in supporting the after school program in the range of two thousand dollars that’s the ask? Then you have to be quiet. The person that speaks first, as we say, loses, and so if you speak first, you’re likely to backpedal and say, oh, i know that’s a lot of money during the period when the donor is thinking about what they were just asked to do. The oscars need to be quiet because i’m sorry i dropped your brothers want make sure people are saying this is the hesitation period and what might i had asked her do if if they if they do blurt something out, right, right, they’re likely to back pedal, so you’re right after you ask, you need to be quiet no matter how long it takes for the person you’ve just asked to respond, whether it takes ten seconds or so five minutes, they need to think about it, process it, and you need to be ready to listen to whatever they have to say. Whether it’s yes, no, or maybe we’re going to assume that you’re asked goes well, and the person gives in the range that they were. They were just solicited because i want to spend a few minutes thinking about the next steps stewardship saying that important thank you, what’s your advice there, let’s, say it’s now that we’ve just left the meeting what’s our what’s our what? How do we start stewardship right after the meeting ends in success? Sure. Well, of course you’ve thanked the donor right before you’ve left them for the meeting. But then you go back to the office and you craft thank you note and maybe you have a draft of one written advance, but the thank you note should go out soon after the meeting. They probably haven’t handed you a check in most cases. So it’s thank for the thank you for the meeting, and we’re excited that you’re, you know, committed to supporting this activity or project or whatever, and we look forward to talking to against soon or whatever the case may be. Or you can give even details about the gift that they’ve just promised to make. And then, of course, another thank you needs to go out after the gift comes in, but thank you can be done in many ways, in person, by phone and e mail all sorts of ways by multiple people. Okay, so not just the boardmember who invited the person or not? Just the ceo, but multiple multiple thank you’s from different people. Sure, especially if there were two people at the meeting there should be. Thanks. You know, a written formal. Thank you from the organization can come from the boardmember or the executive director and the other one can call and thank or send an email. Sure. Okay. And how about after that? Now the gift has been received. We wantto cultivating the person. Probably for their next gift. Whenever that might be. We’re not everything about the timing of that. But just so how do we continue? Stewardship so that we can lead into cultivation again cultivation in seoul station again? Sure, you know, clearly you want to be inviting them to other cultivation of events, but in terms of thanking the person in six months or a year, whenever is appropriate, you want to write to them, thanked them again, and let them know what their money has done for the organization and that’s, a really critical piece that lots of organizations either forget or missed and that’s letting the donor know how important their gift was to your organization after it’s been used. Okay, what the actual outcome was in terms of maybe telling a story about the person who had helped. I mean, in that kind of detail, absolutely. If you can do that, or say what the organization’s been able to accomplish with their donation and others, you know, many times their donation hasn’t funded the whole program, our project, but thank them for their donation and the part that it played in making your organization a success this year. I also like the idea of remembering the gift anniversary, the one year point from the time that the person made the gift. What do you think about that? Yeah, i think that’s a great time, except for that you may be at that point ready to ask them for their next gift, so maybe six or eight months in, you want to thank them for their gift again and let them know how it’s going or what it’s being used for, and so that at that year point, you’re ready to ask for the next gift. Okay? And that is where we have to leave it from. Getting from the first gift to the next gift. And my guest has been amy eisenstein, the author of fifty asks and fifty weeks a guide to better fund-raising for your small development shop and she’s also the principal of tripoint fund-raising at tripoint fund-raising dot com amy, thanks very much for coming to the studio. Thanks, tony it’s been a pleasure to have you next week. 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