Sherry Quam Taylor: High ROI Development & Marketing Communications Teams
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And welcome to Tony Martignetti nonprofit radio. Big nonprofit ideas for the other 95%. I’m your aptly named host and the pod father of your favorite abdominal podcast. Oh, I am glad you’re with us. I’d come down with Irio denys if I saw that you missed this week’s show. Here’s our associate producer, Kate with what’s up this week? Hey, Tony, we have IRO I development and marketing communications teams. You want these two teams, fundraising and Marcom to align every fundraising hour with its maximum dollars. You want these teams to have the time to secure investment level gifts and you want them to secure the unrestricted gifts. You need to grow and sustain your mission. Sherri Quam Taylor returns to share her strategies for achieving these vital ambitions. She is CEO of Quam Taylor LLC on Tony’s Take two. It’s National Make A Will Month were sponsored by virtuous, virtuous, gives you the nonprofit CRM fundraising, volunteer and marketing tools. You need to create more, more responsive donor experiences and grow, giving, virtuous.org and by donor box, outdated donation forms blocking your supporters, generosity, donor, fast, flexible and friendly fundraising forms for your nonprofit donor box.org here is high ro I development and marketing communications teams. It’s a pleasure to welcome back, Sherry Quam Taylor to nonprofit radio. She is CEO of Quam Taylor LLC. She helps business minded nonprofit CEO S create financial sustainability by revealing how to diversify, funds, grow general operations revenue and align their team’s hours with relational dollars. Her practice is at Quam taylor.com and Sherry is active on LLC and Sherry is active on linkedin. She is also the mother of two future CEO daughters. Welcome back, Sherry. It’s good to see you, Tony. I, I love that. Uh that, that uh extra my intro. Thank you gu Well, your daughter, we’re looking forward to your daughter’s. Uh well, 11 will be going to college, one is in college. Both of them becoming CEO S what, what, what kinds of companies do you think they’ll run? You had to guess at this, at this stage in their lives. It’s a good question. Um You know, it’s interesting, I have, they’re both in business school and so uh my older one is a bit more introverted, real, you know, process driven. She’s studying uh mis and supply chain logistics. Uh So I feel like some, some international company that’s shipping things all over the world. Um And then my younger daughter is, is more of my extrovert and so she just wants to be out in front of the room selling. So I think she’s gonna be selling you know, multimillion dollar deals and it is really afraid of, of, of nothing. So, it’s, it’s fun to watch, uh, both their paths be so different, but yet, you know, they’re leaders in their own way. All right. Yes, indeed. Future leaders. Cool. Love it. We’ll give him, uh, we’ll give them 10 years, 10 years. That does that sound good to be, uh, for each of them to be CEO S 10 year. I, I would definitely, uh maybe put my money on that. Ok, well, look, so we’re talking about uh having our development and marketing communications teams, uh be successful together, be hard, high ro i together. Uh But of course, we also have to talk to folks who uh are in smaller shops that don’t have separate teams. But what, uh what’s the occasion for this? Why do you, why do you see the need? Why, why did you bring this topic to me? Yeah. Well, you really set me up so, well, Tony, even with your, your phrase of like the other 95% because, you know, at the end of the day, about that percentage of nonprofits, uh never reached the $1 million mark or frankly the $5 million budget mark. And so, uh a lot of organizations even at that size come to me with big plans to scale and it might be, you know, it might be when you on a two x three x five X, whatever that is, uh and, and they’re coming to me saying, well, how do we grow? How do, how can we raise more money? And the question oftentimes I believe we need to flip and ask is, well, why are we staying small? Like what is keeping us from scaling in the first place? And so, you know, a lot of my work is looking under the hood. Sure. Can I teach people to be great and, and better fundraisers? Yeah. But oftentimes it’s really that structure from an organizational standpoint, that business behind the fundraising that is keeping organizations small. So we have to go straight to the or chart, we have to go and look and say, are our fundraisers or the single person on our fundraising team or even if you had a team of three or four, are they doing the right things to yield the budget? Are they doing the right things that aligns their hours with dollars? And so, you know what topic comes up, it comes up of like, well, talk to me, development director, what are you doing? What, what’s your schedule look like? What, what are you spending your time on so often? The list we get are, are all marketing communication activities, right? We go, we got that appeal, we get Spring Appeal, the Fall appeal, the social media, the, the campaign for XYZ, all very traditional marketing communication activities. Um Are those important? You bet somebody has to be doing them but oftentimes those are the things that are generating and attracting smaller dollar donors. Again, importantly, but when we want to scale, we wanna grow so often, the the the list of 52 activities that we expect a development director do to do is actually what’s keeping them from growing, keeping them from moving into relational fundraising, keeping them from moving into strong annual fund growth, you know, even plan giving growth, those types of things. So this is one of the questions. Um One of the things I unearth in every single one of my engagements, which is really, um is your development team, uh being allowed to do true development activities or are they being pulled into other parts of the organization that’s keeping them from fully funding the organization? I have a concern that for weaker fundraisers, they, they use these other activities like everything you named. I’m thinking also of the four color brochure or, or four color annual report, you know, they use these activities to uh to avoid what is difficult for them. Now again, I’m talking about weaker people in development or, or inexperienced, just haven’t had the experience and they just don’t, yeah, they, they haven’t had the experience. Um I’ve seen, I’ve seen like mid-level folks too. They somehow they, you know, they got promoted, uh erroneously, I think in, in multiple jobs through multiple organizations. Um they interview, well, I always say and they, they use but whatever the whatever the uh persona of the person, they’re using these activities as a, as a as an excuse to not be in front of donors, not having individual one on one face to face, kitchen table, office restaurant. And you would say investment level conversations to asking for 567 figure gifts, they’re using these activities. Oh, I have to get the four color annual report out. This is going to take me months, the printer, the graphic designer, the approval, I have to write the te you know that there goes two months of not having conversations that are going to lead to real growth, real investment level gifts and, and it it and I just want it ticks me off that they’re avoiding what is really gonna make the money for the organization. It’s not the four color brochure or annual report. This is true. I love where, what are we at minute six? We’re on the soapbox. I love it. That’s what I love about you. Well, Tony, I would also say like if we look at it from another angle too, it’s actually too often what the sector tells fundraisers. They are like, you know, II I believe that I see so often the messaging is, is like we, we we’re on a deadline, everything is urgent. We gotta crunch to the finish line. We gotta uh fundraisers are, are these people who scurry around? We’re on this spin cycle. Nn No, we’re not. You know, sometimes I say, hey, I don’t do urgent, let’s do thoughtful funding processes that fully fund our organization. And so oftentimes I just find so much of the advice is feeding into uh that type of fundraising. Even you see that on boards. You know, uh you know, I did, I did a board training this morning and so often when I say, ok, so appeals, events, campaigns that the turn and burn that we think fundraising is sitting at our desk behind the email machine if you will. That’s that type of fundraising should only be uh adding up to about 25% of your revenue. The fee is 75 percent of your revenue needs to be what you’re talking about. Relational. Uh just thoughtful might take six months to 24 months to land that gift. And so few fundraisers have had that training. Uh They, they, they kind of have figured out the grants and appeals and events and all of that spin, but they’ve never needed to know how to do that or that no one has ever invested in them learning. Those are two very different skill sets and to tie to our topic. One is way more mark com based versus development based and this is how you beat that 95% percentage you gave at the top of the show. This is how you move to diversify funds. Are you secure enough general operating revenue to fully fund your organization is really making sure that these activities, those relational activities are, are, are, you know, are the priority in your development departments. Le let’s talk about explicitly, we, we’ve touched around a little bit, uh, both of us have, but let’s talk about some of the symptoms. You know, what, what is, uh, what is low functioning development and marketing, team, teams, team or teams, uh, look like, I mean, I kind of suggested I’m too busy with the annual report for the next two months. Ok. That there’s one, what you’re, uh what are some symptoms you see? Well, let’s look at it from a couple of different angles, even if we think of from a budget and growth perspective. Uh you know, the minute I get a call I go on somebody’s 990 oftentimes a symptom would be, well, the revenue is kind of just bumping along, might be a little bit of growth, but there’s some up, there’s some down years. Um that tells me perhaps there are not as many dedicated hours to fundraising as there needs to be. Um, another symptom might be, uh you know, a, a heavy reliance on one thing whether that’s programmatic revenue earned revenue, uh one big gala or one big donor, uh like an over dependence on one thing, grants from institutions, project based grants. If, if that, if those parts of your organization are growing, but perhaps you’re giving from single source decision makers individuals, I can pick up a phone and talk to them family foundations. I could pick up the phone and talk to them private businesses. Hello, if that revenue is not growing, that tells me something’s wrong. That tells me uh that perhaps the team has not had a relational training. They do, they are not having investment level conversations with donors. Um I would also say that when, then we do say, ok, now we have, we have five hours this week to focus on fundraising. Um Then if, if those activities are the bottom part of the pyramid appeals to all the things. Um That tells me that uh they’re not running this type of funding model, they’re not aligning their hours with dollars. There’s so many things Tony. Um I also want to add from the board perspective if I then see that the, if the board is giving you one hour a month outside of their traditional meetings, if those activities are transactional event, appeal, email posting and giving Tuesday, if that is the type of fundraising, the board is doing, that is a red flag to me because the board takes their cue from the fundraising staff and the executive director. And so that tells me perhaps that, that that executive director and that development team needs training in this area so that the board can maximize their networks. So many things to look at. It’s time for a break. Virtuous is a software company. Committed to helping nonprofits grow generosity. Virtuous believes that generosity has the power to create profound change in the world and in the heart of the giver, it’s their mission to move the needle on global generosity by helping nonprofits better connect with and inspire their givers. Responsive. Fundraising puts the donor at the center of fundraising and grows giving through personalized donor journeys that respond to the needs of each individual. Virtuous is the only responsive nonprofit CRM designed to help you build deeper relationships with every donor at scale. Virtuous. Gives you the nonprofit CRM, fundraising, volunteer marketing and automation tools. You need to create responsive experiences that build trust and grow impact virtuous.org. Now back to high ro I development and marketing communications teams. What kind of growth do you like to see a year over year in, in revenue? Diversified fundraising revenue? What, what’s a, what’s a, what’s a fair growth percentage year over year? Yeah, I mean, it’s so different, Tony, I’m gonna, I’m gonna answer that uh a little selfishly because, you know, I love when an ed comes to me and says, you know, we’re a $1 million organization and we want to be a 10, you know, I have that client right now and she’s ahead of schedule. You know, I love that. If that is a meaty, a growth minded, let’s do this uh hungry executive director. That’s my, my favorite thing to do. Um I would say that not everybody has plans to two x, three x five x 10 X. Um However, I believe that everybody probably should be and could be growing at a greater rate. Uh I had another client, I’m just thinking of where they said, well, we kind of maybe 5 to 7% but we never get to do things that are in our strategic plan. So it’s like we, we spend the five or 7% is not, is not fulfilling your plan. It’s unrealistic. You’re realistic, your plan is unrealistic and you have no, you have no plan to, to budget for plan, budgeting for the plan. So I, I mean, I, I’m gonna do a blanket statement to your question to say, I honestly believe people could be growing at a greater clip than, than most of them believe. And it really has to do with um this is what’s crazy. It has to do with the spend even more than the race. And what I mean by that is if we’re a $1 million org and maybe we want to be a $3 million org in five years, we, we immediately go to, well, what kind of fundraising things do we need to do? Hold on first. The, the first question we have to say is how do we actually resource our organization to turn us into an engine that yields $3 million or 5 million, whatever you want it to be first, is the spend and so, um, so often orgs come to me where we’re one, we want to be a three and we kind of try to do that on our 1.5 staff load that doesn’t work because, and also that staff load is in charge of marketing communications. And so I, I want people to hear, um, whether you’re big or small or, you know, there are a lot of options. It’s that you do not have the one option, which is let’s bring on a development director and throw all things that even look or smell like fundraising on their plate. That’s not gonna work. It’s gonna set that director up for failure, burn out. Uh And all the things we’re seeing in the sector, there’s a lot of different options. You can’t do all things at once. The, the one person, development and, and marketing team person, there’s not a team team of one. Yeah, that is uh that, that is setting them up for failure. That’s a recipe for disaster. The one person devoted to both of those. It’s just, it’s just not realistic. And even when um the leader of maybe there’s even staff on the team, I have a amazing client uh in the Boston area and she was on my podcast recently and one of the big shifts we made for their organization and there may be a 3.5 $4 million org was actually splitting these two departments because uh, she even said on my podcast, uh, gosh, some weeks, 80% of my time was being spent on marketing communications. And so then I got the development, kind of got the leftovers. Yeah, exactly. And, uh, that, that’s why you’re not growing, that’s why you’re staying small. And so we have to look at these root business issues, um, before we can say now what, what does, what should fundraising look like? It actually yields that number. Uh So let’s talk about some of the uh well, I wanted to contribute that, uh just amplify something you said earlier. The other reason that that’s uh aside from sheer hours in a, in a day and a week, why that’s a recipe for disaster is the skills are so different between relational successful individual fundraising and uh marketing communications. Just they, they’re different areas of expertise. You know, you wouldn’t, you, I’m speaking now to board members. You wouldn’t do that to your company. You wouldn’t have somebody uh devoted to uh sales and research. You wouldn’t do it. So don’t have someone in the nonprofit whose board you’re sitting on for which you are a fiduciary. And among the, the uh the, the board of most committed loyal volunteers and donors to that organization don’t, don’t subject your, your nonprofit to that. Yeah, they are two very different skill sets. I will tell you, I sit in as you can imagine a lot of interviews and so a lot of the work I do with people is like, OK, so we want to be here, we want to go there. What head count does that take? And then what should those people be doing? So oftentimes, I’m invited to sit in interviews and uh, I asked some pretty, pretty pointing questions and, and when I’m asking about relational fundraising, what we’re talking about, but the answers come back to me as appeal goals, event goals, how we’re slicing and dicing the database, you know, the print fees for the and report to bring up your what you’ve brought up. When the answers always pivot to more of that transactional fundraising, more of the event that, that type of cadence, that’s a red flag for me. But again, I’ve been accused Tony of like not liking events and appeals. I love them. I, I go to them but they cannot take 100% of your team’s time. So I’m looking for, do you know how to attract investment, local donors? Do you know how to lead them? Do you know how to solicit them and get their best gift? And then do you know how to get that gift every year? And then do you know how to get that gift year after year after year to where? Oh, we have a capital campaign. They might give a gift above and beyond. Oh, we’re starting uh an endowment campaign. They might be able to commit to a gift above and beyond. That is what I’m talking about. That is how we fully fund our organizations. All right, let’s talk about some, some specifics. That’s all I, I agree. All, all valuable. Um, le le let’s drill down to some specifics about, you know, making development and marketing, communications more uh well, higher ro I, that’s what we’re, that’s what we’re trying to get through. So, uh you, you’ve alluded to this already. Staff, staffing, the adequacy of the staffing. It’s, I mean, this is where there’s a, there’s a numbers, a very simple equation we need to do to start and then we can dig deeper and literally have this conversation this morning. Um So there’s, you were, you were busy this morning? I was busy conversation. You had a board briefing. I did actually, I, I love, you know, you know, I’m a morning person. So I love my East Coast clients who want me to do a board training at like eight in the morning. We here we go. Um So we have to do a math equation. And so what I said to them was, they told me the number they wanted to go to. And I said, hey, here’s a rule of thumb. The rule of thumb is for every $500,000 more you wanna raise. That’s a staff person. And so if your budget this year is a 2.5 that’s five people. Uh you know, jaws drop. Now, I said now hold on. That doesn’t mean we are cookie cutters and hey, you database person you got to raise 500 K. No. But what that does mean is I would hope your development director or your major gifts person has a $1 million portfolio and that balances out that database or kind of coordinator position. So as a rule of thumb, there has to be a math equation to say if we want to grow, let’s just say Tony from 1 million to 2 million. Ok, then we might need to hire two people. 00 my goodness. Which is even more reason you need to be in this high Roy model. And so this is the math equation that everybody skips. It’s like let’s just grind harder. Hope you can do it. I don’t know how the development teams are gonna do that. Their head count is not set up to yield that number. So of course, they can’t and hope is not a strategy. Hope is not a strategy. This goes back to the spend, Tony. We gotta hire people, spend the money to make the money. What do we do initially? All right. Suppose we’re take your perfect hypothetical raising, raising a million dollars. We want to raise $2 million in 2025. If we need to hire two people, how do we fund the two people before we start raising the money? This is I get this question to both people when you don’t have that money coming in. But like we know where the compass should be set, right? So this is where this, these are the tough questions we have to ask. So let’s say that one person comes on and then we have to say, um a what do we as an organization? Because this is not just the fundraising theme, this is also the executive director who needs to be sitting in those investment level conversations. Hey, what do we as an organization need to stop doing a get hours so that we can start doing more relational fundraising? So you just set me up perfectly today. So what I advised this team this morning was I said, let’s talk about 10 hours that your executive director to get back in their schedule. What could she stop doing so that she could start doing more of these types of activities that frankly are going to yield five times more money, 10 hours, 10 hours a month, 10 hours a week a week. That’s ambitious. All right. But you know, it is ambitious. So let’s call it. I’m not, I’m not saying it shouldn’t be ambitious. I’m just saying that’s ambitious. All right. So 40 we’re gonna start devoting, we’re gonna try to find, we’re gonna find activities where, where the CEO can spend 40 hours a month in new, new relational fundraising time or even, and even this group has a development director and she’s incredible. Um but even perhaps I know I challenged them and said, let’s look how much time is being spent more on transactional activities. Now, they’re just coming off a gas. So it feels really, like, really heavy. But let’s look and see how could we move that person’s 10 hours a week into these activities that are going to yield more money. So my point of like kind of telling you that is we can’t go 100% full on, on all of these initiatives at once. It’s ok that sometimes we need to take something that’s operating at 10% and move it to 40% and sit in that a little bit because we still, we still have events, we still have appeals, we still have emailers to get out and then look at ok, now we’re gonna take it to 60% and now we’re yielding more money and we can actually hire people to take things off other people’s plates. So it’s just not a one size fits all. There’s so many options. Maybe you should hire a contractor 1500 a month to be writing your news and appeals and whatever. Uh your, your development director is gonna make that money back five fold by having those extra hours in their schedule. Maybe it’s a contractor for some of the grants for some of the grants work grant event, um, a any of that kind of stuff. And so this goes back to the spend what you spend sometimes I’ll say, well, would you spend $15,000 this year on a writer or whatever? So that your development director can move from yielding 300 K a year to 800 K a year. I’ll take, I’ll kind of take that math all day long. Would you invest 15,000 to make half a million? Yes. So the gut reaction is, no, we can’t spend the money. Well, well, let’s really look what’s behind that. So the head count, we got to do the math. We’ve got to do the math and it goes, it goes deeper than just head count. It’s, it’s, it’s a time aligned with dollars. It’s freeing up time for the existing staff. So we can get to the point where we can hire the additional fundraiser, the second fundraiser. And again, we’re modeling that for the board. Uh, you know, and I know I know this is the second topic that I brought up to you and I know we’ve, we’ve touched on it. Can I, can I say it? You know. So, so it’s the, it’s the head count, right? It’s the staff, staff count. Uh, and then it’s ok. Well, maybe we even have the count. But as fundraisers, uh, we’re just simply wearing too many hats. Right. And so, yes, are we in charge of the mark and the fundraising? Um, but I also saw something so interesting, um, shows on Twitter and it was a it was a corporate marketing person and in essence, she was saying that even 5, 10 years ago, the vehicles as to which we did marketing, there are like seven core vehicles or something. And today there’s like 30 something of ways, that ways that we engage with our clients and we gotta do this with like there just keeps mo more just keeps lobbying on the plates of marketers and, and communicators and fundraisers. We cannot do it all just because it brings in $5 doesn’t mean you should be doing it as a fundraiser. So we gotta get, uh, we, we gotta get our, our, our, our path a little, little narrower here. We gotta bring it in. We gotta pick 3 to 5 things. And are we doing those things? Well, are they yielding what they should yield? Uh We have to willingly be reflective of our activities and our hours and take off those hats so that we can put on high ro i high revenue generating hats. Um This, the uh fundraiser has to be so reflective of the hours that they’re spending in a day because we, we always say, well, we’re wearing too many hats as fundraisers. Well, then take him off and decide we can’t get to those four hats until we have a team of four. And right now we have a team of two. Stop pause. It’s OK. The organization is not gonna go under if you switch your newsletter to every other month versus monthly for six months. You’re not gonna go under, or? Oh, my gosh, we didn’t do a giving Tuesday campaign and run around like crazy people and, like, make $7000. It’s ok. Go form relationships with two people and get five K each from them. It’s more money. Um, oh, can I, oh, can I give one other really exciting thing, Tony? No, I’d rather, I’d rather you not skip it. I just thought of this, you know, I like to talk in examples. One of my clients, I love them. I love all my clients. They’re so good. They’re so good because they’re a plus students and they take it and they go and do it. So they made this decision. They want to scale. They’re having, you know, cash flow has been uh up and down. They last year had done uh a couple events, uh one being a gal, one being something smart and they said we can’t do it anymore. Like it’s, it’s, we have to change the way we’re doing this. We’re chasing our tail. So they decided not to do their events and they hired me to help them move into this relational cadence. It’s been so fun to watch and it’s been nerve wracking. Right. Like what do you mean we’re not doing the gala that, you know, are the donors right? Here’s the beauty of it. I talked to them last week and they’ve been having, uh, one on one conversations with their donors who they’ve rarely had conversations with before and they’re getting to know them and it’s going great and like, oh, my gosh, it was an incredible conversation. They’ve gotten, uh, four significant gifts recently in the past. I don’t know, I don’t know. 4560 days, the net on those four gifts from building relationships leading them to a, through a journey, asking them for their best gift. It netted more than their galla did last year from four relationships. And I love this development director because she’s so analytical with the numbers and she, she had that for me and I was like, what? That’s incredible. That’s fantastic. And do that 10 more times and the hours that the, that the hours are so much fewer versus the gala. Does the, does the flower match the bunting who’s on table 18? Don’t sit her next to him. You know, all those, all those gala hours you, you take a, you take a, I think you take a uh like 20% of them and you can raise the kind of money from individual relational investment level conversations and relationships that, that you just exemplified. I, I, I I know it to be true. You do too. But you know, this team had to choose to take off that hat. And then when people said, oh, but what about the event? How are you gonna do it? But we love bringing our friends. Hold on. Our mid and major level donors are not giving their best gift at events full stop they’re giving. Oh yeah, the auction item, all the thing. Oh, here’s the tickets, here’s the table. So they made this conscious, conscious effort and I’m so proud of them because it, it like that journey of stopping and then starting feels real lonely in the in between. Sometimes. This is when I say you’re a faith based organization for this amount, for these couple months. When you’re like, I’m doing the things, I’m building the relationships. Am I going to see the results? And they did it and they’re doing it and even just these four relationships have, have netted more in the, the gala. Imagine what that’s gonna do when they’ve, when they’ve spoken to all of their donors and then they’re piping their donors and their boards going. 00, you mean we could do it like that? It’s time for a break. Imagine a fundraising partner that not only helps you raise more money, but also supports you in retaining your donors, a partner that helps you raise funds both online and on location so you can grow your impact faster. That’s Donor box, a comprehensive suite of tools, services and resources that gives fundraisers, just like you a custom solution to tackle your unique challenges, helping you achieve the growth and sustainability, your organization needs, helping you help others visit donor box.org to learn more. It’s time for Tony’s take two. Thank you, Kate. There’s an anxiety in the nation uh attention. Uh It’s, but it’s a positive, positive energy. You can feel it. Uh It’s not the enjoyment of being in the middle of summer. It’s not the presidential election. It’s National Make A Will Month. August. August is National Make A Will Month. We are recording on Thursday the first, it’s the first day of the month I which I believe should be a national holiday. I think the banks should be closed. The markets should be closed all to uh commemorate the solemnity of the occasion. The kicking off the launching of National Make A Will Month. So I think the first day of August should be a a national holiday. I I wish you had been off on the first of August. Um Well, plus it fits in perfectly. So we got uh you have uh in July, you got Fourth of July, August. Now you have the launching of National Make A Will Month, August 1st every year and then in September, uh we, we get uh Labor Day. So there’s a, there’s a, there’s a vacation day for us each month during this, during the summer. So uh I think so it should be a national holiday. But uh it is all right until that, until that comes around, until we, we we get the commemoration, the respect for National Make A Will Month that it deserves nationwide. Uh We’ll have to just suffice with, uh you know, uh celebrating it for ourselves. And of course, I do plan to giving fundraising as a consultant. So National Make A Will Month is the time to either a be reminding your donors about National Make A Will Month and the importance of them including you in their wills or b if you’re not doing planned giving fundraising, now, then to recognize the value of planned giving, fundraising and the way to kick it off is the simplest planned gift, gifts in wills gifts in wills. So whether you’re talking to your donors or you’re talking to your vice president or your CEO or your board. August is the month to be talking about wills encouraging your donors to include your work, your nonprofit in theirs or encouraging your CEO or your board to get you launched in planned Giving. Hopefully you don’t really need your board approval, but maybe, maybe you want to let them know, not seeking their approval or consent, but informing them that you’re launching planned giving. I like that model better. And of course, you’re gonna start with gifts and wills because they’re the easiest planned gift. They’re the most common planned gift by far. So National Make a Will month. Um Let’s uh I don’t know how to lobby for national holidays. I don’t have to go to Congress. Uh I probably should wait so we probably should wait until after the presidential election and see which administration we have, uh, to see which, who would be, uh, or how to approach them best about August 1st being a national holiday. But all of August is National Make a Will Month. That is Tony’s take two Kate. You make a petition to get off August 1st. I will sign it with you. All right. I think we’ll have two then. Well, I know we’ll have two. We’ll have two. I don’t know. Who else could we get, uh, your dad? Oh, he’ll, he’ll be, your dad will definitely be into another day off. Extra national holiday. All right. So there’s three. We got three people. You gotta start somewhere, start, start small and then we’ll, we’ll grow, we’ll, we’ll go outside the, uh, the lion. What is it called? The Lion King? The, the store down by you, the food lion. Oh, Food Lion, the supermarket. Yes. The, the Lion King supermarket. Remember? Confusing Broadway and uh Emerald Drive in uh Emerald Isle, North Carolina. That’s ok. They’re similar. Yes. Food Lion. We’ll go outside the Food Lion supermarket. I mean, who doesn’t want an extra day off in the summer? Come on. I can’t think of one person. Right. Right. All right. Well, we’ve got Fuku but loads more time. Here’s the rest of high ro I development and marketing communications teams with Sherry Quam Taylor. You’re gonna have to bring the board along when you, when you make the decision to abandon. Let’s take the extreme example. The Gala, the annual Gala, we love our friends come, we, we raise so much money from our friends. II, I buy two tables of 10 and, and I, I, it’s, you, you, that you’re gonna, you’re gonna have to overcome board objections because, and again, II, I see a lot of board members, like I said, 20 minutes ago using this as a crutch as an excuse. You know, because it’s easy to invite friends to gas because they know that the friends know that you’ll go to their gala. So it’s a share, you know, everybody, it comes out equal in the end and, and each organization benefits. Yeah, but it’s, it’s, it’s not sophisticated fundraising. It’s, it’s, it’s galas and, and they’re, they’re not the highest ro I, so you’re gonna have to bring the board along on this heart. Can you, can you share what that, that ex example or something bringing the board along for? But we love the gala. It’s, it’s, it’s mission critical for us. Here’s, here’s what I’ll say and, and I’m gonna give props to this, this leader, the board is killing it. They have, they have said, oh, well, that’s now, that’s now because it’s happening. But here’s what I would say. This is where we started saying like, what are the symptoms? I think you asked me? Ok, hold on. But let’s look from a business perspective. Um, are we able to pay our staff living wage, competitive wage. Are we having to dip into reserves or are we having to tap into a line of credit every year? Are we struggling with cash flow? Half the month? Um Have I never, as the ed have been able to take a raise in years. All of these things are happening in our organizations where we are not raising enough money. If we keep doing the same thing and getting the same results that tells us what we need to do, we have to change, we have to go back to the root and change the model and that even how we’re approaching revenue generation. And so oftentimes, you know, a lot of people come to me and they’re growing and scaling and they want to diversify and just get stronger. But oftentimes people come to me and say we’ve tried everything else. So we got, we gotta shake it up. We have to have a paradigm shift. And I really think that’s in this situation, what that organization is ready for. They’re like, this is harder than it needs to be. And every year it’s harder than it needs to be. Um we have to do something different to get different results. And so in this case, the board was in agreement, I mean, this is a business decision, right? Uh Are we going to keep doing what we’re doing and getting the same results or do we actually want to accomplish what we, what we’ve set out what our organization has set out to accomplish. Um You, you can only squeeze a budget so much. Uh You know, you can’t do more on less. You know, you’ve, I’ve said that many times, Tony in our conversations. Um And so it has to be a root business decision to say we, our, our mission calls for scaling and what we’re doing is not yielding the dollars that actually allow us to do that. And so there has to be a resourcing change. Whether that’s staffing, whether that’s getting a consultant, whether that’s tools we’re using, there has to be a resourcing change that yields a new number. That’s what the board has to agree on first. Then we can lead them on a journey through a model, then we can help them understand this. But I will tell you when they start seeing results and even if it’s a $1000 donor going to a $2500 gift, it’s like, oh, they three extra that gift or, you know, 2.5 extra. Wow, this is working when they start seeing the results. It’s a bit of a like, oh, I, I didn’t think people would respond to this, but it really comes back to their own relationship with money and fundraising and being on the board and, and feeling like, oh, I, I don’t want to ask people for money. It’s the board that I’m on it. Really goes back to their own comfort level. But I always tell, tell board members, you’re not asking people to give more money to the board that you serve on or the, the organization that you serve with. You’re asking people to invest in an amazing mission and to change lives and you’re really offering an amazing opportunity for people to invest in. And I uh II, I wanna selfishly extrapolate it out even further into when these investment level conversations, when the $1000 donor goes to 2500 and then they later on years later become a planned giving donor and they have died. And now we get to the planned giving multiplier which I’ve seen 4600 times lifetime giving total lifetime giving 4600 times larger in, in the estate gift. And the gift, the simple gift in someone’s will and sometimes the, sometimes the plan giving multipliers is only like 450 or so or, but I’ve seen it as high as over 4000. So, and you’re not gonna, and you’re not setting, I guess I’m I’m uh I’m helping answer my own question the way you, you just fully answered it. I’m adding a little, you’re not cultivating gala attendees for planned gifts. You’re not gonna see that 4600 times planned giving multiplier from the person who comes to a gala 10 years in a row. You’re not gonna see it. They’re not going to include you in their will, they’re not committed but take the same person and open up in a relational convers uh a relationship with them with about investment level gifts through the years and you are cultivating them for the ultimate gift planned gift, but it’s not gonna happen from Gala attendees, right? You’re so right. So Tony, I feel like this is why we, we kind of get each other. Um A lot of people will say to me when they reach out like, what’s it like to work with you? And they’ll say, what do you think about us starting an endowment? What do you think of? I said, well, first tell me about your annual, tell, tell me about your relationships with your donors. Tell me how you’re leading them on a great journey all year long. But how are you soliciting them? Like if, if they’re not telling me, well, we, we do this and then we do this and then we’re doing this and we’re serving them and then we ask them, we solicit them and they do attend our event. Like if they’re not showing me that they know actually how to lead a donor through a great experience to their best gift on an annual fund basis. Let’s be real hard for them to miraculously wake up one day and be like, I’m gonna go ask this person for AAA gift by will or whatever. So we got to get in this annual fun cadence of leading our donors to their best gift. Then these types of conversations about a planned gift or gifts by what, what are, oh, they’re just a natural extension of our relationship, which is how it should be. Did you steal that from me? Natural extension? I, I didn’t mean to, it’s a natural extension of the giving that they’ve been doing for a, for a long, long time. But I absolutely, I, it’s a natural extension of the giving they’ve been doing for decades and, and I would say board member, think of yourself, think of a gala that you’ve gone to for the, for many years because a friend invited you because you always invite them to your gala. Are you gonna include that organization in your will? Good point. Highly, highly unlikely near zero possibility. Good point. Let’s move on to, well, you have to, you have to shift from the models we’re in to something new because if we want different results, we have to do different activities and, and spend our time differently uh and allocate hours differently. Um Yeah. Uh it’s, it’s, it’s a, it’s, it takes time but in the short term that, you know, you’re not going to get the planned gift in four or five years. But, but you’re cultivating the person for that conversation years from now with all the work that you’re all the work that you’re advocating us doing. Let’s, let’s, you got one more uh one more for, for converting to high. So we, yeah, so we talk, we’re gonna check that head count. Um You know, we gotta make sure fundraisers are not wearing too many hats. Ie all the mark. All the fundraising. Third thing is ok, so now we’ve removed the hats. Your fundraising team has to be properly trained. We can’t just one day say, ok, we’re gonna stop transactional. We’re gonna move to relational. People don’t know what that means. Uh Someone said to me once isn’t like I felt like individuals were, was relational and then like businesses and foundations were transactional. So, no, not at all. So I rarely meet a fundraiser who says I have a, I went to school for fundraising. I, I have a degree in this. Uh This is, this is what I, I’ve, I’ve dreamt of doing since I was four. No, everybody is in fundraising, whether you’re an executive director or on fundraising team from some wild journey. I mean, be included. Uh I, I was a program person. I was uh on the board. Uh I saw this need, this happened to be in my life and now all of a sudden, I’m a fundraiser and I kind of know enough to be dangerous, but I don’t know what, I don’t know. That’s what I hear all the time. And so that’s great that we have passionate people doing fundraising. Uh However, that is why they’re defaulting to what they’re seeing. The sector do, which is the transactional turn and burn. So if we simply just let them do that and try to keep grinding harder, you’re going to plateau back to our 95% comment. That is that to me is why that threshold exists. So the 95 the 95% is ok. The, but the, the your, your concern is that 95% of nonprofits never get over a million dollars in annual revenue and it’s 92%. I want to 92. Ok. Well, we want to help those folks. I don’t want to make sure you weren’t dissing the other 95 people that are listening. I want them all to be raising to their need so they can do more of their missions and if they don’t want to grow, that’s cool. Like keep doing what you’re doing and just keep killing it. But, you know, the 92% of nonprofits that are under a million, you know, 97% are under 5 million in annual revenue. Typically they have bigger visions and, and they could be serving more people, they could be moving to more regions. They want to do this kind of thing. And so don’t let the fear of investing in your staff or um you know, spending and investing in your team learning how to move into these activities. Don’t let that keep, let that be the thing that’s keeping you from achieving your mission when we’re talking about training, the training, you know, you know, another part of the problem is people do what they, what they grew up with, like when, when they were in school, their parents pt A had bake sales. So we need to have events. They’re not, they’re not literally doing bake sales, hopefully. But we know events because that’s, uh, the boy scouts, we used to raise money with, uh, light bulb sales with popcorn sales with the fertilizer sales with paper drives back when there was a, the, the, now I’m dating myself when paper it was, it was worth, it was worth recycling paper. I mean, it’s still worth it. But you could make, you could make money at it on a small scale. So that’s what they grew up with. But without training, they’re gonna fall back to their, to their girl scout and boy scout models. That’s not sophisticated, growth oriented scalable, professional fundraising. That’s not that, yeah, it’s not. And you know, it’s what does that look like? Sometimes people are like, I think we’re doing that. It’s like, well, but, but then if it’s, if we’re, we’re saying, hey, here’s three projects. Do you want to fund one of these or um, or, you know, let’s invite this major donor to an event and let’s put some extra big auction items on the event and hopefully they’ll get that. I mean, I hear this though. And so III I say to people are you able to put a plan together. Six months, 12 months, 18 months, based on that donor’s mission for giving, based on it being a win win, lead them on a journey to where when you ask them, if you can ask them that you’re confident they’re gonna give their best gift. And you know how to lead that conversation. You, you know, not only how to talk through the problem, the organization is solving the programs that you’re doing, the stories have changed lives, but you’re able to pivot into the investment level story to answer the tough financial questions to, um to lead that person, can I share with you how we’re funded, Tony to lead them through that and ask for their best gift and then get it and then do that every year. Are we doing that? Rarely? People are rarely. And so this is, you know, I’ll get up on my soapbox, you know, often times at the beginning of the calendar year, it’s like New Year Sherry. Would you like to speak on the cool new trends and creative things that fundraisers can be doing? I, I decline a lot of those, Tony because actually that’s what’s causing organizations from not growing of chasing the cool new thing. This, this process is actually really practical, methodical, natural human relationship building and having the skill set to then ask that donor and really offer that ex that opportunity to invest greatly. Uh I’d like to take it, I’d like to take it one step further. Go for it. You build these deep relationships and your donors will start telling you when they’re ready to make the next. I’m not saying that you wait for that. I’m not saying that at all, but I have that routinely. My work is planned giving routinely. I’m ready. I’m ready for a new gift, annuity. I, I wanna do another one. I’m, I’m, I’m, I’m ready to have the conversation about, you know, a longer term gift. You’ll get the, the, it’s all the work that you’re describing all the work that you’re advocating for and the relationships become so deep that donors start telling you when they are ready. And again, if you don’t sit back and wait for that, you still have your needs and you still have your funding priorities, but you’ll get to the point where donors, some donors will, will share it with you and that, that they are ready and that takes time in a relationship. And we, we can’t build relationships when we’re on this f cycle, when to bring it back around. When our, when we’re expecting, our development leads to be a one size fits all shop and to do all the things. Uh We’re always gonna be chasing our talent. We’re never going to be raising to that number that we want to raise to and we’re always gonna have to kind of have this week by budget maybe the stretch budget. No, no. How do we fund the real need, the real need of your organization and then how do we resource it and how do we train the team to be doing the right things so we can do these awesome things that this sector is doing. We have big, big problems in the world to solve and we need to be doing the things that actually resource solving those problems. I think a part of the problem may be that it’s, it’s not very sexy. It’s not the latest thing. It’s not the hot trend for the New Year. This we’re talking about stuff that goes back. We, we’re talking about relationship building that goes back decades and generations. It’s just getting to know people and getting to the point where you can have these, I’m using intimate, not in a personal way, but doing business intimate. I’ll call it business, intimate relationships, business, intimate conversations. You can let them in to what your needs are to what the challenges are and invite them to help overcome them. You know, what a perfect uh kind of proof of this. Tony is oftentimes when I do board workshops and I’ll explain this kind of what we’ve done today. The board member who’s a, who’s a corporate person who’s, whose job is networking, whose job is sales, whose job is having great deep relationships with their clients. Um It’s funny to me usually in every training, someone will go. This, this is kind of what I do in my day to day life, but I’ve never thought about it in a fundraising capacity. That’s the ha moment we were talking about the board because we’ve been trained and sometimes they’re taking their cue from the staff and leader fundraising. Is this, send me 10 days for giving Tuesday. Here’s your linkedin Post uh email this holiday appeal to 10 people. We’ve been trained that that’s it. And we’re actually blocking the board from helping and networking because th that is what feels natural. This is what they’re doing, scaling and running their own businesses. So we’re actually like keeping boards from even being a highly effective networkers and fundraisers because they’re doing something that they think fundraising is, fundraising is over here. It’s relationship building and everything you just described is purely transactional. Yeah. All right. What haven’t we talked about that you wanted to? We, we have, we got some, some time left. What, what haven’t I asked you? What haven’t we talked about that? You want uh our listeners to know? Well, let me think about that. You know, here’s the other thing I’ll, I’ll just lay on top of this oftentimes. Um You know, I, I’ll just preface it with like I get to work with some of the most amazing leaders, executive directors who are subject matter, experts solving all of these incredible problems. Um Sometimes they don’t want to be fundraisers, right? Which an ex executive director is always a fundraiser. Um So oftentimes I find that even if it’s a larger organization, meaning like maybe there’s, let’s just say it’s like a $5 million organization, but maybe 4 million of that might be government funding or state funding. And so there’s kind of this smaller organization doing fundraising within the larger context of the organization. Uh, oftentimes that’s a subject matter expert who’s running that organization. Um And it kind of feels like, ok, so we need to grow that 1 million or that 750 we need to grow that time for a development director because I don’t wanna do the fundraising, the staff, I’ve probably said this, the staff on the board take their cue from the executive director, those top relationships in the pyramid, your executive director has to know how to do relational fundraising. Uh You, they have to know how to attract and keep a team that does relational fundraising. And so I just, I, I think I just lay on top of this of like, you need to invest in your team. Yes. And the executive director is the lead fundraiser on the fundraising team holder of the, the largest relationships likely or most complex relationships. However, you wanna look at that, you ed also have to know how to lead donors on amazing journeys and ask for what you need. Um That’s it, that, that’s why I, I work with the leader first the leader sets the tone for the organization, you know, culturally, you know, so many different ways, but also from a revenue generating standpoint. Uh And so it can’t just be, let me hire a fundraising team to fix the fundraising. I want them thinking how, what are the things we need to do that shift our organization into the activities that fully fund our mission every year. It’s a different angle. I follow you closely on linkedin and you have your Friday reframes. And I, so I want to propose a Friday reframe from, from executive director saying we need to hire a director of development because I don’t want to do fundraising anymore. Two, we need to hire our first director of development because I want to be more sophisticated in fundraising because I want someone to help me align my time with dollars around fundraising. You know what, when this launches, that’s gonna be my Friday reframe, right? And I’m gonna attribute you, you nailed it, you, you can’t, you, the, the CEO cannot absolve themselves of fundraising. It’s just that you need, you need to be more directed with the help of your development, your de your Chief Development Officer, Direct Development, whatever. Uh so that you’re, you’re, you’re speaking to the right people at the right time in the relationship and, and we’re cultivating them for an ultimate solicitation of, you know, an investment level gift. Yeah. And, and you know, if an executive director is hearing this and going, how would I do that? How would I, how would I have time in the day? I, I can’t even imagine that I go back to my advice I gave this morning. Let’s talk 10 hours, let’s talk five hours. Like that’s where you start, you have to move into those activities. Um, you have to model that for your staff and board. Um, oftentimes, then we throw something wild out. Like maybe you actually don’t need. Your first hire is not a development director. Gasp. What if the Ed actually could be bringing in 500 K more? And you had more of a development coordinator spinning the plates underneath that Ed and managing it and making sure all these relationships are, they were doing the pre email, the draft, the post, the follow up. What if that added 500 a million to your plate? Maybe you don’t need that development director first. There’s a, there’s a lot of options, Tony uh that I wish people would pause and you know, do that math equation and really, really weigh um that, that can yield more money than, than perhaps that they’ve been used to Sherry, Quam Taylor Outstanding. She’s CEO of she Yeah, my pleasure. She’s CEO of QM Taylor LLC. You’ll find them at kmail.com and you’ll find Sherry very active on linkedin. Uh What can I say? Thank you for sharing your thinking. Sherry, thanks for having me as always, love the conversation. My pleasure. Next week, empowering women. If you missed any part of this week’s show, I beseech you find it at Tony martignetti.com were sponsored by virtuous. Virtuous gives you the nonprofit CRM fundraising volunteer and marketing tools. You need to create more responsive donor experiences and go giving, virtuous.org and by donor box, outdated donation forms blocking your supporters, generosity, donor box. Fast, flexible and friendly fundraising forms for your nonprofit donor box.org. I still love the alliteration, fast friendly fundraising forms for your nonprofit. Our creative producer is Claire Meyerhoff. I’m your associate producer, Kate Pernetti. This show, social media is by Susan Chavez. Mark Silverman is our web guy and this music is by Scott Stein. Thank you for that affirmation. 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Welcome to Tony Martignetti nonprofit radio. Big nonprofit ideas for the other 95%. I’m your aptly named host and the pod father of your favorite abdominal podcast. Oh, I’m glad you’re with us. I’d get slapped with a diagnosis of paracusis if I had to hear that you missed this week’s show. Here’s our associate producer, Kate with the highlights. Hey, Tony, this week it’s how to thrive when work doesn’t love you back. Thats Mikko Marquette Whitlock new book. And he returns to share his wisdom. The mindful techie has advice, like honor your priorities, negotiate your boundaries, embody your well being, mind your meds and quite a bit more on Tony’s take two hails from the gym. Turn off your speaker phone lady were sponsored by virtuous, virtuous, gives you the nonprofit CRM fundraising volunteer and marketing tools. You need to create more responsive donor experiences and go giving, virtuous.org and by donor box, outdated donation, forming your supporters, generosity, donor box fast, flexible and friendly fundraising forms for your nonprofit donor box.org here is how to thrive when work doesn’t love you back. It’s a pleasure to welcome back again and again, Miko Marquette Whitlock he is the nonprofit techie. He’s a workplace well being strategist. His new book is How to thrive when work doesn’t love you back. A practical guide for taking care of yourself while changing the world. His practice and his book are at Mindful techie.com. And you’ll find Miko on linkedin. Welcome back, Miko. Thank you for having me, Tony. It’s always a pleasure to talk with you. No, thank you. It’s a pleasure to have you back to talk about this book which I very much enjoyed reading. Uh easy read. Valuable, lots of lots, lots of tips. Here’s what to do. If you got five minutes, if you have 15 minutes, if you have 30 minutes, we’ll get to that. Every, every, every chapter is chock full. Uh I love the book. I real, I enjoyed reading it. Tell your story. You were uh you, you, you were in a, in a dark, sad, uh burned out place at one time. Yes. So I’ve, I’ve worked across nonprofit and, and government sector most of my professional career and I very much enjoyed the work that I was doing. Um I worked in a number of different roles related to communications and technology and in my last role before starting my current work, I was communications director for a large organization focused on ending HIV and Hepatitis. Uh We worked with public health officials in the US and around the world and the continent of Africa and the Caribbean and, and lots of other places. Um And I really enjoyed the work. Um But that mission was very heavy and the, the mandate that I was given in terms of building a team, building out a department. Um that was a lot and it caught up to me. Uh I started out, I was really um excited and, and willing to put in the extra hours, willing to, to go the extra mile above and beyond. Um But it reached a point where that wasn’t sustainable and I hit up a really low valley. You know, I was, I was depressed. I had gained a lot of weight and I didn’t feel like I could bring what I was feeling, what I was experiencing to anyone in the organization. I had this idea that that was inappropriate that I needed to sort of suck it up and figure out how to, how to essentially figure it out on my own. Right. That’s, that was the space that I was in. And I reached a point where I faced a potentially life threatening illness. And that was the beginning of a wake up call where I realized that there had to be a different way to do this work. Um that it, it shouldn’t be an either or, or a binary choice. There has to be a way that we can take care of ourselves and do this work in a sustainable way. And one of the questions that I kept asking myself as I was moving through. This is that if I’m burned out, if I’m not at my best, if all of us are sort of at some point of our journey, we’re, we’re experiencing something similar when we’re working in the sector, then who would ever be around long enough to actually do this work, who would ever be around long enough to do the work that this sector was created to do. And that was the start of a, a journey of, of healing for me. And fortunately for me, I had a supportive team, I had a supportive organization and that allowed me to think more holistically about what I needed to uh take care of myself while doing the work and setting appropriate boundaries that empowered me to be able to support my team in doing the same thing. And um that was the start of our journey that brings me to where we are here today. How many years ago was your wake up call? Um That was more than 10 years ago. Were you able to stay with that nonprofit that you were working with as you improved your your own well being you, you I stayed on for a few years um after I had this inflection point. And um one of the beautiful parts of that journey was that I began to share this story. I began and I began to share this journey and I spoke at a conference I believe I it was, it was intent. I gave a short, one of the short ignite talks about my experience. And one of the reasons that I ended up doing the work that I’m doing now and the way that I’m doing it is so many folks came up to me after that short talk where I shared this, this my journey and sort of where I was in that journey, they shared that they resonate with what I was sharing. Um So that let me know that I wasn’t alone. Um They wanted help with these challenges and they wanted to hire me to help them. And a light bulb sort of went off and said, you know what I, as much as I’ve enjoyed the work that I have done, I had also reached a point where I had done what I had been asked to do and I was ready to figure out what was the next leg of my professional journey. And this seemed like a natural progression for that. I think that’s instructive because you, you were able to stay in the organization as, as difficult as the work had become for you. Uh Personally, I don’t mean the substance of the work a as maybe sort of as, as toxic as the demands had become, put it that way you were able to stay, you were able to negotiate your own boundaries and uh a acknowledge your, your limitations, things like that, you know, we’re gonna, we’re gonna get into, within the organization that had been so difficult for you to, to be with and that it had driven you to, uh needing a wake up call. Absolutely. And I wanna be clear that it wasn’t the organization that did something to me. Um, it wasn’t, um, like a particular person that did something. What we’re talking about is, is structural and systemic um, issues that contribute to this being not just a um experience that’s that I experience, but it’s, it’s like an experience that’s very common to change makers around the world that are doing this type of work. Let’s uh II, I define um mindfulness. You and I and Jason and Beth Cantor have talked about mindfulness, but I don’t think I’ve ever asked anybody, you know, what, what does it mean to you, please? Mindfulness as I think about it is, it’s an innate quality that we all possess to essentially pay attention to the present moment, to be fully present and to do that without judgment, right? And when we think about mindfulness, we often associate it with formal practices like meditation and yoga. Those are certainly ways to cultivate mindfulness. Um But this innate quality of being able to pay attention is something that has existed since the beginning of our species. And as a matter of fact, when we think about caveman Daves and the lions and the bears and so on and so forth, a certain level of mindfulness was required in order for us to be aware of threats and to be able to respond accordingly. And so when we talk about um mindfulness in that sense, it’s not a part of a particular religion or particular tradition. Um It’s something that we all possess. Um but there are different ways to, to cultivate that, but that’s how I think about mindfulness. Interesting uh uh additional component to it is that, you know, without apology, to being present, without uh having to justify it to, to, to, to others or to an organization or, you know, anyone out, anyone beside yourself. Um Because, uh you know, I asked that, you know, sort of at the outset because II, I think, I think, I think of your book is essentially creating mindfulness. Uh You have lots of different steps and, and just mindfulness, intentionality and all without uh all without apology. Yes, all without apology, all, all without judgment and being able to extend to yourself grace that even in the space of being mindful and intentional um that what you are experiencing might not feel good, but being willing and being courageous enough to be with whatever you are experiencing allows you to figure out. Ok, well, how do I constructively move through whatever it is that I’m experiencing at this moment? There are so many outside forces too that are, that are challenging us. Um You know, you talk about prolonged uncertainty, social anxiety, you know, these, these forces acting on us that we’re very well not aware of, well, not, not aware that it’s happening and not aware of how toxic they are. Share, share your thinking around those. Yes. So there are, when we think about the the work in the change making sector or the nonprofit sector in particular, there are certain externalities that contribute to for some of us, the overwhelm that we experience at work. Um One of them is um and particularly in the US, you know, we most organizations work around what we consider to be a 40 hour work week, right? We put that in air quotes. Um And that is really a relic of a of, of a previous area era that made certain assumptions about what your family situation looks like. It assumes that you’re one person is able to go out and make enough money to be able to support the entire family, the other person stays home and takes care of the kids in the house and, and all those things. Well, that has shifted our economy has, has fundamentally transformed. Um We think differently about who stays at home. And um you know, in many cases, both parents are working. Um And so what childcare looks like is, is very different. So you have that aspect of it, the pandemic. Um The COVID-19 pandemic has fundamentally reshaped our life and our work and it has surfaced what for some, some of us has already been there and it has exacerbated things um to you to your point about the uncertainty, right? What’s what’s happening next? What is this, what is, what is the residual impact gonna look like in terms of our life and the work moving forward? When we think about A I, for example, with a lot of folks that I work with now, there’s lots of anxiety about, you know, will I still be relevant, right? How will my work transform? Right? Um People are feeling anxious about feeling like there’s yet one more thing that I have to learn, one more tool that I have to learn in order to stay relevant in order to um stay up to speed and to actually make a valuable contribution um to this work that I care so much about. So all of those are weighing on us in terms of the overwhelm and then you have, you know, the sector in general where we have been structurally underfunded to, to begin with, right? So that creates another set of externalities that, that, that further compound things I think that’s important to understand, but it’s not the place that we stop. So the book is, the book recognizes that those things exist, but it also recognizes that as individuals inside of organizations, you may not be in a position where you have the influence because you’re maybe you’re not a manager, maybe you’re not at the board level, maybe you’re not the CEO or executive director, you may not be able to influence a top down approach to culture shift in your organization in a way that improves well being overall for your team and, and for you. But there are things that you can do as an individual. Notwithstanding that um to begin to experience a shift, to begin to change your experience over time and to begin to make space over the long term to address the issues um at a broader level. So there’s the um what I call the spheres of impact um in the book where similar to when we’re flying, many of us have probably heard this from flight attendants, you know, in the event of an emergency, an oxygen mask might drop down from the ceiling in that event that that that happens to secure your own oxygen masks first before you support someone else. The same applies here, many of us including including me, part of the experience, part of the burnout that I experienced was the result of me jumping head first and wanting to serve this higher mission, wanting to serve my organization and my team, but I had not fully resourced myself. And so I experienced short term success, but I reached a point where I petered out and that began to have some negative consequences across a number of different areas of my life. And so when we think about this, in terms of um where do we start as individuals. I always invite people to start with, what are you doing to fully resource yourself first. Notwithstanding all these other externalities that are, that are pressing up against you. If you’re able to fully resource yourself first, you’re positioning yourself to long term in a, in a sustainable way, address some of those other issues. I often remind folks that you can’t control what happens to you, but you can control how you react to it and that you’re, I mean, you’re your theories and your, your strategies are are I think, right, right in line with that. Um And, and that we have to take care of ourselves before we can take care of others. I love your reminder about the the airline uh you know, the airline briefing. Um Yeah, you, you, you, you have to take care of yourself first and then you can be graceful and generous, thoughtful, empathetic, productive, valuable or others or other stuff. So before we talk about um change your five, your 55 strategies for change. So just to make it explicit what’s on the other side of the journey, what is, what is thriving when, when, how to thrive when work doesn’t love you back? What does thriving look like? Thriving means in the context of us as change makers that are doing good work that are having a mission to change the world that you are sustainably resourcing and taking care of yourself. So that you are positioned to give your best in service of whatever mission it is that you are serving. What that means at the individual level is we are finding healthy ways to navigate even the difficult parts of our work. Um We’re avoiding um or, or reducing the likelihood that we’re going to, to burn out. And then on the mission side, what we’re looking at is um essentially elevated and amplified impact, organizational impact. Um because you aren’t having the cycle of burnout. And we know that on the organizational level, what does that actually translate to? It means that you’re probably gonna have issues with retention, right? As a hiring manager, I understand how costly in terms of time and also in terms of money to actually hire a new person. Once someone leaves, right, there are estimates that show that it costs 2 to 3 times the salary in some cases of the position. Um And the time wasted to, you know, put together a position description, do the recruitment, bring someone on board, get them up to speed to fill this gap that was left by a culture that perhaps created this cycle of, of, of turn, for example. So th that’s just very, that’s just one concrete example. So uh my, my, my thought process on this is that if we’re able to intentionally apply some of these concepts to our situation that we can create healthier individuals and healthier organizations that are able to more effectively meet their missions over the long term, in a sustainable way. Let’s talk about how to get there to change, change. Absolutely. So the change is change are the commitments that in my view, when we are embodying these commitments that we are positioning ourselves to do the work long term and sustainably while also taking care of ourselves. Um One of the ways that I think about this is if you are driving a car and you have your, your dashboard, you have the different indicators that show you your fuel level, that show you the oil level that show you the temperature of the engine, that show you how fast you’re going. All of those things are simultaneously important in some respect to understand how well the car is functioning and helping you to get from your starting point to your final destination. Similarly, we want to be operating at a certain minimum level in each of these um commitments in order to be functioning at a high level and sustainably as a change maker. So really quickly, what does it look like in terms of change? So the C is for connecting with your why or reconnecting with your why? So why do you actually do this work? What is your um end goal um that can be as noble as you wanting to end homelessness or it can be, you know what you want to make enough money to retire, right? The there’s no judgment. The, the invitation is for you to be clear about what that, what that Y is Miko. Let, let’s just tick through the, the five. So folks get, folks get the overview and then we’re gonna all, well, of course, we’re gonna come back. Sure. Um The H is for honoring your priorities connected to your Y um The A is for acknowledging and confronting those limiting beliefs that might get in the way of fulfilling that Y um the N is for negotiating and renegotiating boundaries. The G is for generating space to go within and then the final one is bringing them all together, which is embodying well being while well doing. It’s time for a break. Virtuous is a software company committed to helping nonprofits grow generosity. Virtuous believes that generosity has the power to create profound change in the world and in the heart of the giver. It’s their mission to move the needle on global generosity by helping nonprofits better connect with and inspire their givers. Responsive fundraising puts the donor at the center of fundraising and grows giving through personalized donor journeys that respond to the needs of each individual. 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You can be very specific about, OK, for the next 90 days or for the next year, my vision of success in this particular role or in my life overall is fill in the blank, right? So my vision for success or my, my why is that I want to, in my case, have a fully staffed communications department so that we can move the mission of the organization forward, right? That’s very concrete, very time bound. Um It can be loftier and more broad than that. But if you’re struggling with making it more concrete, I invite you to shrink the time frame and get very practical about at the end of that time frame. What’s the result that you want to see and work backwards from there? So once we’ve identified, then how do we take steps to uh to actually truly connect with our y So the there are two parts to this. So one is thinking about how would you go about the work of actually fulfilling that, that’s an important part of actively connecting and reconnecting to it. So what are the, what are the measurable goals that you are engaged in? Um What are the day to day action items that you’re engaged in to actually move that forward? So that’s one aspect of that. The second aspect of that is what is your ritual look like on a daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, annual basis of actually reconnecting with that. So for me, I have a planning tool um that I use that, that I created called the Intention Planner. And I use that on a daily basis. When I’m planning my day, I identify what is my intention for that day. What’s my vision for success? And it’s tied to the larger vision that I have for that quarter and, and for that for that year. And that’s one of the ways that I connect to and, and reconnect with that. I just want, I just want listeners to know that uh the intention planner is also at mindful techie uh dot com. Alongside, right alongside the book, there’s the intention Planner. So you’re using your intention planner. Yeah. So the, so with the book and with the planner, this is not a theoretical work for me. So this is not something that I’m asking you to do that. I’m not doing when I created the intention planner I didn’t intend to have that be for sale. I created it because I didn’t see anything out there. That made sense for me in terms of how I think about intentionally planning my day as a change maker. And so I had a podcast interview, cinema similar to this. And the host asked me, so when is this gonna be available? And I like, but when I was like, oh, ok, people actually want to buy this. And so I made it available for sale similar with the book. There’s lots of research that backs backs up the process and the approach that I take. But this is really a practical approach that I live by and that I teach to my clients. This isn’t something that I sort of just summarized a bunch of articles or books that are already out there. This is, this is, this is actually the, the path that I live and this is actually what I teach. OK. Um And then, so once you have, once you have goals identified um and time bound and tied to your, to your, to your larger y and your work um prioritizing. Yes. So honoring your priorities. So prioritizing essentially means that at any particular point in time, you can have a gazillion goals that you want to achieve that might be relevant to or aligned with your why. But the reality is that we have a finite existence, right? We have a limited amount of time and resources and energy, even though our energy is renewable, if we are, you know, taking care of ourselves. And so what that means is that we have to identify, going back to your, your, your question about mindfulness. What do I have the capacity to focus on in this moment? Right. What do I have the time and energy to focus on in this moment? And that’s gonna let you know what your priorities are. So if you have a gazillion things on your to do list for this week, based on how much time you actually have available, what do you actually have the capacity to focus on? Uh and what’s gonna be the most relevant for you in terms of moving um your, your y forward for folks that are struggling with identifying priorities. One of the analogies that I really like is an analogy from um the book called the one thing by Gary Keller and Jay Papain. And they give us the imagery of a domino display. So if folks have seen these memes or you’ve seen the videos online where you have these large set of dominoes that are set up, right? And you knock over the first domino and then that has a cascading effect where it knocks over all the rest of the dominoes that first domino using a s analogy would be the priority, right? So if you’re struggling with where to start, I often invite people to think about if I could only focus on one thing for this moment, what one thing could I focus on that by doing that would make everything else on my to do list, either easier to do or irrelevant to do because I’ve chosen the highest ranking priority for this moment. Uh So I invite people to moment by moment, just say for this moment for the next hour, for the next day, for the next week. If I only accomplished one thing, what would that one thing be? And then you rinse and repeat that process uh as you get better and better with identifying and focusing on those priorities. What do we do with the distractions that, that uh uh are, are, are bound to uh are, are bound to come to us to, to face us. You know, I don’t know whether it’s an email distraction or it could be a bigger personal distraction. You know, we’ve got our priorities for the, let’s say, even just for the day. But, but there’s stuff incoming. How do, how do I navigate myself around the distractions or do I maybe the distraction? Maybe, maybe that’s a higher priority than what I set aside for the day? You know, how do we, how do we deal with this? And then not, then not uh beat ourselves up over it. The first is, is simply acknowledging that distraction is a natural part of the human experience. So we have internal distractions. So those are the thoughts, the feelings, the emotions, um, maybe, um going back to the caveman days, maybe there’s actually a legitimate fear, um, that you have about getting eaten by a tiger or attacked by a bear. Right? That, that’s, that’s a very real thing and then we have external distraction. So that’s the email coming in, that’s the phone buzzing. Um That’s someone walking into your office. Um You know, so th those, those distractions are real. So the first person starts by acknowledging that those things do exist and that you can get back on track. Um Once you acknowledge the distraction, that’s where the mindfulness piece comes in, right? Uh The second part of this is being flexible. So to your point, something very well might come up, that changes what you thought was the top priority and we get to be flexible, we get to give ourselves permission to allow things to, to change. Um Just because you have a clear sense of direction right now, that doesn’t mean that that may not change. You know, we, we can be flexible to change based on our life and how our work is flowing in a particular season. So when we acknowledge those two things, that distraction is a natural part of the human experience. Number two, we get to, to be flexible and give ourselves a little bit of grace to, to change. Then that allows us to, to do the third part of this, which is about um doing our part to set boundaries or parameters that protect our priorities. So if you are working on a, a time bound project that has a tight deadline and you wanna remain accessible, one of the strategies I’ll talk about in the book is establishing your rules of engagement and that’s where I might say, you know what um Tony, I’m working on deadline, but here I, I recognize that that an emergency might pop up if that’s the case. Here’s the way that you can reach me if and, and the true emergency pops up. I’m gonna have my phone. Um beside me, you know, feel free to call or text if, if this is actually a true emergency. If not, you, you won’t hear from me until the rest of the day until I finish this particular project. Right? There are, there are strategies like that, that we can right size depending on the appropriateness for our project or for our organization um to support us in honoring our priorities. Recognizing that distraction is a natural part of the experience, but also doing our part to minimize the distraction so that we can um focus on as much as we can the most important priority for the moment. So we’re right. So there was a very subtle transition and we went from acknowledging your limiting beliefs to uh negotiate boundaries where, which is negotiate boundaries was my favorite of the, of your five. Because they are, they’re essential. II, I just II, I don’t know, I’ve just known this for, for a long time that they’re essential to, to well being and honoring yourself. And I, I think when we talk about negotiating bounds, I think it’s important similar to the distraction for you. So simply acknowledge that for many of us that this might be an uncomfortable thing for us to do. Let’s just acknowledge that it’s uncomfortable, right? That it might not feel good and part of setting and protecting boundaries means we have to simply acknowledge the reality that there will be disappointment. You will be disappointed, you will disappoint someone else as much as you try not to. That doesn’t mean that you’re being unkind, but that just means that sometimes things aren’t perfectly aligned in terms of what we need and when we need them from different people and it’s ok if when that happens, the the the larger point is how do we respond when those things happen? And in the book, I talk about ways in which you understand when and how to say yes to things or no to things or not right now to things and how you can do that in a way that preserves the the personal relationship, how you can do that in a way that helps to educate the other person um about what your needs are, how you can do that in the way that you can help the other person figure out, OK, is there another way that I can support you in, in helping you get what you need while I also honor my current priority for this moment and vice versa? Right? How can you process and deal with the disappointment when you may need a want or desire something in a certain way by a certain time frame and the person that you are um inviting or asking to support you with that is not able to give you what you need right then and there how do you then you know, process and, and deal with that. Um You have exact language that we can, you just copy, you can copy and say not right now or no, I know this is not right for me. Like basically ever, you’re, you’re more, your wording is more eloquent, but you have the exact language we can just, I can just copy it into my email actually. Absolutely. So, and there, there are different options. Um And the the invitation is to use your best judgment um and to recognize, but all the things that we’re talking about this is a continuous practice. This is not something that you do one time and you sort of flip the switch and you’re like, you know what I got it all figured out. One of the beautiful things about the life that we’re living is that we get an opportunity to start again and again and again, to practice over and over and over again. Uh And when we can recognize and when we can accept that, I think for some of us that helps to lower the level of anxiety that we feel about, you know, moving through life and moving through work and trying to figure out like, how do we put these things? That’s a practice in a way that is sustainable and it works for us. It’s time for a break. Imagine a fundraising partner that not only helps you raise more money, but also supports you in retaining your donors, a partner that helps you raise funds, both online and on location. So you can grow your impact faster. That’s Donor box, a comprehensive suite of tools, services and resources that gives fundraisers just like you a custom solution to tackle your unique challenges, helping you achieve the growth and sustainability, your organization needs, helping you help others visit Donor box.org to learn more. It’s time for Tony’s take two. Thank you, Kate. These characters at the gym. You know, they, they, it’s not, it’s not the same characters all the time because people come at different times and uh I go at different times. It’s always morning. Um I, I don’t get there after like 10 o’clock in the morning. Usually. Never, probably never. So, but you know, you see different people. And uh uh this woman, I’ve seen a number of times this one time she had her speaker phone on and So we all had to listen to the conversation that, uh, her friend was telling her about. There was this, uh, it was the night before and there had been some kind of an assault, she was assaulted or her boyfriend was assaulted or so somebody was assaulted in a parking lot. Uh, and then, you know, they, they like, saw assaulted, like, just, you know, like pushed or something, you know, nothing like beaten up but still an assault, not appropriate but, you know, not bloody or anything. Apparently based on the story, you know, a as it was relayed to me via this woman’s uh speaker phone. So there she went home and her guy was with her. It’s not clear what the relationship is. They went home, they called the police and the police came, the, then there was, there was some, there was some questioning but then a neighbor comes over and the neighbor is an attorney. So he was asking the detective who came to the, to the house to, to take pictures of the woman or the, uh, and thank goodness the neighbor is an attorney because otherwise I wouldn’t have thought of that myself. You know, this woman is saying, and, you know, I, I don’t, I, I mean, I just, I, I don’t need to hear Peyton Place, you know, as the world turns the guiding light, you know, I don’t, we don’t need to hear these, uh on speaker. Turn your damn speakerphone off, go out in the hall, go out the building actually going to be on speaker. You should be outside the building for Pete’s sake. Exasperating with these women. Well, with the people, th this was a woman who just uh I don’t know, she just didn’t figure it out. So we all had to listen to this five minute uh drama unfold with the, the, the, the police and the, the neighbor lawyer. And thank goodness. And, uh, so please, you know, it’s to turn your phones off to turn the phone off or jump right outside, you know, or Pete’s sake. I mean, I don’t even bring my phone to the gym. Literally, it stays home every single time. I don’t even bring it. I, I don’t need it, but if you need it for timing or something, don’t, don’t, don’t take calls, don’t, don’t take calls on the speaker phone for PT or even on the phone. We don’t want to hear even just your side of it. I Thats Tonys take too Kate. He sounds very aggravated. No, I’m not angry. I’m exasperated that she doesn’t get me angry. I’m, you know, I’m having, I’m having a good workout but she’s exasperating. I feel like Jim should have the um, you know how movie theaters have the little messages, like don’t talk or text during the movie. I feel like Jim should have that as well. Yeah, I don’t know whether they projected on the wall or something, you mean? Or, or, I don’t know, sign, you know, turn your damn speakerphone off. That’s the sign I would put up. They do have signs for, wipe down the equipment when you’re done. Uh, it’s a very civil gym. Maybe I should talk about some positive thing. It’s very, it is very, everybody’s so polite. It’s not like my New York City gym. I used to belong to, uh, I mean, they have sanitizers everywhere and, and wipes and towels. Maybe I should talk about something positive about this North Carolina gym. Hey, uh, great fun. Last week with the, uh 700 the show, by the way. Oh, I know. It was so nice to see everyone and everyone was so happy. The game was so much fun that Claire did. It was quiz. Yeah. Yeah, that was, that was fun. She stumped me in a couple. Um, and, uh, but uh, Scott and Gene and um, Blair all did uh generous uh social posts in different places. Scott was on Facebook. Uh Claire was on, it was on linkedin J. Did a big blog post at nonprofit law blog.com about the show. Yes. Very uh, very generous. Where’s your social media presence? You’re the, you’re the J Yeah. Where the hell is your social host for the 7/100 show? You’re embarrassed. Uh No, I’m, I’ll be honest. I know I’m Gen Z but I am so bad with social media. Like I never post, I know. I, I should, I should post a little something. Go, well, maybe for the 700. Not that you should be active in social media. That’s up to you. But, but just for the 700 show. Yeah, it would be appreciated. Yeah. Let leave it at that. We’ll leave it at that. Get on it. Well, we’ve got VU but loads more time. Here’s the rest of how to thrive when work doesn’t love you back with Miko Marquette Whitlock, talk about the uh FOMO versus Jomo. Absolutely. So going back to your point about distractions earlier when we talk about FOMO, FOMO is what some people describe as fear of missing out, right? So one of the examples that I give when I’m training people about setting boundaries, I give the example of at one point in my career um that if I were working on deadline, sometimes I would procrastinate or I would distract myself with email. And part of the reason for that is that I fear that if, if I wasn’t responsive and sort of looking at my email inbox all the time that I would miss something very important that I would drop the ball on something for a team member or a client or a member and that, that would have disastrous consequences. And so I feared literally missing out for some people. It’s about social media, connecting with friends and family and fear like you’re gonna miss the the latest and greatest gossip or you’re gonna, you know, you’re gonna be the last person to know about this party or event that’s happening that your friend is hosting or whatever it is. Uh So that’s very real and that’s very legitimate. So we can acknowledge that. And as part of shifting away from this, when we acknowledge that this is a real thing for us, the other end of this is Jomo. So this is the joy of missing out and the joy of missing out invites us to recognize that, you know what? I only have a certain number of hours in a day and in a week, I’m only gonna live a certain number of years and tomorrow is not guaranteed. And so I get to make peace with the fact that I can’t do it all and have it all. And so I get to make an intentional choice about what I choose to give my time and attention to right now. And what I choose to intentionally miss out on. Uh one of the ways I’ll talk about this in the book is to proactively identify your regrets, right? So whenever you are making a choice to enforce boundaries, there are gonna be certain things that you’re gonna miss out on, right? You’re gonna, you may have to miss a happy hour right after work with your, your colleagues for a certain time period. If you’re working on deadline on a special project for example, um you might have to deal with the fact that because you’re saying no, um, that your relationship with someone that you really care about in your life might shift, right? And you have to make a decision about whether or not that is something that you are willing to, um accept and how you’re willing to process that. So, um understanding this and, and processing it in this way, can position you to get to a space where it’s less fear and it’s more about joy. Recognizing that you get to make an intentional choice as opposed to reaction based on something that happened. Your example of the party invitation doesn’t resonate with me because I just knew that I would never be invited. So I just, you didn’t fear missing out, didn’t land with me. No, not, not the parties. No. Um You know, this is, it’s beautiful. Um because, you know, this is a life practice and over your life as people know you, they’re gonna, they’re gonna come to recognize that you’re not routinely saying no, you know, o over, over their relationship with you, you’ve been there for them, maybe, maybe something they had urgent rose to the level of um offsetting your other priorities for the, the day or the week or the month, depending how dire the, the the emergency or crisis may have been. You may have been there for them. So over the over, over the span of your relationships with people and with organizations, even institutions, they’re gonna come to see that you don’t, you don’t routinely say no. You don’t reflexively say no as you’re enforcing the boundaries. But occasionally, um, you do say no and, and they’re gonna, they’re gonna, when, when you do, they’re gonna, they’re gonna have the grace for you that you’ve shown them over the span of your, your relationship with them again, whether it’s a person or institution. Absolutely. So this is about recognizing that in most cases, people are reasonable and going back to the examples with the language, it’s important to do what we can to mitigate misunderstanding. Um And to provide sometimes providing context is helpful. And so um in the book, I give examples of how to say no, because I, I understand the perspective that no was a complete sentence. Yes, that is true. If you talk to, you know English professors. Yes. No, it was a complete sentence. And we also understand at least in, in the Western world, in English. Um It matters how that’s communicated verbally like in terms of your tone, it matters if, if you’re telling someone no period over text or, or, or over email that can be interpreted in many different ways, right? And so the more we can do to provide context, the more we can do to provide options in my opinion. And in my experience, um the more we can get to what you’re talking about, which is people beginning to understand and be able to extend each other grace, right? I think where we get into trouble is where we avoid having these conversations. Things go left unsaid. People have these storylines in their head about. This person doesn’t like me or this person is mean or, or this person thinks this or thinks that uh and that can often make a bad situation worse. Whereas if we just have the courage to be upfront, be proactive, um, over time, we get what you’re talking about where we’re able to have this ebb and flow of people giving each other grace. Um When things just don’t align for whatever reason, talk about getting good with apologies. Absolutely. So this is tied to this idea that there are going to be failures in your life or learning opportunities as I’d like to think of them, they’re going to be disappointments, right? You’re gonna disappoint people. People are gonna disappoint you. Um It’s not going to necessarily be intentional, but it’s just we’re all living our lives and that’s just a consequence of the fact that we’re sort of all doing, you know, different things at different speeds and we have different things that we’re called to and, and so on and sometimes you are going to, even if it’s unintentional, you’re going to, you know, hurt people’s feelings, um, disappoint people and a accepting that one of the ways that we can um remedy, remedy that and continue to have healthy relationships is to get good at acknowledging when that happens and to apologize when that does happen. And one of the examples that I give in the book is a little model of an apology from uh the de I strategist conclusion, Strategist Amber Cabral, where she talks about this idea of acknowledging by saying, you know what, I’m sorry, or apologize for X fill in the blank, whatever the X is, um moving forward, I will fill in the blank, whatever the change of behavior that you’re going to follow, moving forward. So I can model this now. You know, Tony, I apologize for canceling our interview last minute. Um Moving forward, I’ll make sure that I give you advance notice if I need to make a shift and schedule whatever it is, right? And actually making a commitment to do better, right? So that you’re not continuously having to apologize for the same thing over and over again. I think that’s the key here. Let’s take a break from the, these very valuable strategies and tactics. Um tell a story, tell a story about a, a client person or institution that made their way through. Uh you know, the, the um the difficulties, the unwellness, the mistakes, mistakes as you, you call them in the book, we may have a chance to talk about mistakes and, and found their way again, either as a person or institution to uh to, to thriving to, well being. So one of the, the examples that I give the book um is from a client um Sheri that I met when I was doing a series of training for nonprofit professionals on leadership and resilience in Virginia. And she was at that time, a VP of communications for a community foundation. And she came to one of the classes I did AAA full day class on essentially mindfulness based approaches to leadership. And one of Sharia’s biggest challenges was around setting boundaries. And this was at work and also at home, one of the, at, at work, one of the biggest things was around feeling like she had to be constantly connected to her devices and to her social media because she, after all, she’s the VP of communication. So like if, you know, if she’s not fully connected and being, you know, 100% responsive all the time, then like the world’s gonna fall apart if she’s, if she’s not doing that. And that’s the job you had when you were with the NGO. Exactly. Exactly. And you know, we talked about some of the strategies that we’ve talked about here today. Um You know, we had, and we had an opportunity to work together beyond that, that one full day class. But one of the things that was changing, life changing for her and, and this, these, these are her words essentially is the idea that she could set those boundaries like, and it wouldn’t be the end of the world, right? And that she could release this idea of having to be the perfect VP, having to be the perfect mother, having to be the perfect wife. And to recognize that if she wasn’t resourcing and pouring it into herself and setting boundaries to allow that to happen, that she wasn’t gonna be good to any of those, any of those roles for her being good at her work, being a good wife, being a good mother. Those were things that were critically important to her. And so this allowed her the freedom to actually release that and be more effective in her role. Um Another example that I would give on the personal side for, for she, she was able to stay in that job and fulfill her commitment to her family and, and do, do both in, in a, in a way that she felt she was succeeding. Exactly. And so this gets back to one of the ways that she was able to do this. So looking at the personal side, um, she has, she and her husband have three young boys. And so as you can imagine, for, for parents out there, that’s a lot of laundry. And so one of the things that really overwhelmed Sheri was this idea, she had this idea that in order to be a perfect mother and wife, that laundry had to be done and folded and clean, you know, 24 7. Right. Like, you can’t have what she called the laundry chair. And one of the things did she call it the, the laundry chair? So, it’s essentially where you have, you have clean clothes but they’re not folded. They’re just sort of sitting in the laundry chair as she called them. Right. Exactly. So, essentially people are sort of picking out the clean clothes from the, from the laundry chair as opposed to pulling them out from a, from a drawer because they’re not always folded neat, uh, neatly, um, all the time and she made peace with that. That was one of the things that she was able to release and let go of and to say, you know what, the clean laundry is not gonna always be folded neatly and you know what? That’s ok. It’s not the end of the world. My husband and my Children still have clean clothes. I’m, I’m guessing too because of your advice in the book that you, you would, we would encourage Shari or others, you know, to take things incrementally, a small, a small step. Now, you know, we can all decide on our own whether we think the laundry chair is a big step or a small step, you know, for Sheri, maybe that’s a big step, but whatever it is, right, incremental. Take a step, take something manageable. Absolutely. And so the, the book, um, I emphasize this throughout which is to start small because the reality is that we know from the science of behavior change, um, the smaller the smallest bite of change that we can chew off, that we can do sustainably, the more likely we’re able to stick with that over the long term. Right? And so we see this with people that make a commitment at the beginning of the year. So, you know what, today’s, this year is gonna be the year that I’m finally gonna get into shape and get fill in the blank, whatever your ideal body type is, right? And they’re going hard for maybe a, you know, a day or two or maybe they’re lucky, maybe they make it through the whole month of January and then they sort of jump, drop off and you don’t see them anymore. And part of that is because, um, they went from sort of 0 to 100 overnight and that wasn’t sustainable. Now, there are examples of folks like, you know, ex marine David Goggins, like a very extreme example, like people that can do that, right? But for the vast majority of folks, that’s not the case. We have to take it slowly and we have to start small and be consistent with the small wins and then we can gradually build up to, to bigger things more sustainably over the long term. This week, I’m gonna dedicate 90 minutes to working out and that, that is. Yeah. And, and, and throughout the week I’m gonna devote 90 minutes. I mean, there’s a, something more manageable than, you know, taking on a whole year. Absolutely. All right. All right. Uh So, all right. We’ve connected to our, why honored our priorities, acknowledged our limiting beliefs, negotiating boundaries, generate space to go within. This is one I had to read. II, I had to spend more time with this one. Absolutely. Uh Personally, I’m just my own personal journey through the book, uh which, you know, there’s obviously a lot more detail, you know, you just got to get the book. Um again, how to thrive when work doesn’t love you back. Um Because you know, there’s only so much Miko and I can talk about in our time together um generating space to go within. What, what’s your thinking here? So we talked earlier about the instruction from the flight attendant secure your own oxygen mask before you help someone else secure theirs. This particular part of the book is focused on the space and the activities that you’re engaged in to refuel yourself. This is the area where if you aren’t making space to do this in a consistent way, really, none of these other things are gonna matter that we talked about. And the way that I think about this is you, some of us have probably heard the phrase time is money, right? And time is the most important thing that you could have. I actually disagree with that. I think our energy and our vitality is the most important thing because you can have all the time in the world. But if, if you’re not well enough and you don’t have the energy to actually maximize that, then what good is all the time in the world to you. And so this particular chapter is um generating space to go within is about how you carve out the space in the midst of all the things that are happening in life and work to make sure that you’re continually refueling. One of the simple strategies that I give as a starting point for this is about establishing what I call your start and your start routine for your day. Um Particularly if you have a very demanding and very challenging and sometimes unpredictable um, work schedule. This particular strategy is about however small that is if it’s only five minutes that you have at the start of your day, doing something that you do just for you, not for your kids, not for your partner, not for your dog. But what are you doing for yourself? Is that sitting by yourself and having a cup of coffee? Is that, um, sitting on your porch and, and, and looking out at the backyard? Is that doing yoga? Is that meditation? Is that listening to your favorite music? Whatever that is. What are you doing to pour into yourself? Even if it’s as little as five minutes or less? And then what are you doing on the back? End of your day before you go to bed or after your work day ends to do the same thing. Um You know, ideally, you know, over time, maybe you are able to create more space, right? But the invitation here is to think about for your particular day. What do you have the capacity to take on and making space to do that? One of the examples that I often give is that I have proactively identified like short, medium and long term versions of my workout. My workout is one of the things that’s very important for me in terms of how I generate space to, to, to go within and, and renew myself and energize myself. There are days when I need to do a five minute version, there’s, there are days when I can only make time for maybe 32nd stretch and an ideal day, I have 30 minutes or more to, to do that. I ask myself, what do I have the capacity to do today? What does my schedule allow me to do? I do that, whether it’s the 32nd stretch or the 30 minute workout and I give myself credit for having worked out for for that day. Um What that allows me to do is it allows me to be realistic about how my life and my work is unfolding. And I also need to be realistic about the fact that every day I wake up for any number of reasons. I’m not always motivated. Right. I’m not always inspired. I’m not always fully energized and that’s OK. We all have peaks and valleys and, and ebbs and flows. But what can I, what do I have the capacity to give myself in that particular day or in that particular moment? So, you, you need to, you need to make time because, you know, a lot of people say, well, when I find the time I’ll, I’ll, I’ll work out. But the, the, the time is never going to tap you on the shoulder and say, you’ve, you’ve got, you’ve got five free minutes or you’ve got 90 free minutes, you’ve got to be intentional and, and set the time for yourself. And then, you know, likewise you explained, you know, give yourself credit. That’s a, that’s an important mindset shift, I think, give yourself credit for the five minute workout rather than berating yourself for not having done the 30 minute workout. Absolutely. And so for me, whether it’s a 32nd stretch or the 30 30 minute workout, it’s, I can check it off in my planner that I did my, my workout for me. They’re, they, they are equal in, in my eyes. Uh One other thing I will share is in terms of a tip is one of the things that I think sometimes stresses people out about this is that people feel like sometimes they have to, if they pick a ritual or routine, it has to be the same one every day and it has to be at the same time in the same way every day. And I wanna invite people to reconsider that I have a bucket of things that I choose from. I have a bucket of things that are ideal based on if I have the ideal amount of time. Um, but maybe it’s not working out, maybe it’s, you know, going for a walk some days if I have time. I, I like to do all of the above. Right. The other part of that is like on days like this, I typically like to do my workout in the morning today. I didn’t do that. I was preparing for this and doing some other things before I joined you here today, Tony. And so I looked at my calendar and I’m gonna do it this afternoon and that’s fine. I, I think of it, I think I about to talk about this in the book, but it’s sort of like, um, eating breakfast for dinner. You know, breakfast is one of my favorite meals. It’s there iii I love the idea of having breakfast for dinner. It’s a for me there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. So I wanna give people options to consider, to make this work for them. It, it doesn’t have to look like someone else’s schedule or routine. Um, the point is that it, it works for you and that it’s serving you giving yourself grace. Absolutely. If you can give yourself grace, then you increase the likelihood that you’re able to extend grace to other people. And if we’re in a continuous cycle of being able to extend each other grace, then how wonderful would that be to live and work in the world where we’re able to do that for each other? This is the chapter where you have um advice about intentional meetings. Yes. Share some of your thinking there, please. Yeah, so there, there’s some basic things in terms of intentional meetings. Um The first is really asking the question. Does this meeting need to take place? I think we Presuppose in many cases that a meeting needs to take, take place so that it’s the right solution. Um instead of thinking through, you know, Tony, let’s just schedule a meeting and talk about it later. Well, what if we just talked about it now? And, and maybe it’s like a 32nd answer and we don’t need to schedule a meeting for it, right? And so one of the ways I think about this in terms of answering this question is this being necessary, you know, do we have an agenda? Is it clear? What question we’re trying to answer or what problem we’re trying to solve? Are we clear about who needs to be there? Are all those folks gonna be there or we’re gonna have to have another meeting about the meeting because a key person wasn’t there, we gotta get them up to date. So we just gotta have another meeting about, about that to catch them up. So thinking about even just those basic things that I just share with you asking the legitimate question is this meeting necessary, having an agenda with a clearly stated intention about what’s the purpose of this meeting? How we’re measuring success? How will we know that we actually achieve that because we’ve answered the question, right? Or we have addressed the issue, we’ve identified some next steps to help us to, to move forward. Um Our final thing I’ll share about this is thinking about what is the length of the meeting need to look like. For many of us, we assume that by default. And I think this is really the partly we can blame some of the technology out there. Um That’s fortunately has evolved, but um for many calendar settings for the longest time, the default meet length of the meeting was an, was an hour. And so we just, we had a meeting and we just sort of stretched it out for an hour when it really didn’t need to be that, right? And so thinking about if a meeting is important, do you really need an hour to, to dive through what, what it is that you need to, to do if a meeting is longer than an hour? I really question if people are clear about that. Um What the intention is I work with a client in planned giving that. They, they have a biweekly every other week meeting on the, on the calendar, but we are often canceling it because there are no agenda items. So, emails go around, let us know a day but the day, the day or two before, but the meeting and the agenda items and, and then we’ll find out the day before there are no agenda items. So this, the next week’s meeting is canceled. Absolutely. I admire that. So we have the space set aside, but we don’t always use it. Absolutely. And I think that’s a smart way to make sure you have the space set aside. People can schedule accordingly, but you can also give people back their time if you recognize that. You know what, we don’t really, we don’t really need to have this meeting. And there’s, there’s a lot more advice, you know, you, you talk about the devices spending time away from your devices, but you and Jason and I just talked about all those uh time saving and, and uh apps that make you more efficient and strategies for using your apps and your devices. So we’re not gonna, you just, you know, if you want to get the, you gotta get the book, that’s all, you know, you gotta get the book for you. If you want to talk about, you wanna know more detail about digital social distancing. Um because we’re gonna move to embody well being while well doing the e and change. Yes. So embodying well-being while well doing is the way that I think about this is when you have reached a place where you are embodying at a certain minimum level, all of the previous five commitments in terms of connecting to your why? Honoring your priorities, acknowledging and confronting limiting beliefs, um negotiating boundaries and generating space to go within. When you are actively doing work in all those areas, it have to be like 100% in all those areas. But you’re moving the needle in some way in all those areas, sort of simultaneously, then you’re setting yourself up to be in this cycle of what I talked about previously where you’re in the practice, right? It’s not perfect, right? But you’re, you’re moving the needle, you’re in the practice. You, you are consistently and sustainably refueling yourself and you’re setting yourself up to be able to, to live your life and to do your best work in a sustainable way. That is really what this final commitment is, is all about. We are a little over our time together. Do you have, do you have more time or do you have to go? I don’t want you to be stressed. I’m not stressed. You’re ok. I built in time before and after. So we’re good. All right. Thank you. I do, I, I did, I, I did too. Uh I’m fine too. Um You, you you talk about taking your meds. This chapter define our meds for us. Yes. So our, our meds are mindset, mindset, exercise, diet and sleep. Yes, mindset exercise, diet and sleep. So, one of the things that is challenging for folks when we talk about this particular topic is sometimes we don’t believe that the simple basic things actually work. And so we’re always on the search for like it, it can’t be that easy. Like there has to be like a more complicated solution. So I’m just gonna read a gazillion books. I’m gonna watch a gazillion, you know, Ted talks, I’m gonna, you know, scour social media for this hack or for that hack because the stuff people are saying about um you know, our mental fitness, the stuff people are saying about just getting some movement in walking and exercising stuff. People are saying about eating your fruits and vegetables and eating a balanced diet and, and sleep. Um like that can’t be, be the thing. The truth is now we have decades of research, like literally decades of research, like going back to like the eighties. And even before, if you do meta analysis, you look at meta analysis of, of the research out there and you look at performance, you look at health outcomes in a whole range of areas. There are some factors that are that, that are within our control, that are pretty consistent and it’s these right, you know what your mindset or mental fitness or in other words, like, what do you believe, um, is possible for you? Um, how are you taking care of yourself in terms of your mental and emotional well being? That’s a critical aspect of our overall well being. Are we getting enough movement exercise? Are we eating the right things? And are we getting enough sleep? And this is not just theoretical or regurgitation of advice? This is something that I know to be true because it’s something that I’m actively practicing for myself. Um And I’ve seen tremendous results with that and it’s actually going back to my particular story and my journey, it was one of the things that I had recommitted to that made a tremendous difference in me being able to navigate the, the valley that I shared with you all earlier. And it’s something that when I share this with, with clients. Um It’s something that makes a tremendous impact as well as a matter of fact, one of the first places that I start when I work with a client, um I wanna know, have you worked with a therapist before? And when was the last time you went to a doctor? Because oftentimes one or both of those things and how you’re addressing those makes a tremendous difference in my ability to be able to support you over the long term. I can give you all the strategies in the world. But if your basic health and well being um isn’t being taken care of, then we’re not really setting you up for success over the long term. We’re just sort of putting a band aid over, over a gaping wound, right? Uh And what we wanted to be able to do is to set you up for, for long term success. Now, I’ll give you one last example here. So I share with you previously the example of the, the dominoes and prioritization knocking over the first domino and it knocks over all the other dominoes for me in my personal life. My first domino is going to bed on time. Why is that? I know that I go to bed on time. I’m more likely to get up on time. If I’m more likely to get up on time, I’m gonna have time for my start routine, which includes prayer and meditation and working out and all those things. I’m gonna have space to think about and plan my day before I jump into doing things like this and working with clients. And when I do that, I’m gonna be fully available, I’m gonna be fully present. I’m gonna be energized. I’m not gonna be sleepy um or cranky and I’m gonna be able to do my best work and I’m gonna be able to be fully connected and engaged with the people that I’m connecting with. When I don’t do that consistently. It has a similar ripple effect in the, in the opposite direction and So that part of what I wanna get across in the book is that the things that we can do as individuals to change our experience with how we are showing up at work and how we’re taking care of ourselves. None of this is rocket science. It’s, it’s really not, it’s, it’s very basic, it’s very simple, but we have to be committed to, to doing it in a consistent way. We have to be willing to give ourselves grace and to, to practice continuously. I’d like to leave it right there with, with you, Miko. Thank you. Thank you. Thanks for sharing your own story and your valuable strategies and tactics for reaching AAA thriving state. Uh The book is How to thrive when work doesn’t love you back, a practical guide for taking care of yourself while changing the world. You’ll find uh Miko’s book and his practice at Mindful techie.com. You’ll find Miko on linkedin Mika. I thank you again. Beautiful. Thank you very much. Thank you, Tony. I appreciate it. Next week. Sherry Quam Taylor returns with high ro I development and marketing communications teams. 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You need to create more responsive donor experiences and grow, giving, virtuous.org and by donor box, outdated donation forms blocking your supporters, generosity, donor box. Fast, flexible and friendly fundraising forms for your nonprofit donor box.org. Thank you very much Kate Cla Meyerhoff. Welcome Tony Martignetti. It is so nice to see you again and I cannot believe that this is the seventh show and the 14th jubilee, even the queen didn’t have 14 jubilee. Thank you. Thank you. Let me give you a proper introduction. Of course, our creative producer at nonprofit Radio uh and president of the Planned Giving Agency. Uh You’ve got decades of media experience including WTO P in Wash DC and Sirius. And uh of course, your company is the PG Agency, the Planned Giving Agency at EG agency.com. So good to see you, Claire, something like that. Yeah, it’s great to see. Great to see you too. Can I tell you a little bit about the exciting things I’ve been doing? You can tell us about absolutely what’s going on in life. Well, for many years, I attended this wonderful Plan Giving conference, one of my favorites in the whole country, the Carolina’s Plan Giving conference at Kuga, which is just a cool conference because it’s held at this camp and it’s really casual and the best people attend. And this year I was elevated to the committee. So I helped plan programming. I did a lot of marketing and I was really involved with the Carolina Planned Giving Conference and I’m doing so again next year and it is just the best. If you want to learn more about it. It’s Carolina’s Land Giving conference.org. I live in, I live in North Carolina that’s included in the Carolinas. Right. Absolutely. Yes, you need to come. Ok. Is it I don’t know where Cayuga, it’s, it’s in the mountains of North Carolina, near Hendersonville, North Carolina, which is near Asheville. North as it’s beautiful. It’s just the most beautiful setting. So relaxing and just a great place. If you love planned getting, then you should come to Canoga Tony. Ok. Cool. Uh, right here. Right. Well, I wouldn’t say my backyard about a five hour drive, but, uh, close enough. Thank you for sharing. And, um, I wanted to, uh, just remind folks and, and may probably you too or maybe not. Maybe you remember that. Uh, your first time on nonprofit radio was show number two really single digit show. Show number two, which was on July 23rd, 2010. And you and I talked, you and I talked about storytelling and jargon and, and you gave me the fabulous idea for Jargon jail. Jargon jail. I love jargon jail, which has survived these whoa, these 14 years jargon jail. Still putting, still putting, uh, scofflaw guests into Jargon jail when, when it’s required when it’s required. Yes, GG is holding up his hands, wrist to wrist rit cuff. And I think the first, uh, the first, first person to be confined first, uh, term to be confined to Jargon jail was probably capacity building that may have done it, may very well, that may very well have done it. Absolutely. Um, let’s bring in, uh, let’s bring our friend, uh, Scott Stein in Scott from Brooklyn New York, welcome. Hello, Tony. Thanks for having me. Absolutely. Always a pleasure to have you for the anniversary shows, Scott. Thank you. Uh, Scott Stein, pianist, songwriter, thank goodness, songwriter. Otherwise we wouldn’t have any theme music. So grateful for that. Uh, and music director, you’ll find him at Scott Stein music.com and on Facebook, Twitter X Instagram and youtube. He’s Scott Stein music. Yes. You’ve got some gigs coming up, uh, a couple of gigs coming up in August. I see. Um, at Scott Stein music.com. Yeah, I’ll be doing, um, I’ll be performing as part of a community concert series here in Brooklyn called Operation Gig, which, uh, began during the pandemic. It began summer of 2000. Um, it was a series of outdoor concerts to employ the many musicians who live in that neighborhood and around Neigh neighborhood and it was so popular that it’s continued. Uh, so I’m excited because I’m gonna be teaming up with my old songwriter part or, excuse me, my old songwriting partner, Mia Byrne who is, uh, just moved back to New York after years on the west coast. Uh, we were in a band called The Ramblers for many years and co-wrote a lot of their songs. So that’s gonna be real cool. Uh, she had a great record that just came out last year. Um, and so probably to play some tunes off of there. And, um, yeah, and then I, I mean, I, I work with a bunch of different artists as a side man. So, I’ve, I’ve got a few here and there and um I’m gonna be up at the uh on the other end of uh what I do professionally. I’ll be at the North American Jewish Choral Festival as a clinician this year because I’m also a choral conductor because why do just one thing? And uh so it’s gonna be a busy summer. Um And uh just had a premiere of a work that I wrote about two weeks ago. So, uh more in the formal composition world. So, uh yeah, just lots of, lots of, lots of different stuff going on right now. What does a coral clinician do? Ah, so for this particular festival, uh, one of the things that they do is they group all of the attendees into what they call instant ensembles. So they create choirs, new choirs from all the people who are there. And so I’m gonna be conducting one of those four ensembles this year. And, uh, and then there’s a big concert at the end of the festival and, uh, it’s up in Tarry Town. So just outside the city. Yes, Westchester Tarry Town. All right, cool. Yeah, I’m glad you’re with us, Scott. Thank you. And, uh, Scott, uh, you’ll be doing three songs for us today, including, of course, the theme music. Cheap Red Wine, of course. And sample Ward. How are you? I’m good. I can when you were saying, you know, Claire, uh even remembering or maybe you had this written down and you checked your notes, but I’ll give you the credit of saying you remember because you remember everything, remembering. Um Episode two, Claire’s first time I was like, I, I believe the first time I was on was episode 100 right? And I don’t remember anything about what I said. So, ok, I don’t know what you said. I don’t know what we talked about. It was probably at that time, you were the social media contributor and then you kind of morph to social media and technology and now it’s technology which is, which is fine. It’s like uh John Cougar, John Cougar Mellencamp, John Mellencamp. Exactly. So you’re following and I’ll take, I’ll take this brilliant musician, well, and I, you know, maybe we could pontificate here that that’s a reflection of, of the sector and people over time feeling less hyper focused and, and distracted only by social media and thinking more generally about their technology and, and digital communications, you know, together. Um because you and I have brought them strategic advice for so long that they are listening to us and they are taking it all in. This is why you’re an author of multiple books because you see the bigger you see the bigger picture I just sent you show and, and explain how your, your contribution morphed but you see the bigger, you know. Yeah, absolutely. Right. Uh because at the time 2010, this was your first show was absolutely right. Show number 100 it was uh July 13th of 2012. And yeah, I mean, social media, Facebook, we were still, we were still pursuing Facebook likes like us on Facebook, like us and they donate to us on Facebook. Donation was new. So, uh and all the sparkly shiny new objects that came along through over many years. And then I think we uh we let them tarnish on the shelf and put them in their place. People got smart and realized that the newest thing is not where they need to be every single time because there’s gonna be too many new things for us to pursue. And uh and now it’s artificial intelligence, largely not, not completely, not entirely of course, but artificial intelligence dominating the news. So makes sense that you would be uh devoted to technology for us. Yeah. Yeah. And I, you know, it’s, it’s funny the way things come, come back around uh the same or come back around differently like a game of telephone. You know, like I think about those early so much of the time, especially in the context of, of nonprofit radio and thinking about fundraising and revenue supports for organizations and kind of strategy around sustainability, you know, trying to kind of get the idea out there that whatever you’re investing in these other platforms isn’t investing in yourself, you’re you’re giving Facebook, the content to make Facebook, you know, and now, and now with a, now we know what the, what the hell they do with it too. Everything, everything you’ve given over, uh, they sell it. They, yeah, you, you are there. We, we’ve talked about this, you are their product, you are their product. Your data is their commodity and now they can sell you their fancy A I tools back to you that they held off of all of your free content. And hopefully you keep putting content into that A I tool and keep, keep feeding that machine. You know, um I’m sure you have the comments about this, but I feel like that’s so much now of, of conversations that I’m in are places where I’m invited to. You know, people are saying, oh gosh, we have a lot of A I questions. Could you come? And I feel like all that I do is, you know, slap it out of your hands and play a sad trombone. Like this is not the party you think it is? Let’s be really, we have to be really thoughtful. It’s not that you can’t use A I or shouldn’t be having these conversations, but it’s just like those early days where, oh, we could have a Facebook page. I guess we should have 10, we could have a page on every social media platform there is, I guess we should do it. I guess we should do it shouldn’t be your tech strategy. You know, I like that. Let, let’s bring Scott in. I’m sorry, let’s bring Gene in Gene Takagi. Our legal contributor, Principal of Neo, the nonprofit and exempt organization’s law group. He edits that wildly popular nonprofit law blog.com and is a part time lecturer at Columbia University. Welcome back, Gene. So good to see you. Awesome to be here and celebrate with you and, and with all the gang. Yes. And I’m glad we got you while you’re on the road. Yeah, in Boston today. For, for, for some work stuff going to DC tomorrow. Um, and, uh, eventually back to San Francisco. But, uh, yeah, nice to be on the east coast. It’s warm though. Your east coast run. Yes, it is. Yes. You’ve, uh, you’ve come to the east coast in a, in a warm time. Um, if your, if your work ever brings you to North Carolina, of course, you need to let me know. I’ve never been, so I’d love to go someday. Oh, my gosh. You gotta come to the beach. Well, maybe for next year’s jubilee, you could host all of us, Tony. We were thinking about, I was thinking about a studio gig for the 750th show. Uh, a beach, a beach show we could do. I’m sure Claire would come up with a beach theme for us. We totally do that. All right. All right. We may be together for the 7/50 we’ll see, we’ll see about that gene. What’s been going on? What, what’s, uh, what’s the stuff that, uh, folks are talking to you about? Um, so I got a few things happening this summer that, that should be fun. I’m talking, um, to the State Bar of Texas, uh, uh, on, it’s called the state of the economy, um, and how that affects nonprofits, but I kind of have a view on the economy being a lot of different things all at once. Um So it’s strong, it’s in transition, it’s uh uncertain, it’s uneven and it’s beyond what anybody’s uh prepared for. So, um I have a lot to say about that. Um And that should be fine. I’ve never been to Austin before. So that will be my first time in Austin uh this uh August and then in September, I’m doing something for the Stanford Social Innovation Reviews Nonprofit Management Institute. I get to speak on one of my favorite subjects and that’s kind of on climate change and why that should be something every nonprofit should be thinking about Stanford Social Innovation Review. I have a little funny story about that. Uh The, the editor there is named Eric uh Eric Nee nee and I saw uh now this is a Stanford Social Innovation Review. S si r very prominent online and I don’t know if they’re still print but very prominent uh outlet uh for, for uh smart thinkers like Gene Takagi. Um And I saw Eric Nee, the editor of this prominent uh channel uh in his uh uh in his bathrobe outside his house. I was, it was unbelievable. I was on a, I, I had visited my uncle who lives in Half Moon Bay, California outside San Francisco. And uh I was on a shuttle, one of the shared shuttle rides to the airport sfo and so we make different stuff scheduled, uh people scheduled stops. So the stops are all in neighborhoods at people’s homes, pick them, you know, like a like in a shared that kind of shared ride, not at, at malls and one of the homes we stopped at was right across the street from Eric Knee. Now, I don’t know this and I was sitting by the window. So I look out and there and there’s the guy coming out, he’s picking up his, it was a weekend picking up probably his Sunday paper. It was probably, let’s say it was a Sunday and he’s in a bathrobe and I’m thinking that’s Eric Nee from the to he’s in his, he’s in his bathrobe and his slipper, he’s picking up his uh what’s the, what’s the, what’s the San Francisco Chronicle, let’s say right? Isn’t that the San Francisco paper gene? Is that a, it is OK. He’s picking up his chronicle. It’s laying out there, you know, not the side because the paper boy throws it at the, it’s a little community throws it at the end of his sidewalk and, and he, and sure enough. So I email him but like within three minutes because I’m so excited. Uh, and sometime, sometime along that he got back to me and said, yeah, that was me, that was me because I knew, I knew the address where I knew the street we were at. And he said, yeah, that’s my house. I, yeah, you were across the street from my house. So I have the inside, uh, he has bony knees. I would have to say or, and, and not because his name is, last name is Knee. But, uh, he does have bony, uh, knees. Oh, it wouldn’t be nonprofit radio without Tony telling a story where everyone doesn’t know you didn’t have any idea. The story was coming. Doesn’t know what to do with the story. Once it’s been offered, this is proper. It’s not profit radio, timely. Topical. I hear you. Gene. Thank you. I’m glad you’re Gene. I’m glad, I’m so glad you’re with us. Glad to go. I’m still stunned by all of this, but all right. Hey, Kate Martignetti, our associate producer. She’s a graduate of the American Musical and Dramatic Academy and now attending Rowan University in, uh, Glassboro, New Jersey. Her first show was number, 00, we’ll get to Jeans. Her first show was number 645. So she’s, uh, she’s our newest, newest addition to the family, which was on, uh, June 19th of, uh, last year. Good to see you Kate. Every week. Good to see you too. So, it may actually not the newest addition to the family already in the family. Predating nonprofit radio, the nonprofit radio, family of a non specific, but the Martignetti family, she’s been in the, she’s been in, in the Martinetti family for 21 years. 21. So. All right. All right. But, uh, any, any case, good to, good to see you, Kate. We, we see each other every, every Thursday night, Kate and I, uh, put to put together the show for uh Monday release. It’s all fun. Uh Gina, I gave you a little bit of short shrift. I, I wanna go back to you and, uh, just let folks know that you were also in, uh, your first show was also a single digit. You were, you were on your first show was show number seven. I remember it well, on August on August 27th of 2010. And we also had on that show, the, um, the New York Times reporter, Stephanie Strom back when, back when big time newspapers had nonprofit beats, which no longer haven’t existed for a long, long time. But Stephanie was on and, uh, um, and that was your first show number seven. It was awesome. He came down to San Francisco to, to visit with me too. I did after not long after, uh, that was a different visit to San Francisco. Not the one where I saw, uh, Eric Knee’s Knees but a different visit is when, uh, you and I, uh, you and I got together with, uh, your, your associate, the woman who was the associate in your firm at the time. Emily Chan, Emily, Emily Chan. That’s right. You used to do the show. Uh, you would do the contributions together. Well, I’m grateful to each of you for, for, uh, of course, being here for the 7/100 anniversary jubilee celebration. Uh But also for the contributions you make uh routinely the nonprofit radio. I really am. I really am grateful. Um Thank you. Thanks for putting up with us for all these years, Tony. I love it. I love it. It’s, it’s an absolute labor of joy, Claire. You’ve got some, uh you’ve got, uh we’ve got Claire’s quiz this week. I, I have a quiz. I have worked up uh a number of questions that I think uh everybody can enjoy the questions and answers to. I have one rule. Uh When I ask the question, anyone can raise their hand and I will call on the person I want to call on because this is not a democracy. It is my question. Just so our very first question uh Harkens back to something. The lovely Amy Semple Ward said earlier on the October 18th 2013 show, Amys Ward discussed something that had plummeted. What was it? And Amy, you can, you’re eligible to answer this question. Could you say the date again, please? It wasn’t her first show. It was, uh, 2013, October 18th, 2013. Any simple word discussed something that had plummeted. What was it? What did they offer up? Something that plummeted? Mm. We just feel like the word plummeted is important to the answer, but it’s giving me nothing. I have no memory of this show. Ok. It was Facebook Reach had plummeted. Ah, so see, back then they changed the algorithm, right? And, and Facebook reach plummeted which really affected nonprofits. They were all like, oh yes, we had such great reach and no, we don’t. That’s when they introduced the, the promoted posts and the pay to get your reach back up. Oh, all right. 2013. Wow. OK. Second question. Everyone can answer the first one, the first one for one. So our second question everyone can answer except Scott Stein. According to Scott Stein, he gets comparisons to this artist most often Bruce Springsteen, Elton John, Billy Joel or Tiny Tim Bruce Springsteen, Elton John. Billy Joel. Tiny Tim. Who wants to answer Gene? I’m gonna go with Billy Joel. Oh, you would be wrong. Oh, next, that was my guess. Next Bruce Springsteen, Elton John are tiny. Tim is tiny, Tim, an artist. Oh, believe you me. Like I need to hip toe through the tulips. I would say that if it’s not if it’s not Billy Joel, uh I would say Elton John. Yes, that would be the correct answer. That Scott Steiner, that’s the comparison he gets most often out of those. I would say Billy Joel is a pretty darn close second though because there’s new piano players. Most people know. I think Elton John’s not a New Yorker. Technically neither am I, I just don’t, oh, don’t tell anybody. You, you’re from, you’re from Ohio, right? Scott. I am. But I’ve been here 17 years. So, you know, kind of a New Yorker. Yeah, New York is not, uh, New York is not, uh, clubby. That way you have to be there 20 years to, to be considered, uh, from the place. It depends on who you ask. Brooklyn though. Brooklyn. You, you’re either born in here or, or you’re not a Brooklynite. Yeah. There you got, we got time for one more. Claire. Yeah, we got one more. This is a cute one. Ok. This five time guest has initials which are funny to a kindergartener. Five time guest. A kindergartner would think this is funny. His initials. These are good Claire. Can you tell us the topic that they might be a guest on? Well, he has written books, uh, he has written a book about media and nonprofits with, um, a lovely woman. I know from North Carolina co-wrote the book with him. He’s been on the guest. He’s not been on the show five times and his initials. It’s the same one each it’s the, it’s, it’s, it’s the same initial Peter P Panopo. Oh, Peter Pan Pan PP PPP. I was trying to come up with somebody that name with but, or something, you know, I think you gonna love that. I’m, I’m not in, I’m not in kindergarten but I think that’s hilarious. That’s a good 10, those are excellent. Claire. All right. All right. I got one. We got, we got, we got, well, we won for three. You one for three. Yeah, because we, we didn’t initially get the Scott Stein one. All right. One for three. All right, Scott Stein. Speaking of which, uh, Elton John, Billy Joel, eat your heart out. You’re not part of nonprofit radio. Uh, nor will either of you ever be. I, I’m not, I’m not speaking to either of those two artists. Uh, I don’t take calls from either Billy Joel or Elton John. Uh, but I always take calls from Scott Stein. Thank you. What are you gonna do for us? This first one, Scott. Um, I’d like to do a new song actually. Um, and it’s called, uh, it’s called Out of Order and, um, it’s just about how sometimes life happens the way you plan it, but usually it doesn’t and you learn to kinda take things as they come. This is my, this is my fatherly wisdom now that now that I got two kids, this public feels a little smaller than at sea, no matter how I try, I just cannot keep it clear. The clutters piling up on the kitchen. Oh, I just smile and laugh it off as best as I’m able. 20 years ago. I was a, I knew I had the answer. I knew I had a plan. The alarm is set where the kids are, um, little voices. A little and car funny happened. You trade your house of dreams for bricks and more. The herein long his ice cream days will come back around again. You’re the d I friend of call. And I always thought I’d had it all. Guess in what’s going down now, he’s moving to an apartment across town and I trade your house and here in long and they had this ice cream days come back around. Always used to say right, what you know, but I get the feeling that that should a long, long time ago and if horizon very often let it off, sometimes things are in and out of order. Some dreams lie over an imaginary. Yeah. But every day you turn, then you turn a little till your broken heart is bigger than any girl was before. Tree house. Tree here is and side screen treasure house here in the what? You know him? The come back around again. 00, wow, so nice. Thank you, Scott. Thank you. Love it. Scott. Will you join every conference call I have and just play musical interludes. It would, it would make long days on Zoom. So much more pleasant when you know, every 20 ish minutes take a brief moment and let Scott play a song for us. I thought you were gonna say like, have me be like the uh like the hold music, you know, or something. I mean, I’ll take what I can get, but I really did mean just like be on Zoom and you know, when there’s a lull, you just play a song. I think that’s an offering. I’ll write up a description for you. Cool. All right. That sounds good. That’s a, that’s a niche. I am willing to own. Hey, you got something for us. Yeah. So on each anniversary show, our sponsors get a few minutes to tell us about their company’s products. Here is Eric Tamales from Virtuous, pre-recorded with Tony. It’s a pleasure to have with us, Eric Tamales from virtuous uh a nonprofit radio sponsor which we are very, very grateful for Eric is Chief Evangelist and Director of Business Development for virtuous Eric. Welcome to the show. Thank you so much for the virtuous sponsorship. So glad to have you on the on board. Thank you so much for having me, Tony and having us allow us to support the work you’ve been doing. We’re so excited for you on your 7th 100 show. And what, how long have you been doing it for 14 years? Thank you credible. So good. So good. Yeah, 2010, we started off, uh, when podcasting was small, it was small. Um Tell us, you know, listeners hear us week after week talking about uh, responsive fundraising that, that virtuous is, is, is, that’s a core to the, to the business, flush it out for us. What’s responsive fundraising? You know, it, it’s interesting. It’s, uh, responsive fundraising to, to us is our methodology that drives all of our technology and all the work that we do. Um And as you know, Tony, I’m a, I I joke about this a lot is a, I’m a recovering fundraiser. I’ve been spending the last 20 some years on the front lines working with nonprofit organizations inside the organization. And one thing that I always, it drove me insane about was having all these desolate systems that never once talked to one another. So like we would have run an event or a gala or whatever it might be and our database team would download that report and then upload it into our CRM and we have to hope and we wish that it actually talks to one another and that it has good data and clean data and can break the right name and number and whatever it might be. And what responsive is, is kind of the modern approach to all things that we’re used to that right now. And I think through in my own household, think of it like a Netflix model, right? Like inside one household, my wife and I, we have one Netflix account and I have my own persona underneath my Netflix and she has her own persona. And so when I finish stranger things, which I often do because I actually like that show. It’s my, I’m on my fourth time watching it. Netflix listens to what I previously watched and will suggest another series based on those preferences and my wife’s not seeing hers, right, seeing mine, she’s seeing her own. And so our donors want that same experience. And when we start merging it, melding our technology together to be able to be one, we have the ability to say, hey, someone just attended an event, let’s take them down that donor journey or someone who just donated for the first time online. Now they have a first time new donor welcome series or if they just volunteered, the system can actually grow with it. So the main idea, responsive is having all of our technology talk to one and but going through four basic premises of we want to listen, we want to connect, we want to suggest and we want to learn and that methodology informs all of the work that we do inside our technology. So the CRM, the online giving the email, marketing, the technology volunteer management, all of that talks to one another to help grow generosity for our nonprofit organizations. So let’s flush that out a little bit because listeners also hear us talk about uh the CRM fundraising, volunteer management, the marketing tools, resources. Um ho how does responsive fundraising work its way into, in, into each of the, or let’s start with the CRM? Because I think that’s, that seems to be the uh your lead. Well, and I, I think the CRM is, would be our home base, right? And so all the different pieces around it would be the marketing and the automation and the signals and all the different technologies that inherently go to the CRM and have a conversation there. So uh like I said, like this new donor welcome series, you know, someone makes a contribution online $25 right. Right. So it automatically goes through the online giving portal, it tags onto the record. But now the CRM and actually talk to the marketing side of saying, hey, maybe we should take someone down and like, well screen them, maybe we should well screen them and be thanked appropriately by the right person inside our office rather than our annual gift officer who’s always gonna say thank you to the $25 donors. Maybe this individual has huge income producing assets, maybe it’s an ultra high net worth individual that should be communicated to by our CEO. So now we’re having a personal connection at a pro an approach to be able to drive that generosity and the right person is talking to the right individual. How about on the volunteer management side? What what does that look like, so the volunteer management side, there’s a couple of different areas that we, we have, we operate because holistically, you know, this, I, I come from the boy scouts, I think, you know, volunteerism is the beginning of generosity, right? Like it leads into our donor and constituents and individuals. And so now our system has the ability to track the number of hours that folks are, you know, are, are volunteering for our organization. But we also have this mobilization do application where we can actually register on our phones and we can actually go and volunteer. And so now you’re utilizing automation to say if Tony volunteer, if any individual volunteers over 50 hours, it will notify our gift officer team. Or if they say, hey, maybe they volunteered five times, maybe they need to get a phone call from our volunteer manager to be able to say thank you, right? Like all those different things to be able to all talk to one another. I, I appreciate your uh background in boy scouts. I’m, I’m a proud eagle scout. All right. All right. You always say, I always say I am an eagle scout, not I was Eagle for life. All right. Thank you, Eric. Thank you so much for the virtuous sponsorship, Eric Tamales hailing from uh Pittsburgh P A. Thank you so much, Eric. Thanks for being with us. Thank you, Tony. We appreciate it. I am so grateful for that uh for the virtuous sponsorship and they do have a very comprehensive suite of products that are all inter uh interrelated working together as uh as Eric described Claire. Let’s play some more Claire’s quiz. Oh, I’m so glad you like my quiz. All right, here we go. I have a few questions that concerned one of my favorite guests on your show who is a personal friend of mine, who I consider a mentor and just an all around fabulous guy and his name is Doug White. So Doug White has been on the show more than once. Tony, how many times has Doug White been on Tony Martignetti Nonprofit Radio? Anyone can answer but why would they know? But Tony should know, I guess dad Tony really wants to get this right. I can tell by his look of concentration to who, who’s Doug White? No, I know exactly who Doug White is. Former Columbia University. Is it 55 five? Ok. So we’re staying on the Doug White theme. Doug White’s book, Abusing Donor intent. One family’s epic battle against which university Tony? I, I know Columbia. No, Doug Whites. Doug worked in Colombia. He was the professor. And on your show, one family’s epic battle against which university it’s against Princeton University. That’s Princeton. OK. Which was the family that went back to Princeton University said give us back your money. Our money was the family, the Daniels family, the Robertson family, the Blackwell family or the Partridge family. I could have got that without the multiple choice. It was Robertson. Very good, very good. Princeton. That’s right. It was Princeton. He worked at Columbia. So here is one more question and I’ll let everybody have a stab at answer. Somebody else answered when this family, which was a, um, a MP Eric family heir of the A MP fortune, the supermarket fortune. And they went, again, they went up against Princeton University to get this, this massive gift that they had given a long time ago. Get that back. Both sides racked up legal bills. What were the total legal bills do you think? And Gene, maybe you have a thought on this. What was the total legal bills for both sides for this epic epic battle? Gene? What do you think? Maybe were the total legal fees in cumulative for both sides? Gene? What do you think it might be? I’m gonna say 18 million who you wouldn’t even be close? Gene? It was over $80 million spent on just legal fees. I’ve got charge more in San Francisco, the arguably the most expensive city, the world country, country, at least 8, 80 80 million million in legal fees because Princeton, they lost the case and they had to pay the legal fees for the Robertson family and they paid them $40 million in legal fees and they had spent more than that. Princeton. Gosh, isn’t that something? So, anyhow, all right, I have a couple more questions and the only one who can answer. Well, actually this is just for Tony. Tony who introduced you to Scott Stein. Do you remember? Uh, of course, the, uh, his former roommate from college, the lawyer, uh, his initials are JB JB. Right. JB JB J, Scott. I don’t know. I forgot his name. I’ll let you do the honor. It was Josh Becker. Josh Becker. So, you’re real close. He, actually, he was my roommate when I moved to New York. He wasn’t my college roommate, but I wasn’t too far out of college. So that’s that we’ll give you that one. All right. Well, thank you. All right, Josh Beckett. Right? Because I, he had done some legal work for me around intellectual property. I was just trying to trade or not trademark. I was trying to copyright. I think the blog at the time when blogging was, was uh more popular. Um, and so I asked him that guy was looking for some good music because I was stealing music from, um, um, fried. Was it called Fried Green Onion? The Booker T and the MGS fried green onions, fried green onions or just green green onions by Booker T and the MGS Green Onions by Booker T. That was gonna be my next question to you, Tony. And I was, had a multiple choice. So I looked up other 1962 hits like the song Green Onions and we had roses are Red by Bobby Vinton. The Locomotion by Little Eva. If I had a Hammer by Peter Paul and Mary 1962. Wow. She’s Got You by Patsy Cline and Twisting The Night Away by Sam Cooke were all songs that were, that were very popular in 1962. The same, the same year as the inspiration song for Cheap Red one. Well, yeah, it right. It was our very first. That was, yes, I was stealing. I was stealing the song. Uh and then we initially, we were stealing it, but then I did try to, so I confess initially we were stealing it, but then I did try to find who owns the, the copyright to the song and it was very convoluted. There was an agency and then they said, no, they don’t have, it’s not theirs and I was trying to license the song from somebody, but it was, it was a big mess. Well, I could never, I never found anybody. Um And maybe Josh Becker was even trying to help me. He might have even been trying to help me find the the right because I felt bad about being a thief of intellectual property. It’s not, it’s not a great thing to do. Um But it was the early days of podcasting, we can excuse it. It was what, what do, what do, what do we call them youthful indiscretions? It was a youthful indiscretion. I, I was only 37. Um So I made that, I, I don’t know for sure where it was 2020 2010, 2011, somewhere around there. Um, so I think Josh may have been helping me Scott to find the right agency to pay and we couldn’t do it. Uh, and then he introduced me to you and right, he, he wrote to me and he said, do you have anything that sounds like this? And I said, well, I don’t know if I got anything that quite sounds, if you know the tune, it, it, it isn’t quite that I was like, but I got this thing. It’s kind of got the same beat, same tempo. Let’s you know what, what the heck. Here, here you go. You see if you like it. And uh the rest as they say is history. Do you remember the fried green onions uh tune? Are you able to? Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Uh Give us a few. It’s uh it’s uh right. It’s in a million movies. I really, really famous instrument from the early sixties. So Claire, we guessed one of your, oh, we get credit for guessing one of your next question. Next question. You did really? Well, give you some more questions. Do we have time for a few more? Um We do. Yes. OK. Uh This one’s about me. So uh Tony, when this, this is just for Tony, when the show was in the development stage, Claire talked Tony out of including a certain feature. What was it at the beginning? This was before we look, when we were, when we were developing the, um, you know, the clock and the, and the whole thing, this is when it was the Tony Martignetti show, which, which lasted only one week. And you talked to me out of that. Uh, yes, I believe I wanted to do live, uh, news, weekly news. Roundup. Cody wanted a news, wanted a news feature in each show, but I said, Tony, no, you can’t do news because you need each show to be more evergreen. And if you have that’s not evergreen, it’s gonna sound really old later on. Whereas most of your shows, if you listen to them years later, unless you’re talking about the pandemic or something like that, they’re not dated, they’re, they’re good shows. Ok. So what was, why is, why is Counsel from, from Claire Meyerhoff? I’m, I’m a professional. Save me, save me from myself. Yes, that’s why, why you brought me on board. So, ok, after this episode on August 2nd 2013, Claire talked Tony out of doing a new regular feature that he’d been doing. What was the topic that soured Claire, Tony? Uh uh wine, wine, it wasn’t wine, but you’re kind of close the fermentation that it wasn’t. Tony decided that he wanted to, to change up the show and said, I, I want to start bringing in people have nothing to do with nonprofits, talk about different things. And so we had a few people on and I was in studio for one of the bigger, you know, one of the anniversary shows we were in Sam’s studio, the one on the west side. And you had this fermentation guest and I sat there going and then I was like, hey, Tony, you know, I don’t know if the listeners want to hear about. I think you should stick with the awesome stuff that people are coming to you for that. You’re an expert on which is discussing nonprofit issues and topics. So once again, fermentation, save me from myself. Yeah, I thought, well, we’d bring in other topics because nonprofit professionals are multifaceted people and they have lives. And so I’ll just try to anticipate what they would be interested in. And the first guest was fermentation. And then, uh and then I, I had this, I feel bad about this. I had Santa Claus lined up. Exactly Claire. I had, I had a Santa Claus like a Macy’s Santa Claus. Santa Claus. This guy was more authentic than even Macy’s. I, I saw him on I 95 because I used to drive between North Carolina and New Jersey and he had like a sleigh on his van was made up like a sleigh. It was painted like a sleigh and I looked at the driver and it was Santa Claus and it was just as good as um Ed Gwynn who plays him on uh Miracle on 34th Street, the, the, the, the original, the classic one and Gwen Gwen, he looked just like the beer and everything. So I got the guy’s number off the side of his Slay Slay band and II I booked him on nonprofit radio. And after Claire helped me save myself, save me from myself with the fermentation guy whose name was Sandor Sandor. His, his name was Sandor Katz, but he used to call himself Sandor Kraut because sauerkraut is a f we heard it. I didn’t know. But so, so you, you called us, did you call Santa Claus and unbook him? I had to, of course, I’m not gonna just blow off Santa Claus. Santa Claus had like a nonprofit angle like that. Then you could have had him on the show because you should, you know, if, if Mr Mr Fermentation had had like a nonprofit angle, then I think that kind of thing would work. But this was somebody that just painted their van. I had a, I had a fundamental misunderstanding of podcasting, which was everybody will subscribe to the niche podcast that interests them. If they’re interested in fermentation, they’ll find a fermentation podcast. If they’re interested in crocheting or Needlepoint, you’ll find the Needlepoint podcast, uh et cetera. So I had a fundamental misunderstanding Claire saved me. Thank you again. That was a good one. That’s a fermentation show. I love that one. Sandor Kraut. OK. We have to move on. We, we had um Pony Pony Martin. Any fermentation radio with cheap. That’s awesome. I was waiting for that reference. I didn’t want to be the one to say it. I have to say real quick that Tony um your story about how you met somebody on the side of the road off an I 95. That’s not usually how that story ends as he comes on a podcast just putting that out there. So, consider yourself lucky. That’s great. Scott. Santa Claus could have been packing. I would have been in trouble. All right, Scott. Yes. Uh, very good gene. That’s very good. Um, Scott got another song for us. Sure. Uh, I did a record a couple of years ago which, uh, you very kindly gave me a chance to talk about when it came out an album called Uphill. And so I’m gonna do a song that was, uh, intended to be the second single, uh, off the record and then, well, we had a newborn at home and so that sort of took over, but this would have been the second single had I had enough brain cells to actually, uh, to promote it properly. Uh This is called a little longer outside of the trees. The grass where I played as a little side of the yard, the bushes, 1000 baseballs outside is the child that I was that I wish a little more than he did and stay here a little longer with you. Outside, there is progress. It’s made of steel. Outside, there is change upon change and things are changing too fast. And outside those who aren’t old enough to know for seeking this to shell and stay here a little longer with you outside. But outside those roads and those highways. Oh, wow. Because outside are the noise and the pros, the complications of life outside there is darkness but for those moments shining. Possibly. No, sir. Tell you about how you were always ready. Stay here a little longer with outside are the signs and the reminders of all things you used to love outside stars and the heavy skies, the day and outside of the dreams and all ever had and stay here a little longer with you. Thank you, Scott. Thank you. You played a song uh last year from Uphill you played. Um It’s, it’s a good life. I did. Yeah, I was that one. I remember I was trying to come up with one that I hadn’t done on the show yet from, from the, from that record. So there you go. Thank you. Thanks Scott Kate. You got something for us. It’s time for Jenna Lynch from our sponsor Donor Box to share how their products can help our listeners. Fundraising. Here’s her pre-recorded convo with Tony Jenna Lynch is the education and community engagement manager at donor box. Jenna. Welcome to the 7/100 show. And thank you so much for Donor Box’s sponsorship. Hey, Tony, congratulations. First of all, on the 7th 100 show. That’s amazing. And 14 years of nonprofit radio, we are so honored and proud to be able to sponsor the nonprofit radio and thanks for having me. Oh, it’s a pleasure. Um We talk week after week about how uh Donor Box is a partner that helps you raise funds both online and on location. Why don’t you flush that out for listeners? Sure. Yeah. So at Donor Box, we help fundraisers who lack sufficient time, resources and technology to really achieve that growth and sustainability for greater impact, which is so many fundraisers, right? There are so many fundraisers out there that are wearing so many different hats and just don’t have the resources. So uh that’s what we aim to do. So like generic fundraising platforms. Donor Box is really a comprehensive suite of tools and services and resources, right? So it’s not just the tech, it’s services and its educational resources that really empower fundraisers with a custom solution to help acquire and retain because that’s the important part, retain the donors that they have while raising funds online. And as you said on site. So uh so far, we’ve helped more than 80,000 organizations from all around the world raise over $2 billion in donations. Yeah, that 80,000 number. That’s incredible. But congratulations to you for 80,000. It’s remarkable. Um Let’s talk about the services a little bit flush that out because the tech is the I I’m not saying the tech is the same. Of course not. There are features that are specific to donor box and special, but say a little more about the service that that’s not so common. Sure. Yeah. So I’d say what truly and I’m biased, right? Because I’m the education and community engagement manager. But I think what really truly sets donor box apart is our commitment to supporting the growth of our nonprofit users. So yes, you have this amazing tech and an amazing suite of tools that you can use through donor box. But you’ve got to have a sustainable plan and those best practices set behind that tech, right? So we really believe in the human touch. And so that’s why we provide a range of resources to assist you. So, first of all, I have to give a shout out to our customer success team. They are amazing and they are so dedicated to our nonprofit success and you should see us behind the scenes when we see an organization raising $10,000 at the Gala, we are actually truly celebrating in our team chat, like, whoa, look at them, go, right. Um So they’re available 24 5 and even on the weekends and their response time is like 15 minutes. It’s amazing, right? So that’s one thing is you always have a, a group of people who are there to support you. But then we also offer fundraising coaching through our premium package. So we have a few different packages through donor box. We have our standard free plan and we have pro plans for those organizations who are looking to scale their impact. A little bit more with a more comprehensive suite of add ons and analytics and all that good stuff. And then we have our premium package which includes all those goodies, but also one on one fundraising coaching with our amazing fundraising coach Britain. Um So you get those one on one consulting sessions which isn’t usually cheap through individual uh consultants, right? Um So you get someone who walks alongside you in your fundraising journey and helps you as you’re aiming to grow. But we also host monthly free webinars. We post weekly articles in our nonprofit blog and we produce weekly episodes of the nonprofit podcast and our ethos here is we always give you a practical action to walk away with. We can talk about big concepts and things that feel important in the sector. But then we’re gonna pause and say here are three things you can do right now to implement this in your organization. So again, we’re here to walk alongside you in your fundraising journey and of course, help you learn how the tech works behind it as well. You mentioned Britain Britain Stocker was just on the show well, within the past month or so. Yes, Absolutely. So, all right, Jenna. Thank you. Thanks so much for uh elucidating. Go into a little more detail on uh on Donor Box. And again, thank you for the for the donor box sponsorship. Again. Congratulations and thanks for having me. Thank you, Jenna Jenna Lynch Education and community Engagement manager at Donor Box. I am grateful to uh Donor Box as well for their sponsorship. Claire. Let’s do our final round of Claire’s quiz. Tony take two trivia time. Ok. Well, I have, I have two final questions and um the first one is going to be a uh where it’s just for you, Tony and you’re gonna get one point for each one and if you get 10, you win a prize. So it has to do with Amy Sample Ward because I love, I love them. So Tony name it list at least six cities where you, you and Amy Sample Ward have recorded Tony Martignetti Nonprofit Radio at N 10 06 cities. It doesn’t have to just be, it’s just you and I have recorded, it’s been lots of places just, well, 22 are Portland. So I get Portland and Portland. Yeah. Yeah, but they count as one, but I’m acknowledging you two. Um, the one outside Washington DC. What would we call that? Is that Baltimore? The, the uh, the inner harbor. Uh No, no, not Baltimore. The um the big place outside Washington DC. Uh What, what’s that? Um, the gaylord. Gaylord. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, the gay Lord George is Maryland. So that’s two. Number three actually. Uh, uh, was it, uh, San Antonio? No, it was Austin, Austin, Austin, Texas. Austin, because I think south by Southwest was coming right after us or before us before NTC. Mhm. Um, now I’m in trouble, uh, other places where NTC has you and Amy have recorded doesn’t have to be just, even if it wasn’t at the NT C. Oh, well. Oh, it was NTC. Of course, New York City, multiple, multiple shows with, uh, Sam in the studio in New York City. And, um, where was I last summer? I had to tune in from very far away. So we had to be together. You were in, uh, you were in Hamburg, close, correct country, Frankfurt, Berlin, almost Berlin, Berlin. Ok. So we’ll count cities where Amy has been. Ok. Ok. There’s, you missed DC proper DC. You missed San Jose. You miss New Orleans, you miss Denver, Tony Martin that I loved all those. That’s right. New Orleans DC. Oh, that’s right DC. Proper. The DC. Was that the DC Hilton, Hilton? Yeah. Yeah. Where they have the, uh, where they have the national correspondents dinner every night. You had staff, you had n 10 staff at, like every street corner. So that when we walked out of the hotel, they’d say, ok, walk out of the block and then that next person would shepherd us and now turn left. Ok. Now then, and then the next person would shepherd us one more block straight. You had somebody at every block. So to get us from the hotel to wherever, because we had, we had more, I think. Or, or something. Yes. And then I got New Orleans, of course. Uh, I love that. I stayed an extra couple of days and then Denver. Denver was just Denver just uh, two last year. Right? 2020. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. All right. Already forgotten. We have time for one more question. Don’t be harsh. Tony, do you want one or two more questions? Um Where are we? We got? All right. Do one more. Do one more. OK. And then Scott’s on. All right, in 2020 this man started a podcast called The Virtual Campfire. What is his name? I know it. What is it? Tony Martignetti? Yes. There’s another Tony Martignetti out there. Thankfully with a podcast, he’s been a guest. He was a guest on the show. Yeah, he was on uh two, I’d say a year and a half, two years ago or so. Thankfully, I’ve had savvy social media managers through the years. So I’ve got all the, I’ve got Tony Martignetti. You’ve got the seo on your name. All the good properties. I’m Tony Martignetti on Twitter X. I’m Tony Martignetti on Facebook. I’ve got all the good Gmail. I’ve got Tony Tony Martignetti, uh or Tony Martignetti at Gmail. Um I so thankfully I’m grateful to all my social media managers through the years who claimed uh properties. So this guy is locked out. He’s like, like Tony Martinet, I think he’s making a mistake on Twitter. He’s like, Tony Martinet won out the eye. Like, what’s, what’s the virtual campfire about? Oh, he’s a business coach. He’s a business kind of a business and, and personal coach, I think intertwined, intertwined, no fermentation highlights or anything. No, he, he’s not, he’s, he’s not that Savvy. He’s not that or if he goes in that direction, he doesn’t have Claire Meyerhoff to help to save him from himself. I still, because he doesn’t have Claire Meyerhoff working with his podcast. I’ll save any Tony Martignetti podcast out there. Oh, you can’t. No, you have to be loyal to this one. All right. Um So on Twitter, he’s like Tony Ma rt Igne tt one, Tony, who’s gonna, who’s gonna notice that difference beat Tony Martin at three or something that people are gonna notice that don’t, don’t hide the difference. You gotta flaunt it otherwise. And I do get a lot of his tweets and a lot of his, I, I stopped, I stopped forwarding them. OK, Scott. Everybody knows what you’re gonna do from your, from your 2009 album. A jukebox. You have to do Cheap Red Wine for us. A song about fermentation. The joke’s already been done, but it’s called a Callback. Let’s call back next year. What a fermentation song. This one’s for I 95 Santa Claus. The baby is just gave my target. Sooner or later I’ll figure out as to what you need. You’re singing romantic advice from a billboard. I’m looking for hands them on the TV screen and we nothing tailor up from down. We other baby at this use if I’m a charming, but I can’t figure out how and you said you thought I was handsome but it doesn’t matter now. So as long as you can, I got ready promises of the now you know, some girls that just live in diamonds and they won’t talk of the kind of clothing that I wear belong to B for the good stuff and go to, we try to do it the opposite. Do the best that I can. You have some competition and I’m a wealthier man you use if I’m a charming, but I can’t figure out how now the then from a your time promises now is a days the other be can kiss our ass have last of three signs because we’re perfect for each other. As long as we nobody else in my use if I’m a charming, but I can’t figure out how never mind it don’t matter. Now you keep falling from A P. It’s on your time. The promise. Oh. Mhm. Fantastic Scott. Thank you. Thank you and thank you Josh Becker for bringing Scott and Me together. You’ll find him at Scott. Stein music.com Scott. Thanks so much. My pleasure. It’s time for me to say thank you to everybody and farewell. I’m grateful I am. I get Misty here. I’m grateful for each of your contributions to the show. 700 shows strong. 1414 years podcasting. We’ve been around a while and uh we’re not going anywhere. So a week, 14 years, thank you. Thanks to each of you for what you’ve uh contributed to the show, which is helping nonprofits small and small and mid size shops, the other 95% right? We’re all helping that part of the, the nonprofit community. So I thank you on their behalf and, and for myself. Thanks to each of you. Thanks so much. Thanks Tony. Thanks for being such a champion for the sector. It’s always a pleasure. Thank you. Thanks everybody, Kate. Why don’t you take us out if you missed any part of this week’s show? I beseech you find it at Tony martignetti.com. We’re sponsored by virtuous, virtuous, gives you the nonprofit CRM fundraising volunteer and marketing tools. You need to create more responsive donor experiences and go giving, virtuous.org and by donor box, outdated donation forms blocking your supporters, generosity, donor box, fast, flexible and friendly fundraising forms for your nonprofit donor. Box.org. Our creative producer is Claire Martin. I’m an associate producer, Kate Marinetti. 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Drew Nelson, Cassi Johnson, & Eve Lacivita: Exploit Conflict & Intuition To Make Better Programs & Products
Our panel from the 2024 Nonprofit Technology Conference is Drew Nelson, Cassi Johnson and Eve Lacivita. They explain how to add conflict resolution and intuition-driven strategies into your program and product development. Drew is with the City of Saint Paul, MN; Cassi is at Software for Good; and Eve is from EdFuel. This closes out our 24NTC coverage.
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And welcome to Tony Martignetti nonprofit radio. Big nonprofit ideas for the other 95%. I’m your aptly named host and the pod father of your favorite abdominal podcast. Oh, I’m glad you’re with us. I’d bear the pain of cystolithiasis if you calculated to miss this week’s show, our associate producer, Kate has returned for your listening variety. Hey, Tony, we have exploit conflict and intuition to make better programs and products. Our panel from the 2024 nonprofit technology conference is Drew Nelson Cassie Johnson and Eve Lata. They explain how to add conflict resolution and intuition driven strategies into your program and product development. Drew is with the city of Saint Paul. Minnesota. Cassie is at Software for Good and Eve is from EDU. This closes out our 24 NTC coverage on Tony’s take. Two old friends were sponsored by virtuous, virtuous, gives you the nonprofit CRM fundraising volunteer and marketing tools. You need to create more responsive donor experiences and grow, giving, virtuous.org and by donor box, outdated donation forms blocking your supporters, generosity, donor box, fast, flexible and friendly fundraising forms for your nonprofit donor box.org here is exploit conflict and intuition to make better programs and products. Welcome back to Tony Martignetti nonprofit radio coverage of the 2024 nonprofit technology conference we’re hosted here by N 10. We’re all convened in Portland Oregon. Nonprofit radio coverage of 24 NTC is sponsored by Heller consulting technology strategy and implementation for nonprofits. With me for this conversation are Drew Nelson Cassie Johnson and Eve. La Vida. Drew is deputy director at the city of Saint Paul. Minnesota. Cassie Johnson is Vice president for product strategy at Software for Good. And she was Drew’s immediate predecessor in the job of directed deputy director of the city of Saint Paul and Eve, La Savita. We’ll see if she has a connection to the Saint Paul uh government administration. Uh Eve La Savita is, is managing director of product and innovation at Ed Fuel Drew Cassie Eve. Welcome. It’s great to have you all. So Eve, the burning question, are you, are you at all affiliated with the government of Saint Paul Minnesota? Were you in the past? Maybe in the future? Maybe you could be, you never know. I hear it’s a trend. You could be deputy director of the city of Saint Paul. You could be Cassie’s not the Cassie’s on her way out. But if she departs, if she should choose to depart, uh you might be her successor, I can take this one though, to explain the connection here if you’d like. So I work for an agency headquartered in Minneapolis, ST Paul and both of my esteemed colleagues here are clients of software for good. So we have a current work with the Office of Technology and Communications for the city of ST Paul where Drew is Deputy director. And we have a very cool project also with Ed Fuel and Eve is our client. And so that’s the connection between us. But, but you and Jonathan, you and Drew had the same job. I mean, you have, he has the job that you had. Yes, I hired him and then promoted him and then promoted him again. Ok. And he’s forever great. Absolutely grateful. Alright. And you left, you left the office in good order for Drew. You believe that? Alright. Well, I’m not gonna ask Drew whether that’s the case or not, we’ll leave it as uh we’ll leave it as with uh with your belief. Alright. Alright. Thank you. Thank you for explaining Cassie. So uh your uh session, have you done your session? You had your session, your session is harnessing conflict and intuition in product strategy and development. Uh Drew, let’s start with you. Seated closest to me, what’s uh what’s the need for this session? Um Really con conflict is an incredibly important part of effective product development and it helps really ensure that when you actually create something, it’s gonna solve the problem that you’re setting out to create and you’re encompassing the views of the folks that are um stakeholders um supporters or the users of that product and without actually leaning into the conflict, working through it and addressing the issues that are coming up in our uh through that you’re gonna just enable the dominant viewpoint, the loudest talker in the room, whatever you may be to uh pretty much steamroll through and create an app that might not actually serve the, the, the user base that it actually needs to serve or connect with the folks that it’s trying to connect with. And we’re talking about a product, uh a product strategy and development. So as deputy director of a, of a major city, what, what kind of products are we talking about? Well, product is a pretty nebulous term. I know, I mean, does that mean like a pothole, uh a pothole toll free uh collection line or it doesn’t have to be a technology product? And oftentimes we think about this in ways that aren’t that technology is just the support to this at the end. However, eve I think is an amazing person. If you don’t mind me kicking it over to her to talk a little bit about the product side. Let me pass over Cassie. That’s alright. Cassie. Seated in between Eve uh between Eve and Drew, we’ll come back to Cassie. I’ll make sure everybody gets a voice on nonprofit radios. Very equitable show. Great. Yeah, I’d be happy to talk about that. Um I think it’s so I’ve been in product for a long time. Um And actually came up through the, what I call the traditional tech space before moving into nonprofit. Um And one of the things that I’ve learned is that product is a very ambiguous term in this space. And so I think it is worth taking a minute or two to define what we mean when we talk about products, I’m glad I hit on something that you believe is valuable. It rarely happens. It’s dealing generally with a lackluster host. Well, it’s actually a little bit of for sure. It’s actually become a little bit of a thing thing for me since I first really entered the space fully and discovered that I was talking in language that nobody knew. Um And, you know, trying to figure out, oh, wait, I need to, I need to, you know, get clear about what I’m talking about in order for people to actually have a clue what I’m what I’m saying. Um So when, when we’re talking about product, it is a term that covers a lot of territory we’re talking primarily in terms of digital product. Um and that field. So the the practice of developing a bundle of functionality if you will, that you can name and put out in the world and it actually helps people get a job done. So in um in kind of the traditional tech space, like it can be something as broad as, you know, Facebook is a product, it can be something as small as, um, you know, the, the Buy now button in Amazon is its own product. Um, and the point being that, you know, you’re building something you’re designing something, um, that you can give to a human being and they can use it to actually do something that they wanna do. Um, in the nonprofit sense, you know, this could include things like, um, the, the Trevor project has a chatbot uh that helps train its responders um in crisis. Um And that is, that is a product. Um, a fundraising CRM could be a product. So that just kind of gives a sense of what we’re talking about when we talk about product. And I think the important thing for the conflict and intuition part is developing product is essentially a design and decision making process. And so inevitably conflict is going to arise during that because there’s never one right answer to how you’re going to do this and what you’re going to actually build. And I just want listeners to know that the, the arcade, which is the exhibit hall floor, but here at NTC, it’s called the arcade is coming down around us. So you may hear pipes, uh pipes, uh hitting the concrete floor and there’s gonna be crates moving probably very soon. It might be a little banging. There’s some banging for us. Not right on cue. It’s perfect. So, but nonprofit radio perseveres. So we are here, we’ve got another couple of interviews beyond this one. Even though the booths may be coming down around us, we continue so not to worry, it’s time for a break. Virtuous is a software company committed to helping nonprofits grow generosity. 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What’s the role of intuition here? So, yeah, this was something that I wanted to lean into because it’s not something that is comfortable for me. And I think when we talked about it in our session, um the intuition came in when we get that, that sense that something is off. Um And that we need to pause and lean in and ask ourselves, where is the misalignment? Where is the lack of shared understanding about purpose or understanding of a concept or where we’re not tracking towards the outcomes that we set out to achieve together? And how do we slow down to explore that together and ensure that we’re still on track? And I think a lot of work and, um you know, thought and framework and practice in the product space is about, you know, replicable and speed and staying on track and checklists. And we don’t talk as much about, well, what happens when we get that sense that maybe when we are talking about um users and we’re using a word about our users are people who are radio listeners, are we really exploring? But which segment and do we have a shared understanding of even what listener means or um families, you know, did we explore or interrogate what family means or that’s an even better example than radio listeners. Exactly. The definition of family has changed so much in the past seven years, 78 years. And, you know, when we are in a room and we start to sense that people are nodding their heads, but probably not actually in agreement. And we don’t take the time to say CS, I think there’s something maybe where we’re not on the same page here. And yet we know time in the meeting is running out and there’s a deadline and it’s uncomfortable and it might even, um you know, trigger kind of issues in the room around positional privilege or identity privilege or difference. Um It can be challenging to step in and take that risk and it can mean that we get three months down the road and we’ve not built the right product. We’ve not built a product at all. We’ve not delivered for end users. We have wasted money, we’ve wasted time, we’ve wasted effort. And so I think a lot of what we talked about in our session are ways to set up projects to ensure that we have ways to kind of conflict proof or address and get shared understanding on the front end so that we are mitigating against conflict tools to address conflict when it does arise. But I think that intuition comes in of just being kind of in our bodies sensing feeling where there’s that just something that comes up where you’re like, it’s not right and, and talk about honoring the intuition of others. So you set up a great, you set up a great hypothetical. We’re in a meeting, the time is running out and someone will leave out whether that person has power and privilege in the meeting or not. Just someone I know that I know that could be important, but someone in the meeting has a, has a stomach, a jumpy stomach about whatever, whatever we’re talking about, talk about the role of honoring the responsibility of honoring that person’s tuition, intuition, paying their tuition. No, honoring their intuition in the moment. Yeah. I think that’s a really great question. It’s something that I really, really value in my leader. I see her now when she sees it in the room and now I know what’s happening. We’ve worked together for quite some time and so I can see that she’s sensing it in others and either we’ll make a decision to name it to ask questions or we’ll follow up after the meeting, if she’s aware that it might not be the time and the space in the meeting. Um And so I think learning from her to start to recognize in others to create space, if it’s the right time and the right space, and it’s going to be productive to name it, to make sure that we’re not kind of just bulldozing through um when it comes up for others that were curious and open. And also, you know, if we explore and we’re curious and it doesn’t turn out, you know, we give it space but also not kind of giving in to analysis paralysis and following every lead to its conclusion to where we don’t make progress. And so I think it’s a delicate balance. Um But I think just understanding that there are many different ways of knowing and we lose the human part of the work that we do. You know, if we just wanted to automate everything with like we could have, you know, a I do product process if we wanted to give up the human elements around intuition and knowing and kind of being in that space together. Um And we wouldn’t, we wouldn’t get good human centered tools and solutions and products. One of the things that makes us uniquely human is intuition and conflict. I don’t know if, I don’t know if chat bots can argue with each other. I mean, I know they can argue with users as you’re prompting it. But uh I don’t know if they argue with each other, but too esoteric to deal with uh maybe next year, maybe next year’s artificial intelligence uh session topic. Um Alright. So what else? Uh What else have the three, the three of you talk about in uh in the session drew that we haven’t, we haven’t covered yet. I mean, I’m, I’m looking at your, your session description and we’ve kind of touched on everything like describe the roles of conflict and intuition and apply a framework plan to add conflict resolution and intuition driven strategies into your product development cycle. We’ve kind of touched on all three of these, but let’s go into a little more detail on that. Uh So we’re not holding off, holding back on nonprofit radio listeners. We don’t want that. We don’t, we don’t give them short shrift. Well, one of the other things that we spent a lot of time kind of trying to unpack was the identity, power and privilege that comes into the product development process as well as the conflict, especially that arises from it. And um really taking like thinking about it in three levels, from working through this as an individual, working through it with your team and then working through it with your organization, kind of understanding what is going to be achievable to drive change in that space and really getting a sense of what your privilege is bringing into that space. So the example here I’ll use is that, you know, as we mentioned, Cassie and I had the same, had the same role. I succeeded. Her, Cassie has more experience. Cassie has more education than me. And she hired you and hired me and promoted me twice and I stepped into the role and I made more money than she ever did in the role immediately. Um So that, that’s just a strong example of the, of the base level of privilege that I bring into that conversation because as while your readers don’t know this, I’m far more dressed down than Cassie is in this, in this engagement right now. Um And I, I got a leather jacket on and Drew’s wearing a pullo fleece. Um But that when it comes into a, when it comes into conflict cycles, if you don’t actually take a step back and recognize a, whether you’re inferred or conferred power, whether it comes from you or comes from your organization, how that presents in that uh that space and how that creates an opportunity or more often than not dis inhibits the opportunity for co for conflicting views to come up. You’re just gonna design what you’ve already designed before. Um And a really great way to look at that is your smartphone. Um the camera on your smartphone right now, there is a huge press to talk about how amazing these uh cameras are are actually avail coming up to the level where they can get facial features of black and brown people, people who have darker skin tones. Um and iphone 15 is really plugging this right now. Well, there were 14 other versions of iphone and my facial features showed up pretty well on all of them up and now they still do. However, a lot of folks did not have that same experience and there was nothing in that space that was different other than the fact of who was in the, who was in the room to help design some of those features and who was the believed user base of that because without leaning into that conflict and without stepping back, especially in a space of technology which is white is male. Technology. Leadership is even more white, even more male. Um You’re just, you’re gonna build to the room that you see or you’re gonna build to the the historic user base that you had and that leaves out huge swaths of the population and really inhibits the success of your application because it just drives around the people that have always been able to successfully work with technology in a session. Uh conversation last year, we were talking about equity in product design and development. And the my guest used the example of a uh an automatic water uh water faucet, you know, in an airport or in a public bathroom and how darker skin tones didn’t activate the water. They worked fine with paler skin tones. There are many, many examples just that one comes to mind and yours is yours is, you know, excellent as well. The, the all the models before the iphone 15, it’s time for a break. 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Uh, there’s a wedding there in September, but I’m gonna stay a couple of extra nights to visit a friend in from college who also lives in New Hampshire and in October, I’m going to uh Texas and then California to visit uh Air Force friends and maybe, maybe include Colorado in that, not sure about that part. Um But just, you know, the joy of actually seeing being with people. Uh it’s uh you know, I’ve, I’ve talked about how inadequate zoom is. I mean, it’s a necessary tool, of course, but it, it’s nowhere near comparison to uh being in a room with somebody face to face in person, IRL in the uh to use the parlance of our times, right? IRL. So if you can think about how you can think about how you can get together with dear old friends. And that is Tony’s take two Kate. I almost feel inspired to go like text an old friend from middle school. But at the same time, I think I’m just gonna, you know, like their posts on Facebook and Instagram for now. Why, why are you gonna stop short of, of texting them. I don’t know. I feel like I wouldn’t even know where to begin, you know, like, what have you been doing for the past like eight years since we’ve seen each other? You know, how would you, like, start that? Well, some of these fo, uh, let me see. Well, no, I guess the folks I’m seeing, I, I’m in, I’m in touch with but, ok, I’ll give you another example. Uh, somebody from, from my elementary school and then we went to high school together also. I have not been in touch with him since high school graduation, which would have been 19 80. That’s 44 years and somebody recently gave me his phone number. So I texted him and we’re gonna get together and chat. That’s 44 years worth 00, you know, you can do it. It just, you come on, it’s, you don’t say what have you been doing for the past 44 years? How, how are you, what do you do? Do you have a family? Where do you live? I mean, there’s plenty of stuff, you know, eight years is not really that much. It’s really not. I, I’m connecting with somebody. Look, I’m connecting with somebody 44 years. I haven’t talked to him. I’m literally not exaggerating high school graduation. Last time I saw the guy so you can come on, text your text, your text, your elementary school friend. Just say, how are you doing? Not catch me up each month. What have you done each month for the past eight years? What is that? Eight times, 1272 months? It would be too long. You can’t do it now. Obviously nobody’s got that kind of catalog. But what are you doing? What are you thinking about doing? Where do you live? You know, things like that? Do you have a car? You know? No, I, I’ll do it and then I’ll, I’ll keep you updated. Come on. Yes, you can reconnect with your, your friend of eight years past Absolutely. Well, you know what? Because another reason why if you don’t, because then another eight years will go by and then you’ll say, oh, now it’s 16 years now. It’s, now it’s, now it’s twice as difficult for me to reconnect than it was eight years ago. Text her, text her tomorrow. We’ve got just about a butt load. More time. Here’s the rest of exploit conflict and intuition to make better programs and products. How about you eve, what, what else, what else haven’t we talked about that? You’d like to share with listeners. Yeah. So, um one of the things that I like to talk about and, you know, help, help organizations with is, you know, how do we actually set really strong foundations in the first place? Um For first of all, avoiding certain types of conflict that really shouldn’t arise if you’ve got the right foundations laid. Um And secondly, help you resolve conflict when it does eventually arise because again, you’re gonna get conflict because it, there’s no, there’s no clear answer. There’s no one right way. Um And so one of the, one of the things that um I’d like to share is just some of those foundational approaches that folks can use. Um And a lot of this comes down to um when there’s good conflict that can happen in the course of developing product. Um But there’s um also some types of conflict that um are just super foundational and you wanna get it, you wanna address right away. And um a lot of the conflict will arise when you get to the point of like, well, we should build X, you know, we should build Y and all of a sudden you’re just, you know, arguing passion around, you know, one person loves this idea and the other person loves this idea. And there’s no, it’s just the loudest voice in the room. When this conversation is universal, it transcends product development. Um The product strategy and development, it really does. I mean, we could be arguing, there could be conflict about, we should do this program or not this program or we should expand this one and cut this one. And so I’m, I’m not trying to usurp your topic, but I just want to make it explicit for listeners that to me, this transcends product development strategy 100% does. And I really appreciate you saying that because I think a lot of this stuff does scale and transcend for sure. So a lot of times when those, when those arguments arise, they are due to lack of alignment in three particular areas. Um You’ve got lack of alignment around why you’re even building this thing in the first place. You’ve got lack of alignment around what, what success looks like, what the, what the outcomes are that you’re trying to drive or, and, or you’ve got lack of alignment around the norms of how you’re actually gonna make decisions along the way. And so spending time upfront, investing time upfront in actually establishing um what those things are, is really essential to the success of any, any product. Or as you know, as you pointed out any, any project, any process, any program um that that investment will significantly pay down, pay off down the road. So, for example, you know, when it comes to like, why are we here in the first place? Well, the two most important things that you can be talking about is, well, who’s, what’s the problem we’re trying to solve in the first place? And who are we trying to solve it for? So Drew’s mentioned a number of times and Cassie mentioned a number of times users and when we say users, it’s kind of a jargony term. What we’re talking about is the people who are ultimately going to be the beneficiaries of the thing that you’re trying to build and that’s what matters most more than anything else. And it’s, it sounds obvious but it’s amazing how often there’s lack of alignment around that usually because it just hasn’t been discussed. Um, it’s not a question of, you know, um, it, it, it’s just a question of not having surfaced those assumptions in the first place and explicitly had, having those conversations around, you know, we serve a population that looks like this. But right now, what we’re trying to do is solve a problem that addresses these particular people. Um And what is that problem that we’re trying to solve? Um Again, a lot of conflict typically arises when we get laser focused on what is the solution? And we lose sight of what is the problem we’re trying to build for people fall in love with solutions. And um I am a huge advocate of falling in love with the problem, not the solution. The solution is disposable. The solution’s a hypothesis. What really matters is, is it solving the problem? And to actually answer that question, you need to be really clear about what the problem is in the first place and actually write it down and spend time discussing it and get super nitty gritty about like, do we actually have a shared understanding about what the problem is? And do we, you know why do we think this is a problem? Where is that coming from? You know, is this something that we are speculating about or do we actually have really strong reason to believe that this problem exists? Um You know, it’s, it’s amazing how many solutions are designed for problems that don’t exist or we’re profoundly misunderstood um hand in hand with that is, you know, what does success look like for this? And this is not um what is our list of requirements for this, which is where a lot of people start. Like, you know, I’m sure Cassie gets this all the time. Hey, we’re gonna hand you a list of requirements, you’re gonna build this for us. And um that is, that is a recipe for disaster because again, you’re gonna lose sight of those, th those, those that list of things may or may not solve the problem that you’re solving for and it, it uh takes away the, the creativity um and the iter of nature of figuring out like what are the right solutions bucket of solutions that could potentially solve for this problem. Um And so, you know, to, to really, but at the same time, you need a North Star to work towards and that North Star really needs to be aligned around what are the outcomes you’re trying to drive for this. So instead of, you know, success looking like here’s the description of the thing that we’re trying to build. It’s more like here’s the change we want to see as a result of building this thing. Um And the, and, and stating that particularly from the point of view of the person who’s experiencing it, you know, it’s fine to have a success metric that looks like, you know, we’re gonna serve X number more people. Like that’s not a bad metric, but it’s not gonna help you determine whether or not you’ve solved that problem, you know, that, that articulation of that end state is going to look more like, you know, as a, you know, in the, in, in the case of my organization, um it’s going to be as an, as a, as a talent lead in an educational organization, I can do XY and Z better or I have this much more confidence or I am experiencing this thing and that I and this is not me, the individual, it’s not, it’s not eve it’s the person that I’m who, whose change I’m trying to, to drive. Um And so having that, that alignment, there is fundamental to any, any product, any project, any program. Um and you wanna be building towards that, that shared understanding of what success looks like for your organization. But mo most of all for the user that you’re trying to, that you’re trying to serve. Um Yeah, I was gonna move to Cassie. So the only other thing I wanted to add is that, you know, the third piece is the norms and we could, we could spend a lot of time on what, you know, those norms, like, you know, who’s got the decision making power and you know, who’s playing what role in this. But I think the most important one to call out is making sure that you’ve got a norm around. We involve community and users in the development process. And ultimately our decisions are being made off of, you know, we have actually tried to figure out if this works for people before putting it into implementation and heavily engage them in the process. Cassie, what would you like to add that we haven’t talked about? You want to share with listeners, something that you brought up and something that came up in our session yesterday. And I think this is probably really clear based on what you’ve just described. And I’ve been a nonprofit executive director, I’ve been a nonprofit development director. I don’t have a highly technical background and now I build apps, I design apps, I don’t code, but I work with developers and with our clients and what I have learned the secret that I’ll let you all in on and your listeners is that, um you know, technology is way more complicated than what I think probably we want to let on. And the complexity is not at all technical. It’s all the things that nonprofit leaders deal with every day around people and process and community um and values and strategy and many of the practices that I used as a nonprofit leader are the same things I do every day with our clients. And then the technical piece comes in maybe at like 5%. Um And we have really smart people who work with us and I don’t want to undermine the value of the code and the work that our developers do. But in terms of product design, um most of the work that we do is very similar to what I did as a nonprofit leader. And I think sometimes people who do the work that I do are invested in making it feel way more technical and kind of building a gatekeeping, gatekeeping around what it means to build technological solutions. Yeah, they have a language that’s arcane and jargony to, to outsiders. Uh they have degrees that, that certify that they have expertise or at least they certify that they have a degree expertise may vary. But I also think nonprofit leaders are very, very quick. I mean, I probably did was one of them to say, oh, technology, you know, as a nonprofit leader, I had a CFO, right? And I had an operations person who had hr background, but I felt responsible for understanding my financials. My board wouldn’t have let me not have financial understanding and an understanding of hr policy in my state. But no one was asking me about, you know, our it I was able to completely outsource all of that stuff. And so I also think that in this day and age. I’ve talked with nonprofit leaders who have a very sophisticated platform. They have a product, they have a technology product and feel very uncomfortable with that. They don’t embrace that they are a tech nonprofit. Um and aren’t able to kind of embody that part of their leadership in the way that they would finance our hr And so I think I would just kind of make a call to your listeners in the nonprofit space of just kind of embracing that part of their leadership. And also knowing that it’s really just more people in process stuff. It’s the other stuff that they do that’s important. Um And kind of owning that as a part of their leadership, I’d like to stop right there. I think that’s uh it’s kind of ideal. Thank you. That was Cassie Johnson, Vice President for product strategy at Software for good with her is Eve la Savita, managing director of product and Innovation at Ed Fuel and future Deputy Director of the City of Saint Saint Paul. Uh Cassie and I uh Eve and I will be following along. I’ll have to do you have to do, I have to live in Saint Paul to be the deputy director. OK. I’ll move. It’s a beautiful place and with them is uh Drew Nelson who is the current Deputy director of the city of Saint Paul. Thank you very much, Drew Cassie Eve. Thanks for sharing and thank you for being with Tony Martignetti nonprofit radio coverage of the 2024 nonprofit technology conference where we are sponsored by Heller consulting technology strategy and implementation for nonprofits. Next week it’s the 7/100 show and 14th anniversary jubilee for nonprofit radio. Oh, we’ll have live music from Scott Stein co-host Claire Meyerhoff, Gene Takagi and Amy Sample Ward. Our sponsors will check in and Tony and me. It’s fun and gratitude. Can’t wait to uh share the 700 show with you that it’s, it’s um great, great fun, great fun. Oh, and also uh Claire Claire has a quiz for uh for all of us, Claire’s quiz. Of course, it’s Claire’s quiz. 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Welcome to Tony Martignetti nonprofit radio. Big nonprofit ideas for the other 95%. I’m your aptly named host and the pod father of your favorite abdominal podcast. Oh, I’m glad you’re with us. I’d be stricken with dysphasia. Not last week’s dysphagia, dysphasia. If I had to speak the words you missed this week’s show. Our associate producer, Kate is away this week. It’s all me. We’ll get through it. Hey tone. Oh, sorry. Continuing our 2024 nonprofit technology conference coverage this week. It’s improve your communications with A I. Carlos Morales from Viva technology shares. How to use specific chat GP T prompts to accelerate your written drafts. Optimize your messaging for clarity and audience and personalize your outreach as you maintain a consistent voice tone and brand all through artificial intelligence. I’m Tony Steak too. Giving usa why do we have to wait six months? We’re sponsored by Virtuous, virtuous, gives you the nonprofit CRM fundraising volunteer and marketing tools. You need to create more responsive donor experiences and grow, giving virtuous.org and by donor box, outdated donation forms blocking your supporters, generosity, donor box. I’m channeling Kate fast, flexible and friendly fundraising forms for your nonprofit donor box.org. This isn’t so hard here is improve your communications with A I. Welcome back to Tony Martignetti nonprofit radio coverage of 24 NTC. You know that that’s the 2024 nonprofit technology conference. And we are in Portland, Oregon at the Oregon Convention Center. We’re sponsored here by Heller Consulting, technology strategy and implementation for non profits. With me now is Carlos Morales, digital marketing strategist at Viva Technology. Carlos. Welcome to nonprofit radio. Thank you so much. I’m glad to be here. Pleasure. Thank you. How’s the conference going? Are you enjoying? Oh, I’m loving it. This is very good. Is this your uh this is actually, this is my second one in like in the last 14 years. And so it has been a while. It’s been a while since you came, you miss them. I mean, NTC is a very good conference. It is. It is, I mean, great, great information, great sessions and great networking opportunity, meeting awesome people learning from a lot of people as well. Yeah. Have you done your session? I did, I did yesterday. People learned from you and now you’re learning from others as well. This is the community, the N 10 community. It is. It is. And uh your session that you did yesterday is accelerating nonprofit communications draft, refine and personalize with A I, correct. All right, personalization. It’s possible. It is, it is. Well, give us the overview first. Why, why did you feel we needed this session? Sure. Uh Well, as you know, A I is sort of actually now the uh the talk of the town, right. And so a lot of organizations are using A I or want to learn how to use A I to actually communicate better, to market better and to reach their audiences better. And so it’s a great tool. It allows to save, uh save us a lot of time. It can give us great ideas and how to do our job better. We can be more efficient. And so the whole purpose of decision is actually to give practical tip hands on uh tips and how to use chat G BT in this case, uh effectively for nonprofit organizations uh create some efficient and effective communication strategies. So, yeah. Alright. So uh you say, you know, draft, refined and personalized. So why don’t we take those in order, drafting comes first before we’re writing? So what’s, what’s your advice around the use of A I drafting? Sure. So when we’re talking about drafting, communication is basically let’s, let’s uh let’s talk about CG BT as being the tool that he actually we talked about yesterday. It’s going into chat GP T uh and prompting or giving instructions to cha G BT on a specific task. For example, help me write an email about fund raising for my donors. Um And you know, I want this email to be very uh to have a grateful tone. Um And I want you to cover, you know, mention all the goals that we were able to achieve based on our fundraising strategies. It’s just, it’s just a simple prompt. This is a simple instruction. Now, Judge GP T is gonna come up with, OK, here’s the email based on the instruction that you gave me as you actually read the first draft of the email, right? What you’re getting is basically, that’s the first thing that’s the draft based on one instruction, the email comes up and then you’re gonna actually now refine it. But the whole idea right now is just to start getting some ideas, brainstorming and what would be the best email I can send out to my donors? That’s it. So I’m just giving you one instruction, you create the task and then from there we’ll go and improve it. So that’s the draft piece and, and we’re gonna, we’re gonna, we’re gonna improve it with future with additional instructions exactly in a prompt. And so that’s when the refining piece comes along because then as after I looked the draft, I can say, well, this is great, but I want you to be more specific. And so, and I want you to address the donors that actually donated between five and $10,000 for example. Um and I want, and I wanna make sure that uh you know, as you were thinking them, I wanna make sure that we actually put a link where they actually can go and click on it so they know how their money is being used. So now we’re actually adding more instructions to be able to actually refine that email. Now, maybe the first draft was not what you wanted. Maybe the first draft was too vague, too general. Well, the refining piece is giving more context, more detail to cha GP T. So you can actually get better results and you go from there. So this is obviously an iterative process, you know, using A I in G BT or any other language model is not a one time thing. It’s not like giving instruction once you’re gonna come up with, you know, with the best idea, the best email, the best marketing communication is not gonna happen. So you have to continue talking at it providing the context or the additional information for that, you know, for cha GP T to give you the best result possible. OK. Yeah. So you know, we’re talking about prompt engineering, which is a fancy way of saying, you know, learn how to talk to A I by giving actually the right prompts the right instructions. That’s what that is. And we had a session yesterday, a conversation about prompt engineering with uh with two other guys. Um All right. So is that enough? I mean draft refine and then personalize right, the personalized piece though, after you are refining after you’re enhancing your communication that email. Now, we wanna make sure that we are personalizing, right? Remember that I said donors that actually donated between five and $10,000 that piece of it. There you are segmenting you are, you are sort of actually personalizing your message to a specific specific segment of your audience, right? Because the language that you’re using is gonna be different for someone who probably donated about $1000 right? Because that money might go to a different cost. And so that’s the personalizing piece. The other thing too is that you can actually train cha GP T to adopt the tone, the brand voice of your organization. For example, you can actually give them documents, you know, past emails or a specific flyers in which you say I want you to look at the way that we have written this communication pieces to donors and I want you to actually adapt or a adopt that specific tone into the email. So that’s where the personalization and keeping your brand voice comes in. So that’s, that’s the piece about personalizing it. But you’re gonna, when we talk about personalizing it, it’s pretty much talking, you know, we’re talking about let’s let’s communicate with a specific type of audience. No, in this case, we’re talking about donors, it could be parents, it could be youth, depends who, who, who your target audience is. Yeah. OK. And right. And the personalization also comes from you giving it text to train itself to you, to train it to adopt my tone. Use this ii I don’t know, use some of the maybe use the language of the second paragraph, you know, or things like that. It’s time for a break. Virtuous is a software company committed to helping nonprofits grow generosity. Virtuous believes that generosity has the power to create profound change in the world and in the heart of the giver, it’s their mission to move the needle on global generosity by helping nonprofits better connect with and inspire their givers. 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Alright, I mean uh there must be more to talk about because you had a session we just did draft or fine and personalized. Um What what what, what more, what more do we need to talk about? Sure. Well, I think we look what we’re talking about actually communicating with JG BT. The whole thing is about prompting is actually about, you know, making sure that you know, exactly or you learn how to actually talk to it, give the right instructions. So one of the things that we talked about is OK, we actually came up with a basic structure, right? In other words, first thing that you wanna do is actually just state what your uh goal and the communication type is. So in other words, if you’re asking to write an email, that’s a communication type, the goal is to actually raise awareness about a specific, about a specific cause. You wanna also give context, tell cha GP T why this is important. You wanna also highlight the audience who is the audience going to be. So in other words, if the email is going to donors, that is my audience, you know, donors that actually donated between five and $10,000 for example, right. And what’s the call to action when I want them to actually go to a specific website for them to actually see how their money, how their funds are being used So that’s the structure, right? Basic structure that a prompt should have. When you actually have that structure, then you actually come up with a very good draft. In fact, we actually put it in practice yesterday. And when people actually saw that email, the first draft, they say, well, that’s a pretty good one. So when, when you actually come back into an editing mode, you’re refining it. Obviously, you spend a lot less time. Why? Because you were specific in the first try. If the promise to beg you’re gonna come, you know, you’re gonna have an output, you’re gonna have an answer more, more generic. So you’re gonna end up editing a lot more. So that’s the whole, that’s the whole, uh you know, kind of the whole idea is to actually learn how to talk to it. Now, I’m just mentioning, you know, email, but you’re gonna use it for marketing, how to create effective social media post. You can fact give it a, you know, if there’s a social media post, for example, either from your organization or another organization that actually has created a lot of engagement, you can grab that post, give it to chat GP T and say this post generating, you know, 25 shares had about 1000 views, whatever, whatever the metrics that actually you get from that post, you feed it to chat GP T and say I want to create something similar. But my audience is Xy and Z right, please adopt the best practices that you found from this post to generate one that is actually gonna work for me. Do you need to say please, you know, GP T just do it right. So it’s interesting because we, we, we were talking about it and one of the decisions like, well, you know, che GP T appreciates when you are polite and say please and thank you because you know, there’s been some research where this actually shows that when you are polite, you know, it’s end up producing better results for you. There’s research. Yes. However, however, the nice thing about this, you can actually read all this research in the world, but you can actually test it yourself. Is there been instances on my, on my end where I haven’t said please and then the results versus versus an instruction when I say please doesn’t change much. OK? So in my experience, you know, this is, this is one of the things that I’ve done. I get frustrated with cha GP T and you know what I’ve done is like you did not do what I asked you, you are making stuff up, you’re hallucinating because that’s the term that we use. So you’re making stuff up, please. OK. Revise the instructions and pay attention to details. All right. So I use the, please, then I draft the same prompt, same instruction without the plea and I pretty much get the same result right. There’s some instances when the results varies. A little, a little bit, right? But with a GP T, I’m gonna be honest with you, you can use the same prompt right now. Uh And then 10 minutes later you get a different, a different, um a different result. I’m gonna give you an example. So yesterday, someone asked at my session, OK, what happened if you actually say to chat G BT, write this email based on the target audience, you give it an audience and, and, and, and, and all the criteria. But then for the second prom, you say write an original email. What’s the difference between those two? Actually, there’s none because when you’re asking chai to write something, it’s going to be original. He’s actually creating the text for you. All right, you can edit it, you can change it, you can go back and forth, right? So, so we tested it out. So we tested it out. And so basically, we’re asking the same thing and one prompt, you know, uh we didn’t say original, the other one, we did. Obviously we had two different answers, right? Because because just one word that we changed now, what happened when you actually use the same instruction? The same one, no changes whatsoever, identical prompts, we also get different answers, but they were close but different answers. Here’s what happens when you can grab both, both of those answers. And you can say, oh my God those are good. What I can actually take from each of them to make one that is actually better and what you can do, you can give both answers to Cha J BT. And I said, I like both of them mention what you like about it. And now I want you to create one final email based on the instruction based on this criteria to make sure that is the best of the both versions that you gave me. So see all the things that we can do with it. And I’m just talking about text based, but we can do a lot of stuff, we can ask it to help us create prompt, to create images um to analyze data. Um You know, for nonprofits, for example, yesterday, we talked about let’s talk about different roles that you have in the nonprofits, right? You have a grant writer. How can you use a GP T to actually write a grant that’s very useful, you can actually fit in the whole information of the grant application, right? And then you can actually give a specific instructions and to tell you, you know how to actually answer those sections from the grant application with the tone of your organization. Make sure that actually highlights or give more importance to some of the sections of the grant of the grant application that it needs to be given importance to. But making sure that it maintains the whole brand’s voice, right? Obviously, it’s gonna come up with an answer. It’s not gonna be a perfect one. That’s where you actually go and start refining it and going back and forth. That’s, that’s just one, you know, one practical way of doing it. It’s time for a break. Imagine a fundraising partner that not only helps you raise more money but also supports you in retaining your donors, a partner that helps you raise funds both online and on location so you can grow your impact faster. That’s Donor box, a comprehensive suite of tools, services and resources that gives fundraisers. Just like you a custom solution to tackle your unique challenges, helping you achieve the growth and sustainability, your organization needs, helping you help others visit donor box.org to learn more. It’s time for Tony’s take two giving USA. Why do we have to wait six months for a report about fundraising the previous year giving USA comes out each June 6 months after the end of the year, we used to have a far far superior product. It was the Atlas of giving longtime listeners to the show. May recall that the Atlas of giving Ceo Rob Mitchell was on the show several times, usually maybe always in January because the Atlas had and he was announcing the report on fundraising from the previous year in January. And on top of that, very importantly, he came with the forecast, the quantitative forecast of fundraising for the coming year and he had this report from the previous year and the forecast by sector, meaning nonprofit mission sector. He used to say, sector source, the source of the giving and state state, he could break down giving by state. He could tell you that last year, what the dollar amount was of arts fundraising in the state of Wisconsin. And in the forecast, he could tell you what the religious fundraising is going to be for the coming year in the state of Maine. That’s how robust and detailed and sophisticated the Atlas of giving was giving USA doesn’t even come close to this and we have to wait six months for it. And the forecast you get from giving USA is qualitative like uh the election and inflation and donors perceptions will impact fundraising this year. Oh What, what brilliant insight. So, so, so deep, the analysis and, and so actionable for us, it’s worthless. Uh OK, so what happened to the Atlas of giving? Uh it, it, it fell away, you know, so if, if I here I am saying it was far superior, why didn’t it survive? Well, the best products don’t always survive. Um In this case, it may have been underfunded. So the marketing and promotion was not adequate giving USA has its relationship with the University of Indiana and the Lily School of philanthropy which lends it uh undeserved uh credibility. And so, you know, puts those institutions imprimatur on the, on the giving USA product uh I believe it’s misplaced, but anyway, it’s there. So, but I, I really don’t have a complete answer as to why the Atlas of giving didn’t survive. I think the last report was 2017. So I think the last time Rob Mitchell was on was January of 2018 with the report from 2017, again, such deep analysis by sector source and state. And also, of course, then he had the forecast for 2018. I guess I’m voicing frustration and lament that we don’t have a better product. And uh I lament the loss of the Atlas of giving. That is Tony’s take two, Kate. No, of course, Kate’s not here. We’ve got just about a butt load more time this week. Here’s the rest of improve your communications with A I. Again, when you say use, use our tone, our voice, you can train it with your own text. You can even give it URL si mean, maybe a blog post or you can copy and paste or whatever. Well, and Tony, here’s the thing about it that you said give it a blog post. Somebody actually asked yesterday can actually, can I give cha G BT a link to my page? So he knows a little bit about me about my organization and ask him based on that information to actually write an email, making sure that he’s skipping that brand’s voice, that has a little bit of background of who the organization is. And use that when it’s actually drafting that email, right? And so, um, and you can certainly do that. You can certainly do that. And so, um, so it’s powerful, there’s so many things that we can do with it. You know, I’m gonna share with you a, a concern that I have that I shared with the, the, the two, um, the two technologists who were talking about the prompt engineering yesterday. And I’ve shared this with other folks too. I, I’m interested in your reaction. Um My, my concern about the use of chat GP T or any of the, the generative A I tools is that we’re, we’re seeing away our most creative time, which is the blank page, the creation of the draft. We’re staring at the blank screen. How do I get started? Um You know, where should I start with my ending or should I start with my call to action in the middle or, you know, but where that to me is the most creative that we can, we can be and then less creative than that is refining editing, you know, copy editing, uh proofreading naturally, you know. Um So, so to summarize it, like my concern is that we’re, we’re gonna become less creative, we’re giving away our most creative moment. That blank screen moment. What’s your reaction to that? You know, I don’t know what kind of answers you get in regards to that, but I have found myself to be more creative by using Chat G BT. And the reason why is because now I’ve learned how to be more effective at communicating and given a specific instructions. Not only that though, but as I’m actually seeing the answers, I start thinking of ideas that I actually can use to enhance the final product that I want from cha GP T. So in other words, to me, for example, if I’m looking, I’m gonna give you example, I did, I did my workshop yesterday. Did I use C GP T to create an outline for my workshop? What do you think the answer to that is, of course, I did have I done workshops before on marketing and social media and uh and technology. Yes, I have prior to chat GP T. What did I do to create an outline for a workshop that I was about to present? What do people do? You go to Google? Right? You do a little bit of research, you can come up with an outlet yourself, but then you go to Google and you start actually looking at case studies, you start looking at concepts you start looking at and then you start putting all the information together. What Cha GP T does is basically grab all the information that he knows that exist and actually put it in a package for you in front of your screen based on the instruction that you give it. That’s what it does, right? So, so to a certain point is like if I want to write an email, for example, I would say to cha GP T I need to write an email, right? Um Ask me clarifying questions to get more context before proceeding. That’s it. Then cha G BT will say, all right, you, I I understand you need to write an email. Now tell me who the audience is. What’s the type of tone that you wanna use in the email? What are the key messages that you want to convey? These are things that well, we, we already know that we need to write on an email. But what chat G BT is helping me is kind of actually be more organized if there are things that I’m seeing there that I hadn’t thought about. And then once I see it is, oh my God, I forgot this. Now, now chat G BT is prompting you exactly is prompting me instead of actually thinking and being a little bit more creative and how I can enhance that process. And so that’s the way that actually I see it. Um So I don’t think the creative process is gonna go away. What is actually happened with shifting and how to be creative in a different way by using technology. And so, and that’s, and that’s the way that I, that I see it. That’s actually I see it with the people that I work with and how we have applied A, I thank you. Creativity in a different way. Yes, definitely. Um What else do you want to talk about? We, uh we could still spend some more time. What, what haven’t we gone deep enough on or? Well, yeah, I think, uh you know, for nonprofits, for example, but this is the audience of your, of your podcast. It’s like the question is, how do we actually use a tool like cha GP T to be more efficient? Well, you know, I gave you prior examples and how it can help you save lots of hours. You know, one of the things that we talked about yesterday was like, you know, if you want to write a blog post and you want to write a blog post about um mental health issues for teens uh in your, in your local area, for example, and the purpose of the blog post is to educate parents and provide resources well, prior to cha GP T, you probably would think and you will look at the blank screen going back to your, to your concern and you probably spend about eight hours trying to write, to write a very good blog post. Right? Well, with J GP T, we can certainly actually spend between 2 to 2 and four hours and actually write a very good blog post. Now, what happened with the other four hours, the other four hours that I’m not spending now and writing a blog post can be used in the marketing piece of the blog post. Now that I have written it, what can I do to actually promote it better and making sure that parents actually get to see it and get to apply what I have I have written for them to do or the tips that are provided for them in terms of mental health and, and, and, and, and how to deal with that with, with their, with their Children, for example, with their kids. And so notice how technology now is being used more efficient and we become more, I mean, uh more efficient on time, but more effective in the way that actually we produce results. So those are some of the things that I think is important for if you are a for nonprofits, if you ask the question, OK, what are the number one thing that you want cha GP T to help you with a lot of people are gonna raise their hands, they’re gonna say content creation, how to create more engaging content on social media. For example, my goodness, you have these tools, it’s gonna help you do that, right? And so when we’re talking about, you know, uh you know, using a GP T more for the nonprofit organizations, you know, one of the things that I would say is like get good at prompting. But on the other hand, just yesterday, I was reading an article where prompting in a few months is not gonna be something that it’s gonna be needed because what’s happening is as this technology advances, um the la language model is actually by just giving an instruction, the language model is gonna be able to actually predict what exactly is it that you want. So, and so basically, it’s not gonna be, you know, you’re not gonna need to be more detail than necessary sometimes. And so, so it’s a dancing rapidly, right? You actually go and go to websites and grab uh you know, uh prompts library for any type of role that you want. And then what you do is just copy and paste it and edit it based on your own needs. Prompt library. Oh yes, yes. So you want you, you know, you copyright it. Yeah. If you actually are a graphic designer, uh data analyst, there are actually prompt libraries in which you actually for anything pretty much that you want, you can copy it and paste it, edit it as you see fit and it will allow you to get more results faster, right? And so, so, you know, for nonprofit organizations, one of the things that I say is like, let’s get good at the basics first. If you get good at the basics, you’re gonna, you’re gonna see right away. Very good results. You’re, you’re gonna actually produce some tangible results, great results for your organization and then you’re gonna be able to now promote, better, communicate better. Um you know, if you are using uh cha GP T to create content on social media, you’re gonna be able to actually see the results of that by the content being more personalized, remember, personalizing and refining. And so those are the things that I think will be beneficial for fund raising. My goodness. If you’re, you’re fund raising and you have a database of donors, you feed that to cha GP T and you start segmenting your donors based on the amount of money that they actually have given you. Not only that, then you personalize that email, like I told you at the beginning based on that, not only that those that are actually have not engaged with you or for some reason, they haven’t donated with you in a while. How do we re engage them? How do we make sure that we remind them of the cause that at some point they actually, you know, believed or they engage with us at the first, but they haven’t done in a while. How do we re engagement? How do we actually make sure that actually they, you know, they donate, they come back. So look at all the great benefits that you can actually as a nonprofit can reap from this technology. It’s just knowing how to use it, right? It’s key. But you know, but as you, as you’re learning how to use it, the creative, the creative actually thought comes to you and say, oh my God this is just one tip of the iceberg. Now we can do this, this and that. So that’s what I say is technology for me had to allow me to actually be more creative in the way that I do things. All right. Yeah. All right, Carlos, we’re gonna leave it there. All right. Thank you so much. My pleasure. Thank you, Carlos Morales, digital marketing strategist at Viva Technology. Thank you very much again for sharing, Carlos. 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